yall are so controlling and disgusting i genuinely feel pity for u
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saying your girl can't have male friends is insane
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ok at first i had skepticism but now i KNOW THIS IS ragebsit geared towards me
sh1lll [#3]ok at first i had skepticism but now i KNOW THIS IS ragebsit geared towards me
how is saying your girl CANT have male friends not controlling, do u hear yourself
lyssss [#7]how is saying your girl CANT have male friends not controlling, do u hear yourself
if ur being fr ill just repost the same thing i said b4
lyssss [#7]how is saying your girl CANT have male friends not controlling, do u hear yourself
legit not what he(?) said
sh1lll [#9]if ur being fr ill just repost the same thing i said b4
yea sure buddy😭😭😭😭
Teunoin [#11]depends on the situation but i mostly agree tbh
insane thing to say
lyssss [#12]yea sure buddy😭😭😭😭
ok ur not being serious so ill js say the one word i need to
preference
lyssss [#7]how is saying your girl CANT have male friends not controlling, do u hear yourself
I couldn't care less if she did but if she asked me not to have female friends I would oblige seeing as in most cases it's the right thing to do. Also being a guy I can tell you most guys think with their dick and not their brains. So in most cases that way it's fair. It's fair to ask that of a partner both ways.
sh1lll [#14]ok ur not being serious so ill js say the one word i need to
preference
ill just say one word too
misogynistic
brams6663 [#15]I don't have female friends so I'd expect the same
Omg thank you
brams6663 [#15]I don't have female friends so I'd expect the same
disconnected from reality completely
lyssss [#17]ill just say one word too
misogynistic
i guess i’m a misogynist bro
lyssss [#13]insane thing to say
i agree with you? how is that crazy? it depends on the situation bc i think as a guy there are some people you can very clearly recognise who actually want them, in which case i find it also not a weird thing to bring up and ask yo, but its still their decision
sh1lll [#20]i guess i’m a misogynist bro
it's not a guess you literally are?
Raize1 [#16]I couldn't care less if she did but if she asked me not to have female friends I would oblige seeing as in most cases it's the right thing to do. Also being a guy I can tell you most guys think with their dick and not their brains. So in most cases that way it's fair. It's fair to ask that of a partner both ways.
my points exactly
Teunoin [#22]i agree with you? how is that crazy? it depends on the situation bc i think as a guy there are some people you can very clearly recognise who actually want them, in which case i find it also not a weird thing to bring up and ask yo, but its still their decision
oh i thought you were agreeing with the other guy
Feuerstern [#24]the fact this is a debate is disgusting
why could u not have friends
Acethyr [#28]yo whyre you so misogynistic bro
unbelievable
dude sorry bro i’m also against women’s rights somehow idk man it’s just all adding up
Feuerstern [#24]the fact this is a debate is disgusting
not only its a debate, most people here think im geniunely crazy for saying this. i always leave this convos feeling so weird cause there's no way people actually think like this on a serious note
Feuerstern [#27]why could u not have friends
because i am apparently a misogynist and hate women that’s why
sh1lll [#32]because i am apparently a misogynist and hate women that’s why
no genuinely, why cant ur partner have friends, no matter the gender
sh1lll [#32]because i am apparently a misogynist and hate women that’s why
bro U said that not me😭
Feuerstern [#27]why could u not have friends
you're obviously lacking in eq to not get it
sh1lll [#25]my points exactly
I mean people could speak on technicalities and say it's not a problem they can have male friends vice versa. It's very must possible. But guys can be horny shitters and so can women. It goes both ways full stop. It's up to the 2 individuals in the relationship to decide their own boundaries.
lyssss [#26]oh i thought you were agreeing with the other guy
But yeah if i notice there to be any ill intent by a guy friend i will ask her to cut contact
can't have male friends? I personally think she shouldn't have friends at all, full stop. friends will always have a negative impact on your relationship, make sure to isolate your girl from her friends asap or she'll leave you
Feuerstern [#33]no genuinely, why cant ur partner have friends, no matter the gender
did u like even bother reading my replies
i made it abundantly clear
i no expect her to change for i
i trust girl. i no trust other guys
it not one way street. it two way street
it preference
it opinion
it’s the same icks you got that i got
-Artorias [#36]Fucking cucks wtf
cucks = not letting your partner have a friend of the opposite sex?
