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self-improvement is real guys
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If you're in HS it's irrelevant. If ur in college/uni idk bruh just join clubs. Start going to the gym, most people in the gym are pretty friendly (and cringe so you'll fit right in). Anyone that says there dating life is fucked, just join a dating app and gg. There are some absolutely hideous people on there / straight whores.
ronaldinhoooooooooooo [#10]If you're in HS it's irrelevant. If ur in college/uni idk bruh just join clubs. Start going to the gym, most people in the gym are pretty friendly (and cringe so you'll fit right in). Anyone that says there dating life is fucked, just join a dating app and gg. There are some absolutely hideous people on there / straight whores.
Also just get any job that interacts with customers. At least the customer and workers will be forced to talk to you. Might not be what you want, but you gotta get used to just talking to people. Gotta start somewhere
make some new hobbies man, find some fun shit that encourages you to go out, socialize, and make friends
truth be told, it sucks that your life is as miserable as it is but nothings gonna change if you dont try to change it yourself. youre gonna have to advocate for yourself and regain some self confidence n then people will start to realize mayb itd be worth getting to know you. life is so much more meaningful when you encircle yourself with people that care abt u and are there for you when shit is tough.
but otherwise, hope u know that u arent truly a burden or useless or any of that bs, everyone has a place in this world and the potential to be p fuckin amazing.
gl out there dont give up jus yet buddy
Ailed [#12]make some new hobbies man, find some fun shit that encourages you to go out, socialize, and make friends
truth be told, it sucks that your life is as miserable as it is but nothings gonna change if you dont try to change it yourself. youre gonna have to advocate for yourself and regain some self confidence n then people will start to realize mayb itd be worth getting to know you. life is so much more meaningful when you encircle yourself with people that care abt u and are there for you when shit is tough.
but otherwise, hope u know that u arent truly a burden or useless or any of that bs, everyone has a place in this world and the potential to be p fuckin amazing.
gl out there dont give up jus yet buddy
thanks a lot for everything man 🙏 ive been trying to find new things to enjoy for a few years now. picked up coding, and bunch of other things on the way.
i just want to press some type of restart button to reverse some mistakes, but all good im looking forward to the future
ronaldinhoooooooooooo [#11]Also just get any job that interacts with customers. At least the customer and workers will be forced to talk to you. Might not be what you want, but you gotta get used to just talking to people. Gotta start somewhere
thanks for the tips. i will definetely start looking into this
bobkiller [#16]if this is true it’s actually sad seeing the responses in here from some people
some people really are disgusting and don’t care about other people. you guys should reflect on the messages you sent in this thread
if this is true
bobkiller [#16]if this is true it’s actually sad seeing the responses in here from some people
some people really are disgusting and don’t care about other people. you guys should reflect on the messages you sent in this thread
thank you so much for the awareness and getting involved bro, it means a lot ☹💚
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#15]thanks a lot for everything man 🙏 ive been trying to find new things to enjoy for a few years now. picked up coding, and bunch of other things on the way.
i just want to press some type of restart button to reverse some mistakes, but all good im looking forward to the future
unfortunately there is no restart but once you get the ball rolling I have faith that you can ride the momentum and make some major change.
it’s just the first step that’s the hardest, ik it sucks but it’ll all pay off.
you’ll find your place and your people in due time, just don’t grow complacent and strive to be better every day.
you’re loved and you have a purpose dont give up on us :)
Okoretro [#6]just get out of india your life will be truly better
bro i never lived in india in the first place i just have roots there
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#25]I wish it was one of them
Download disc again and join the VLR community cup discord, we can talk later. I'll DM u here.
Typer [#8]Just sell ur PC nd interact in real world and if you wanna talk. Feel free to dm me. I'm all ears and love to hear you
Selling my pc is something which would fall very hard for me, i want to be a software engineer or do some type of comp science in the future so the computer is essential for me
Other than that youre right i have to interact in the real world but how, i want to meet new people and get friends but i just cant seem to find any
SAMPV6 [#31]Download disc again and join the VLR community cup discord, we can talk later. I'll DM u here.
