Pls guys help me, i literally gooned 5 times a day 😥
tell a friend about it and find out what makes you wanna goon (maybe you see something on twitter or insta) and avoid it
Oh man, how long has this been going on? Because when the regular videos start to get boring, you might end up watching some unhinged deviant stuff
The rabbit hole can be very deep, man
actually serious answer:
get a new hobby
minimize screen time and lock in on working out more
self-discipline
if he's an actual addict, that wont work even remotely. He needs to sort out his personal life first, since he's obviously got way too much free time on his hands if he's lying around gooning all day
go out and punch someone, they will beat yo ahh and you will feel motivated
If you are serious then,
First - avoid being all alone; he more you feel safe to goon, more you will goon
Second - engage in activities especially those which tire you, always do something and keep yourself busy
These two things helped me the most, hopefully it will help you too
When you urge go out , if you cant just stay in someone's presence even virtual presence works make sure its not opposite gender xd
make sure its not opposite gender
He wouldn't doing it 5 times a day if that was the case
Block as much sexual online content as you can. Including hornybaiting social media, youtube etc. Spend less time on screens. Go outside and soak in the atmosphere. Feel the fucking wind and touch the grass.
Try using alternative mediums rather that visual ones. Visual stimulation is 10 more addictive and damaging than text or audio stuff or your imagination.
Also be physically active. That will deflate you enough and give you positive stimulation that isnt frying your dopamine receptors.
And ... Meditation is incredible. Helps with so many things in life
Just be less online, really. That will fix like 80% of this generations issues. Depression, loneliness, anxiety, everything.
go to therapy. you might have a weird relationship with sexuality for reasons you dont even know about. its never too late to find yourself
Lust thrives in Loneliness, go out with friends, maybe even play games online as long as you’re talking to people
Find a reason not to do it, and find something that you would rather do. Whenever you feel the urge, default to the activity you would rather do instead of porn.
“Porn addiction” isn’t even a thing. Look in the DSM-5. At most it’s a compulsion you let take over your life. It’s usually a term religious people use when they get caught doing something others disapprove of. If you actually see this as a problem, every time you just have to yank your winkie, go touch grass. Seriously. Go sit in your front yard. I’ll bet that removes the temptation quite quickly. And, if not, the cops will eventually get you some help.
In my opinion just find something, you are less inclined to goon if ur not bored, if ur bored then you have nothing to do so you goon.
Find a hobby, hell even play some val
Go outside and exercise
Go hang out with ur friends
make some small goals (gooning less per week)
and then slowly you'll be good