do u hear yourself? i have female friends that i care about a lot and if a girl ever told me to cut all of them off i would end the relationship instantly, you cant dictate who im friends with and its crazy how normalized it is, yall are the real insecure people
Raize1 [#37]I mean people could speak on technicalities and say it's not a problem they can have male friends vice versa. It's very must possible. But guys can be horny shitters and so can women. It goes both ways full stop. It's up to the 2 individuals in the relationship to decide their own boundaries.
we learn from personal anecdotes no? simple as that i’ve seen a lotta shi
lyssss [#41]cucks = not letting your partner have a friend of the opposite sex?
do u hear yourself? i have female friends that i care about a lot and if a girl ever told me to cut all of them off i would end the relationship instantly, you cant dictate who im friends with and its crazy how normalized it is, yall are the real insecure people
r u deadass a guy bro
it all makes sense now
sh1lll [#42]we learn from personal anecdotes no? simple as that i’ve seen a lotta shi
sure but I think in the name of ragebait you may have stretched a bit and people are letting you know. Just let it subside man
sh1lll [#43]r u deadass a guy bro
it all makes sense now
how does that change what i said, it goes both ways, i wouldn't leave my best friends because my girl is insecure and jealous, i only said girl because your post was about girls
Raize1 [#46]sure but I think in the name of ragebait you may have stretched a bit and people are letting you know. Just let it subside man
yea lol it’s good i can’t sleep so might as well entertain some bs
lyssss [#47]how does that change what i said, it goes both ways, i wouldn't leave my best friends because my girl is insecure and jealous, i only said girl because your post was about girls
it don’t rlly it’s just hella funny to see
and cool story bro ur tuff bros > hoes hell yeah dude
sh1lll [#40]did u like even bother reading my replies
i made it abundantly clear
i no expect her to change for i
i trust girl. i no trust other guys
it not one way street. it two way street
it preference
it opinionit’s the same icks you got that i got
hey guys isn’t it pretty fucking strange how i haven’t gotten a reply below this yet? I WONDER WHY
sh1lll [#49]it don’t rlly it’s just hella funny to see
and cool story bro ur tuff bros > hoes hell yeah dude
its not even that i just want both
at this point I'm losing hope in this users of this sites abilities to do anything in life.
lyssss [#51]its not even that i just want both
look bro if ur not baiting ur just not intellectually advanced to have a discussion
no one said u cant have both im js saying thats how i prefer it, as just like you ive had personal experience with this type of situation
i aint gon MAKE u do shit but it’s a preference isn’t it
lyssss [#19]disconnected from reality completely
It's just a personal preference
i agree, but if she goes out with them all the time or so close to them, than its kinda weird
sh1lll [#50]hey guys isn’t it pretty fucking strange how i haven’t gotten a reply below this yet? I WONDER WHY
cuz im busy maybe
sh1lll [#40]did u like even bother reading my replies
i made it abundantly clear
i no expect her to change for i
i trust girl. i no trust other guys
it not one way street. it two way street
it preference
it opinionit’s the same icks you got that i got
just bc ur an incel doesnt mean ur partner has to become one lol, forcing this upon someone is just a red flag
Feuerstern [#60]just bc ur an incel doesnt mean ur partner has to become one lol, forcing this upon someone is just a red flag
“it’s hard to win an argument against a smart person but impossible against a dumb person”
the big leagues are calling
Feuerstern [#60]just bc ur an incel doesnt mean ur partner has to become one lol, forcing this upon someone is just a red flag
we just throw this word around nowadays
i also dotn think you know what "forcing" means
sh1lll [#62]“it’s hard to win an argument against a smart person but impossible against a dumb person”
the big leagues are calling
i may be dump but atleast im not a horrible partner
This emanates red flags like crazy but you do you bro, I would say that a guy who is obviously into my gf needs to go but that is an extreme, applying that to every guy friend is just ragebait
Acethyr [#64]we just throw this word around nowadays
i also dotn think you know what "forcing" means
it’s good bro it’s literally scientifically proven not very intelligent people struggle with seeing other ppls perspectives
Feuerstern [#66]i may be dump but atleast im not a horrible partner
dude ur so weird 😭😭😭
u out of anyone should be grateful im hearing ur dumbass out after the icks post. i mean at the end of the day isn’t it just opinions and preferences .