Okobotro is waiting for you in emea chat CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer
benjy [#32]go play basketball bro and listen to kanye west and travis scott 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏it change my life
bro ive been looking into getting back into sports like basket and football frfr, this might be a life changer
thanks for the reminder
benjy [#34]Okobotro is waiting for you in emea chat CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer
Is he actually though? Its midnight tho
bobkiller [#27]because you seem like an insensitive piece of shit
you need my age to determine that?
SAMPV6 [#31]Download disc again and join the VLR community cup discord, we can talk later. I'll DM u here.
yeah i will look into that... for now im gonna go sleep
aylez [#24]unfortunately there is no restart but once you get the ball rolling I have faith that you can ride the momentum and make some major change.
it’s just the first step that’s the hardest, ik it sucks but it’ll all pay off.
you’ll find your place and your people in due time, just don’t grow complacent and strive to be better every day.
you’re loved and you have a purpose dont give up on us :)
thanks for all the kind words 🙂 i will look to be a better version of myself each and every day.
Kai__ [#40]Better days are on the horizon, my friend. Remember, it's the challenges and struggles that give life its true meaning, making the pursuit of peace all the more precious. Keep your spirits high ❤️
Thanks a lot for this bro 🥺❤ This made me feel a good bit better
I'm gonna be so real with you bro, get off this site and look at ways to better yourself away from the internet. Invest in yourself, take care of yourself, your hygiene, what you eat, your health and you'll start feeling better. Stop playing valorant and stop looking at it as the only thing you have left. Soon when you get a job that you enjoy you won't even want to touch the game. You are where your mind is, start thinking ahead to be ahead.
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#42]Thanks a lot for this bro 🥺❤ This made me feel a good bit better
Im glad man <33 also try to involved in some sort of activities like any kind. Try to pursue a passion of yours. Im rooting for you to find the inner peace of yours
sheesherz [#44]this is a hot take and I will get downvoted but find your purpose: 1 GOD
this might help too try looking into it
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#33]Selling my pc is something which would fall very hard for me, i want to be a software engineer or do some type of comp science in the future so the computer is essential for me
Other than that youre right i have to interact in the real world but how, i want to meet new people and get friends but i just cant seem to find any
sell your PC and get a laptop that is crappy enough not to play video games on, but good enough for coding, do what i did; get a macbook since you cant even play games on it + it has good specs and apple updates their devices for a long enough time so it is resalable.
I feel you man, you said you are not using discord anymore. However if you wanna add me I play a lot of games alone, because like you no friend0s games like sons of the forest, phasmophobia, operation tango, orcs must die etc.
as of right now I am playing sons of the forest if you wanna join me, just send your discord and we can have some fun together.
I dont know how old are you, but just for context I am 27 living in Brazil and my english is undertanable hahaha
People overestimate what they can do in a day, and hugely underestimate what they can do in a year. My advice is to build momentum: write down 10 things you want to do about yourself that can lead to a better life, things like "i want to be physically active in some way", be generic and lenient when writing the list. Sort them from highest impact to lowest impact, and commit to the first point of the list on the first month, point 1 and 2 on the second month and so on... after a few months you'll start seeing some results, and after a few more months the other people are gonna notice a change as well, and that's a big motivation injection and you'll be glad you took action
Alanzika [#49]I feel you man, you said you are not using discord anymore. However if you wanna add me I play a lot of games alone, because like you no friend0s games like sons of the forest, phasmophobia, operation tango, orcs must die etc.
as of right now I am playing sons of the forest if you wanna join me, just send your discord and we can have some fun together.
