tell that girl that you love her...

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title (nvm she blocked me)

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askrial

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no.
if i do, the world might as well end.

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the world only ends for you.... she might like you and you both have a future...

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askrial

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ok well:

she's been talking about this one guy for like the past month, and been on about him to me, saying how he's really "cute", and that makes me think that she's interested in him
https://imgur.com/a/ErWJB5y i'm so deep in the friendzone, i've been locked into friend alcatraz
we both have practically the same friend group, and if it goes to shit, it's going to be hella awkward
i'm scared as fuck lmaooooooooooooooooooo
my ugly ass never had a chance

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JesusisLord

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Believe, the awkward moment could become a funny moment, (I have zero experience take my words with a grain of salt)

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poggpigg

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you aint in no place to be talking broseph stalin 😭✌️

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JesusisLord

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gng stop calling me out, but deadass haven't had a "crush" in my life, thinking I might be malfunctioned

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serot

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gng me too
we can be loveless together ❤️

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Flame4Game

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damn...
yeah idk then

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serot

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she doesnt think ur gay right?
sounds like you ended in gay bestie territory
taking about guys she likes (like you can relate)
showing interest only as a friend

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askrial

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she's asked me many times, and i've vehemently said no
i think she know's i have an interest in her? i dunno, i've been trying to drop hints recently, no idea if she notices
i fucking hate that guy she likes (unrelated to this), been as real as possible though, not trying to push her away from the guy as it's something she cares about, and i can't do shit about that.

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serot

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Idk, I'm not in a position to give good advice but I think the way forward is get on the glowup grind and keep testing the boundaries and judge reactions. If all else fails at least you are more desirable overall.

From what I've witnessed personally every base X/10 is transformable to at least a X+3/10 with proper methods (gym, fashion, skin, hair)

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askrial

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yeah, i've started trying.

started going to the gym
asking my friends who know swag about what to wear
growing out my hair

don't know what to do for skincare though.

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oh my god this picture

im so sorry

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chasethefuture

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be confident in urself my premier goat

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cloudberry

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I'd honestly rather this than a relationship tbh

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askrial

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may i ask why?

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Seems more valuable long term. I'd rather a long-lived quite close relationship than a short-lived too close relationship (which is how these high school bf/gf things usually go)

Also just seems more comfortable tbh, both parties are more comfortable with each other in some sense, you can be yourself more without having to worry about implications... etc. etc.

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askrial

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that's fair.

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if you don’t want her then you’ll stay silent, if you want her then you’ll take the risk. if you stay silent then later in life you have no right to reminisce about why you didn’t confess, you didn’t confess because you just didn’t want her enough and that’s that.

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askrial

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this is the best and worst advice i think i can receive right now.

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you can obsess and think about her as much as you want while you try to lie to yourself that you didn’t confess because you were just too afraid, the ones who truly experience love are the ones who confess in your situation no matter what it’s genuinely that simple. don’t do it if you want to but let yourself know that you never loved her

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askrial

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so you're saying that no matter what the circumstances are, if you love them enough, it'll always work out?

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why wouldn’t it work out, she’s accepts your feelings then boom you’re dating her now. if she rejects you then boom your heart gets broken shit probably gets bad as you said and then you just move on with life because that’s what happens. don’t confess at all then boom you just never loved her to begin with. do whatever u want here

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i know this sounds like a cop-out answer, but i honestly think that if I were to work on myself even for just a bit longer, it'll dramatically increase my chances of it working.

so i just need some time to be better as a person, and then I think i would be ready, but honestly, i should just ask.

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nobody’s timing you on your confession, if you think you gotta work on yourself more then go do that but im just telling you if you never willed yourself to confess at some point in your life then what you got going on is something entirely fake and unhealthy

continue thread →

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dimmed

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ok here goes:

FADE!!! I LOVE YOUUUU!!!!

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valid

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would

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poggpigg

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I have 6 or 7 restraining orders

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JesusisLord

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I have never found the girl, hopefully I do so I can understand what people mean

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nooomy

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Told my mother I love her after reading this, cause I really do

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W

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JesusisLord

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was gonna make this exact comment then I read girl, big W's either way tho

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w

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Idk there's this one girl I find very pretty but I can't call it love

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if you think about her a lot maybe you can ask her out for coffee or smth....

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Nah there's no spark between us and I'm not going to force something nonexistent into existence.

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Nah there's no spark between us

you had enough of a spark to think about her when looking at the title of this thread

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Damn

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I did and she said 我知道老公

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VCT CN fan I see...

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:(

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please do tell the girl you like her. you will never know what will happen if you don’t take the chance.

ask her to get some coffee or boba
you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take

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nooomy

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some ppl miss 100% of the chances they do take tho

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missing is better than not throwing

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nooomy

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now me personally Im never shooting but getting shot at... real ones know wassup

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FrenchToast

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worst case scenario she says no
i’ve rejected many men politely.

regret of not asking outweighs the fear of rejection imo
i do understand it’s scary though

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XOH

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then youll be so happy for a year then you wont find yourself

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I did it. she said "you bet your ass you love me"

shes my wife

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nooomy

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this reads like a reddit comment

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akimb0_

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nah, shes the kind of wife that is kinda sassy when I say "I love you". but I know she loves it when I say it

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cinnastick

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i did and now have a boba tea date set up
THANK YOU VLR

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may my mistakes be your fuel

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FrenchToast

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that’s good to hear congrats ☺️

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just did (she loves me)

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Did she really block you bro?

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she only blocked me from loving anyone else in this decade