me not wanting horny men tryna be friends with my girl doesn’t mean i’m misogynistic or a bad partner
anyways im pretty fucking smart so i can recognize patterns easily and ur either a baiter or a dumbass which in both cases means i don’t wanna engage further in discussion with you so have a good day or night and don’t reply to me again
sh1lll [#69]dude ur so weird 😭😭😭
u out of anyone should be grateful im hearing ur dumbass out after the icks post. i mean at the end of the day isn’t it just opinions and preferences .
me not wanting horny men tryna be friends with my girl doesn’t mean i’m misogynistic or a bad partneranyways im pretty fucking smart so i can recognize patterns easily and ur either a baiter or a dumbass which in both cases means i don’t wanna engage further in discussion with you so have a good day or night and don’t reply to me again
are we deadass
sh1lll [#69]dude ur so weird 😭😭😭
u out of anyone should be grateful im hearing ur dumbass out after the icks post. i mean at the end of the day isn’t it just opinions and preferences .
me not wanting horny men tryna be friends with my girl doesn’t mean i’m misogynistic or a bad partneranyways im pretty fucking smart so i can recognize patterns easily and ur either a baiter or a dumbass which in both cases means i don’t wanna engage further in discussion with you so have a good day or night and don’t reply to me again
10/10 read
ILikeEsports [#56]i agree, but if she goes out with them all the time or so close to them, than its kinda weird
obv there's gotta be a boundary. if your girl doesn't understand this, better leave her
Feuerstern [#71]10/10 read
can we just leave the ragebaiting alone on both sides and move on. This is boring and so fucking pointless. I beg everyone here go touch grass. I'm headed out to do a food shop and shop for some clothes. I beg we all go engage in some other activity
Raize1 [#73]can we just leave the ragebaiting alone on both sides and move on. This is boring and so fucking pointless. I beg everyone here go touch grass. I'm headed out to do a food shop and shop for some clothes. I beg we all go engage in some other activity
I mightve been ragebaiting on the original thread but saying ur girl cant have male friends is straight stupid and not sth id ragebait abt
proud_bandwagoners [#72]obv there's gotta be a boundary. if your girl doesn't understand this, better leave her
yea ik, but i know some people saying online saying they will neevr let their gf have any male friends like that
it shows the level of trust in the relationship. if he/she have a history of cheating then only this rule should be implemented
All I’m gonna say is that you need to take this as a case by case basis instead of of applying general blanket statements
ILikeEsports [#80]"Say hi to the new Galaxy Note" ahh response
i mean dating culture isnt really a thing in saudi
so i have no valuable contribution to this discussion
9wntr [#81]i mean dating culture isnt really a thing in saudi
so i have no valuable contribution to this discussion
oh do people in saudi mostly do aranged marriage?
idk
ILikeEsports [#82]oh do people in saudi mostly do aranged marriage?
idk
its not that anymore
but like usually the way ppl meet is in uni, then after talking stage they get engaged directly
so no "dating" in the middle
9wntr [#83]its not that anymore
but like usually the way ppl meet is in uni, then after talking stage they get engaged directly
so no "dating" in the middle
oh
FAKEYY [#78]Get the cuck chair ready bro
ur the insecure one. if ur worried so much about your girl cheating do u really trust her? is it really a good relationship when you're SO SO worried that u cant let her see guy friends?
lyssss [#85]ur the insecure one. if ur worried so much about your girl cheating do u really trust her? is it really a good relationship when you're SO SO worried that u cant let her see guy friends?
It's called preference. If your partner doesn't like it for whatever reason, call it insecurity or whatever, then it obviously will not work out between them. Let them decide it's their personal decision and stop pushing the extremes
LugiaVLR [#86]It's called preference. If your partner doesn't like it for whatever reason, call it insecurity or whatever, then it obviously will not work out between them. Let them decide it's their personal decision and stop pushing the extremes
its a controlling preference that's based on insecurity and jealousy. its very toxic and the person with this preference should work on it. i don't doubt that its a real insecurity and a problem but we shouldn't normalize it.
lyssss [#87]its a controlling preference that's based on insecurity and jealousy. its very toxic and the person with this preference should work on it. i don't doubt that its a real insecurity and a problem but we shouldn't normalize it.
Well, if a person feels that way , it always because of his past experiences in that field which were obviously not to their liking.
Will you be mad if someone who recently been through a car accident be overly cautious while driving? Will you call him insecure?