I dont know how old are you, but just for context I am 27 living in Brazil and my english is undertanable hahaha
Tem 27 anos na cara alanzika? Oloco
hunkkz [#51]Tem 27 anos na cara alanzika? Oloco
sim sou um homem feito. kkkkk
sou programador passo maior parte do tempo no pc.
entao sabe como é né hahaha
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#38]yeah i will look into that... for now im gonna go sleep
aight, I'll catch u later then bro, gn
Okoretro [#6]just get out of india your life will be truly better
lmao he lives in Switzerland 🤭 so he should leave eu and his life would be truly better 🤭
Sorry to hear this, try to play some sports or whatever, do something active that maybe will clear your mind. Also set goals for yourself, if you put your mind to something it will help you overall. Also, at least from my experience, people aren’t gonna push you away just because you’re friendless. If you make the effort to talk to them, hang out with them, they will grow on you eventually.
LyCan52 [#69]lmao he lives in Switzerland 🤭 so he should leave eu and his life would be truly better 🤭
then he should go to india
his life would be truly better
Demon0 [#50]People overestimate what they can do in a day, and hugely underestimate what they can do in a year. My advice is to build momentum: write down 10 things you want to do about yourself that can lead to a better life, things like "i want to be physically active in some way", be generic and lenient when writing the list. Sort them from highest impact to lowest impact, and commit to the first point of the list on the first month, point 1 and 2 on the second month and so on... after a few months you'll start seeing some results, and after a few more months the other people are gonna notice a change as well, and that's a big motivation injection and you'll be glad you took action
Thanks man🙏🙏 Improvement starts today
So consider this as Day 1
Blinded [#45]I'm gonna be so real with you bro, get off this site and look at ways to better yourself away from the internet. Invest in yourself, take care of yourself, your hygiene, what you eat, your health and you'll start feeling better. Stop playing valorant and stop looking at it as the only thing you have left. Soon when you get a job that you enjoy you won't even want to touch the game. You are where your mind is, start thinking ahead to be ahead.
Facts, i will only look upwards from now on
Thanks a lot man 🙏
love_trial [#9]another transphobic if i speak poster self reporting their vitriol coming from self loathing and despair 🤔
Tis What i was thinking...
Hope he can overcome both tho
julingre [#81]i was in a pretty similar place a few years ago.. what helped me overcome this was getting into sports and doing therapie, spent 4 months in a mental institution which really helped a lot
i will definetely look into sports. i dont feel neccessarily depressed though. i dont feel like i need therapy atm. i will look in which direction it will go
Orangepanda [#63]Bro is a troll here and then hating his life 🤡.
reverse the order and it makes sense
B1itz [#61]wow the responses fucking suck, sorry man, there's not a lot to say on VLR about it but tons of people feel the same way as you, if you want someone to talk to ill send you my Discord
thanks man, i know a lot of people here are probably just trolling but even if they are genuine dickheads im aware that such people exist and i dont take up negative energy on me, you can be assured that i greatly appreciate all the nice comments here because its been a good damn while since i read/got some
hunkkz [#43]I think all of us, people who access sites like this, have been through that phase in our lives. I don't know you, and you're literally on the other side of the world right now, but I hope get okay brother, This tough moment will pass
Thanks brotha 🙏🙏❤
sheesherz [#44]this is a hot take and I will get downvoted but find your purpose: 1 GOD
I am already a religious person but praying to god every day wont magically solve my problems. Im willing to take matters into my own hands
Alanzika [#49]I feel you man, you said you are not using discord anymore. However if you wanna add me I play a lot of games alone, because like you no friend0s games like sons of the forest, phasmophobia, operation tango, orcs must die etc.
as of right now I am playing sons of the forest if you wanna join me, just send your discord and we can have some fun together.