SudokuDude [#89]Couples should at least have mutual friends.
no!!! today i learned at vlr.gg who girls cant ever interact with others men, only her husband!!! any other situation u will be retarded and cuck!!!! lets go nerds gamers!!!
LugiaVLR [#88]Well, if a person feels that way , it always because of his past experiences in that field which were obviously not to their liking.
Will you be mad if someone who recently been through a car accident be overly cautious while driving? Will you call him insecure?
i wouldn't and i understand it, i just think, and the replies on this post prove it, that it has become the norm, everyone kinda thinks like this even if something didnt happen to them, so why should i normalize it and accept it? especially when it often comes as a controlling behaviour that not all people are able to escape from and would just accept out of fear of being alone. ur partner is not your possession and people need to clearly understand that
I agree lyssss, some people are so disgusting and icky!! If you come to France you won't have to deal with this tho
lyssss [#91]i wouldn't and i understand it, i just think, and the replies on this post prove it, that it has become the norm, everyone kinda thinks like this even if something didnt happen to them, so why should i normalize it and accept it? especially when it often comes as a controlling behaviour that not all people are able to escape from and would just accept out of fear of being alone. ur partner is not your possession and people need to clearly understand that
, everyone kinda thinks like this even if something didnt happen to them
You never know what other people have been through to feel that way. I'm not saying it's wrong to have female friends but if the guy has prior trauma/ bad past experiences in that regard, it shouldn't be necessarily seen as controlling.
Just let the couple decide what's best for them and talk it out. If it doesn't work out , it is what it is, there's the door.
Is this really that hard for you to understand?
g2gcHATER [#90]no!!! today i learned at vlr.gg who girls cant ever interact with others men, only her husband!!! any other situation u will be retarded and cuck!!!! lets go nerds gamers!!!
this comment made me genuinely laugh, thanks for lighting up my day :)
Lyssss i do agree with all of the replies you posted.
It just opened my eyes about majority of the vlr users cant fathom the fact that 2 people of the opposite genders can be bestfriends and be platonic as well. Its just sad they are narrow minded in this case ;/
And even i wouldnt cut my friends off just because a girl tells me shes not comfortable with the idea of me being friends with the opposite gender.
I thought this was gonna be a joke post
The fact that theres actual debates going on is... worrying?
I get being protective of something you love, but dont take the fun out of relationships?
Why make a rule that now means you can't bring your SO to stuff you enjoy with your friends, and your SO cant take you.
Making each others life worse by isolating yourselves from existing friends isnt gonna help anyone.
This isnt the 1900's anymore, ya dont have to be married by the age of 20. You can wait and find someone who you actually like.
LowGun [#95]Lyssss i do agree with all of the replies you posted.
It just opened my eyes about majority of the vlr users cant fathom the fact that 2 people of the opposite genders can be bestfriends and be platonic as well. Its just sad they are narrow minded in this case ;/
And even i wouldnt cut my friends off just because a girl tells me shes not comfortable with the idea of me being friends with the opposite gender.
thank u twin❤️🩹
targuin [#96]I thought this was gonna be a joke post
The fact that theres actual debates going on is... worrying?I get being protective of something you love, but dont take the fun out of relationships?
Why make a rule that now means you can't bring your SO to stuff you enjoy with your friends, and your SO cant take you.
Making each others life worse by isolating yourselves from existing friends isnt gonna help anyone.
This isnt the 1900's anymore, ya dont have to be married by the age of 20. You can wait and find someone who you actually like.
its sooo weird i swear
This will be the only time i agree with lyssss, people can be friends with anyone they want. Of course there is boundary, but just because you are in a relationship with someone doesn't mean your relationship with your friends has to change just because they share the same gender.
It shouldn't be a problem for your SO to have a friend of the opposite gender, but at the same time if they don't set any boundaries between them and their friend of the opposite gender then you have the right to bring attention to it and tell your SO your not comfortable with them being so close or having little boundaries to said friend.
Monsteiur [#99]This will be the only time i agree with lyssss, people can be friends with anyone they want. Of course there is boundary, but just because you are in a relationship with someone doesn't mean your relationship with your friends has to change just because they share the same gender.
whyy the only time😭😭 my takes are always good
lyssss [#101]whyy the only time😭😭 my takes are always good
This is a lie, just remembering your skuba take is enough to prove this.
As a woman I'll just never get it. If I get into a relationship and they're telling me that they want me to cut off people I've known for longer than them, with deeper connections than them, etc. I would say fuck all the way off. I am a lesbian, but observing straight people be so insecure that they have to have their partner cut people off to feel okay about their relationship only tells me that the relationship was already doomed. Relationships are built on trust. You don't trust your partner not to cheat? Don't date. It's that simple.
Sometimes I read your conversations and I get an ick just from the way you type about women and how you want to control them. Ew. You don't deserve her.
g2gcHATER [#90]no!!! today i learned at vlr.gg who girls cant ever interact with others men, only her husband!!! any other situation u will be retarded and cuck!!!! lets go nerds gamers!!!
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LugiaVLR [#93], everyone kinda thinks like this even if something didnt happen to them
You never know what other people have been through to feel that way. I'm not saying it's wrong to have female friends but if the guy has prior trauma/ bad past experiences in that regard, it shouldn't be necessarily seen as controlling.
Just let the couple decide what's best for them and talk it out. If it doesn't work out , it is what it is, there's the door.
Is this really that hard for you to understand?
you mean to tell me every single person in this thread has been cheated on? whats so hard for u to understand that its a controlling and toxic behaviour? if u don't trust your partner to interact with HALF of the population are u really ready to be in a relationship? its not just a decision that u take and its fine, your whole view on relationship and your partner is problematic and fucked.
bad news, ur gf is cheating on you RIGHT NOW, and you letting it happen because you "dont wanna be controlling or insecure"
sh1lll [#69]dude ur so weird 😭😭😭
u out of anyone should be grateful im hearing ur dumbass out after the icks post. i mean at the end of the day isn’t it just opinions and preferences .
me not wanting horny men tryna be friends with my girl doesn’t mean i’m misogynistic or a bad partneranyways im pretty fucking smart so i can recognize patterns easily and ur either a baiter or a dumbass which in both cases means i don’t wanna engage further in discussion with you so have a good day or night and don’t reply to me again
if u cant trust a girl you're an incel. lmao
if a girl sees that a friend of hers just wants sex, she's not going to entertain it
you just have this baseline assumption that your girlfriend is going to cheat on you if she talks to literally any guy, and you have to be the big man and put your foot down. that's controlling, you'll learn someday
ant9 [#106]bad news, ur gf is cheating on you RIGHT NOW, and you letting it happen because you "dont wanna be controlling or insecure"
😭
cirruss [#107]if u cant trust a girl you're an incel. lmao
if a girl sees that a friend of hers just wants sex, she's not going to entertain it
you just have this baseline assumption that your girlfriend is going to cheat on you if she talks to literally any guy, and you have to be the big man and put your foot down. that's controlling, you'll learn someday
ok look here little buddy i never said Talk to i said friends talk to doesn’t mean automatic friendship u lack of social cues moron
read my old replies if u don’t wanna be an idiot
9wntr [#81]i mean dating culture isnt really a thing in saudi
so i have no valuable contribution to this discussion
That reality is very amusing to me.
Also the women would get the whip for cheating probably so its not a factor 😭
(Yes, this is problematic people dont get on my dick)
This is genuinely the new meta. anything about icks get at least 100 messages
emptybackis [#118]This is genuinely the new meta. anything about icks get at least 100 messages
"THIS IS INSANE!!!"
this community is so unhinged wtf?
Idk if it's a western thing where this "redpill" type of mindset is prevalent, or maybe cheating culture is normal over there. But im friends with girls that are IN RELATIONSHIPS and have multiple friends that are best friends with women that are also IN RELATIONSHIPS for YEARSS (No issues not even a single time) the fact that this is even a discussion is CRAZY TO ME!!!!
Y'all are so possessive and so horny that you guys literally think the only relationship a women and a man can have is to hook up with them.
lyssss [#105]you mean to tell me every single person in this thread has been cheated on? whats so hard for u to understand that its a controlling and toxic behaviour? if u don't trust your partner to interact with HALF of the population are u really ready to be in a relationship? its not just a decision that u take and its fine, your whole view on relationship and your partner is problematic and fucked.
Yap yap
Congo1 [#117]That reality is very amusing to me.
Also the women would get the whip for cheating probably so its not a factor 😭
(Yes, this is problematic people dont get on my dick)
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