I dont know how old are you, but just for context I am 27 living in Brazil and my english is undertanable hahaha
Hey man, thanks for this. I dont play any games except val tho, so i dont think i can play w you. But feel free to shoot me your discord through a dm, i will add you once i set up my discord
Since I went through the same stage as you, I can completely relate to how you are feeling right now. Of course, each of us faces a variety of issues in life, and we may believe that this is the most significant one. I was forced to spend a significant amount of my childhood without my parents, and from my perspective, the situation I find myself in right now is the absolute worst one can be. I am telling you this because challenges can affect people, regardless of how severe they are. Your situation is also one that needs to be known and helped, and I would love to be a part of it. But in my opinion, only we can truly discover and improve ourselves. At the very least, I think that is the case.
I see that some of the sensible people in this thread have already advised you to do the things that will certainly aid your recovery. I wholeheartedly agree with them and want you to know that you are NOT alone and that there will be people who care about you in the future.
Yistyy [#7]You're from Europe and have a fartnatic flair so not surprising
well, based on that, you're fat and the equivalent of a psg/man city fan in valorant
Don’t let the Negativity around the social media affect your energy King. Us men know what you’re going through. But also know that if you ask for help and want someone to talk to you can always hit me up. And I’m pretty sure almost everyone here would do the same for you.
Right now you feel that you don’t have anyone to talk to, but Let me tell you that’s actually a blessing. With how sensitive, inconsiderate, and selfish people have become, you wouldn’t wanna invest your time in them.
Remember the ABI of life. ALWAYS BE IMPROVING. Just focus on becoming a better version of yourself and don’t find happiness in some other people. Try to find happiness in yourself and you’d be surprised to see how little you’d wanna interact with people when you start loving yourself.
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#77]nop
How’s your physical and financial condition. Like are you fat and dress like your homeless?
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#83]i will definetely look into sports. i dont feel neccessarily depressed though. i dont feel like i need therapy atm. i will look in which direction it will go
this is an even better starting point then!
good luck to you!
Crystalzer0 [#94]well, based on that, you're fat and the equivalent of a psg/man city fan in valorant
I mean, I don't follow soccer at all so idk. But im actually underweight asf
h786 [#48]sell your PC and get a laptop that is crappy enough not to play video games on, but good enough for coding, do what i did; get a macbook since you cant even play games on it + it has good specs and apple updates their devices for a long enough time so it is resalable.
any laptop good enough for coding will certainly be good enough for valorant lmao
love_trial [#9]another transphobic if i speak poster self reporting their vitriol coming from self loathing and despair 🤔
- im not transphobic
- kinda sad how you put yourself in the victim spot on a very unfitting place and time
SenseiSplinter [#103]now the question that lingers in my brain : did you write this with chat gpt too?
no
what makes you think that
hungeryman [#95]Don’t let the Negativity around the social media affect your energy King. Us men know what you’re going through. But also know that if you ask for help and want someone to talk to you can always hit me up. And I’m pretty sure almost everyone here would do the same for you.
Right now you feel that you don’t have anyone to talk to, but Let me tell you that’s actually a blessing. With how sensitive, inconsiderate, and selfish people have become, you wouldn’t wanna invest your time in them.
Remember the ABI of life. ALWAYS BE IMPROVING. Just focus on becoming a better version of yourself and don’t find happiness in some other people. Try to find happiness in yourself and you’d be surprised to see how little you’d wanna interact with people when you start loving yourself.
Thanks a lot brotha 🙏 Ive been making a mental map of every positive comment so far and this one certainly is one
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#88]I am already a religious person but praying to god every day wont magically solve my problems. Im willing to take matters into my own hands
you are misunderstanding his point. its not about what you can get out of it. its about how everything naturally falls into place when you have a purpose in life. when you have a purpose, you have direction, when you have direction, you take the necessary steps towards that direction. and God is the biggest purpose. i dont want to get too much into it since religion is banned on this site but i really wish i could explain it to you better. No one is saying a dove will magically fly over your head and drop a crate of a million dollars. its not about that. you have to have a peace of mind, that no matter what happens, you have a sense of calm. have you seen how some of the poorest/disadvantages people have the biggest of smiles on their faces?
Im willing to take matters into my own hands
people think you are discouraged from doing that in religion, but no, do your best! try your hardest! this is what its all about, do you think we were all created just so we could wallow around and not use our full potential? that would be counterintuitive. but at the same time, keep your trust in God, because things do eventually go wrong and when they do, its up to us to keep our trust in God do what we can
cocoluna [#97]How’s your physical and financial condition. Like are you fat and dress like your homeless?
no, im not fat at all, i think im pretty decent built and no i dress normally id say
h786 [#109]you are misunderstanding his point. its not about what you can get out of it. its about how everything naturally falls into place when you have a purpose in life. when you have a purpose, you have direction, when you have direction, you take the necessary steps towards that direction. and God is the biggest purpose. i dont want to get too much into it since religion is banned on this site but i really wish i could explain it to you better. No one is saying a dove will magically fly over your head and drop a crate of a million dollars. its not about that. you have to have a peace of mind, that no matter what happens, you have a sense of calm. have you seen how some of the poorest/disadvantages people have the biggest of smiles on their faces?
Im willing to take matters into my own hands
people think you are discouraged from doing that in religion, but no, do your best! try your hardest! this is what its all about, do you think we were all created just so we could wallow around and not use our full potential? that would be counterintuitive. but at the same time, keep your trust in God, because things do eventually go wrong and when they do, its up to us to keep our trust in God do what we can
a lot of true things stated there my friend 🙏🙏
i will look forward to pray once a day
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#108]Thanks a lot brotha 🙏 Ive been making a mental map of every positive comment so far and this one certainly is one
All good my guy! You got this. When you said that only your mom and dad loves you, let me tell you this that they are the only real people in your life who wants you to succeed and doesn’t envy what you have or what you’ll achieve in life.
Start with short term goals in your life, that you want to achieve. You said you wanna become a computer engineer, start learning skills that will help you get closer to that goal. Like Hey, I wanna complete this task by the end of the week. And start doing it. Trust me when you feel like your are achieving something in life, you’ll start to feel good. And wouldn’t even be interested on your own to talk to people cause they would mess up your energy
Vegaaa [#104]Incredibly real. Incredibly relatable. I am in your shoes and I hate it here. Good luck loser.
Thanks vro. I hope you make it over there, i count in you brotha take love take care
ash_knuckles [#114]don't you code? yeah keep doing that. you don't need people. relationships are government propaganda
don't you code? yeah keep doing that.
yeah i do. im working on a new 'project' for vlr.
you don't need people. relationships are government propaganda
thanks chief
ballsinyojaws [#118]you gotta go out and do shit, you can't just sit in ur room all day and pity yourself, not even tryna BM, it is up to you and you only to change your life, go to the gym, get a job while going to school and meet new people, good luck
real shit, i have to stop putting myself in the victim spot and start doing some shit. people not giving a shit about me will continue but if i got a full version of myself i think i can live along
seere [#116]i'm in the same spot as you, maybe even worse. try improving your looks (if there is anything to improve) because thats the only thing that matters for other people, not exaggerating. you will get treated better and eventually your life wont suck anymore
true af. im looking into going to the gym because that would help me look better but i have no idea where to start and i am afraid to go there
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#120]true af. im looking into going to the gym because that would help me look better but i have no idea where to start and i am afraid to go there
just start going. as a beginner your main goal is to go there consistently no matter how much or what exercises you are doing. just allot some muscle groups to different days and look up exercises targeting them. in a month or so you will eventually figure out your routine and diet
reycac [#4]15 year olds be like life is over ,bro u didn't even give it a go
Please save me Donald trump please 🧟
CryoZanderDerrekEnjoyer [#106]
- im not transphobic
- kinda sad how you put yourself in the victim spot on a very unfitting place and time
spade is a spade :D
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