my icks in women (honest so dont complain)

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sh1lll

again this is brutally honest to my opinion. if ur gonna get offended just dont read it lol. u have been warned!!!

visually chopped
physically chopped
mentally not there yet
emotioally fried (ill try to help u but respectfully get a therapist if ur off the deep end)
complains and bitches for no reason
dont hear me out but talk a storm
closed off personality
fixed mindset
no ambition/desires
gold digger tendencies
too social or not social enough (introverted)
whenever im given bullshit scenarios
'silent' / ghosting nature during misunderstandings
crazy unrealistic expectations
not being clear/speaking your mind (im not finna guess wtf u thinking)
shitty habits (smoking, excessive drinking)
dont work out
working out like the tiktok fitness girls
too involved social media
weird or crazy past/history aka a bop
corny personality
having shitty humor or worse having no humor
cant match my vibe
takes longer then 30 minutes to get ready
too detached
is stupid
pretends to be stupid on purpose
glorifying shitty lfiestyle choices
feminist typa bs thinking
has guy friends (esp when theres more then 1-3)
no self confidence
puts down people for shit they cant change
lacks common sense
lies even once (if its somewhat signifigance)
acts just like a weirdo
overly emotional / overreacts a lot
boring
challenges realistic shit just to be different or save face
says dumbass shit like icks
doesnt believe in double standards

anyways those are most of the 'icks' i can think of rn and im probably not gonna reply to any comments cuz ik every1 gonna make a shit show out of my opinons but 'noone will mind' so here u go

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Tldr

"Sigma sigma boy sigma boy'

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sh1lll

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Yet when girls do it its called having standards. My fault big bro ur him, whiteknight to some play.

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1dan1x

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No bro its ragebait in both cases😭😭😭

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sh1lll

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i mean sure but not rlly mane 😭😂

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Kiko

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bloody ell bruv i can barely read a single bloody sentence let alone a focken book m8

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you are fully into the British personality huh m8

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Kiko

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i got the antidote bro we good now this is old news

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you wanna gonna finna be american again huh

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“feminist typa bs thinking” 😭😭 do u even know what feminism is?

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sh1lll

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ok im gonna break my rule js to speak on this cuz its acually pretty serious imo

yes ik feminism and isupport it (women should 100% be equal to men)

but i mean the radicalized thinking thats gone mainstream of "i hate all men, kill all men" that typa shit

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1dan1x

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Thats not mainstream at all

Mainstream feminism is equality and nuking the patriarchy

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veronika

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okay so thats a common mixup, i think u shouldve said "women who are misandrists"

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💔op is most likely baiting or a blockhead.
no one would say
"dont hear me out but talk a storm
closed off personality
fixed mindset"
these are oxymorons in themselves so i rate this 0/8

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sh1lll

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not rlly but u got it g

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sh1lll

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fair yeah thanks for the constructive feedback

it’s all mixed up tho tbf, to the point where feminism is commonly associated and has the connotation of misandry

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veronika

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yea its an issue that it gets mixed up
otherwise not a bad list tbh

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Laundry

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Honestly offline no, but online radicalized versions of things you disagree with become so much more promoted and prominent that it because a loud minority. I doubt even 0.1% of feminists believe kill all men but online like 90% of the posts you see will skew that way because it brings more engagement. The line only seems blurred because if the context you see it in

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sh1lll

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yeah that’s true. i mean normal ppl have no reason to go mainstream so we see the extremes more often bc they’re different and more ‘interesting’

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Yk one of the things not on the list I actually hate if a woman or person does is always being late

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sh1lll

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thats kinda what i alluded to w/ the 30m thing its not a fixed time but it js pmos when i tell someone that wegotta go at XX:XX and they arent rdy bc they are GETTING RDY

ofc it happens time to time but when its consistent its a problem, i genuienly DESPISE ppl who dont value my time

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Teunoin

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Yeah no both my exes(and my best friend recently too) were just always late where you would perma have to wait 15 to 45 mins

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actually did it what a madman
agree with most of the post +1

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sh1lll

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im gonna get lynched for this dude but i had to do it

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i admire the massive steel balls

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Valid tbh except having guy friends. My girl is at ASU and has many good guy friends

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i get dat its just i am a guy, i know guys they are usually on some fuck shit. exceptions exist but for me they dont define the 'rule' and ive seen a lot of shit first hand and i just cant get the notion.

if they are mutuals its usually always cool tho

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My girl is at ASU

I think bro was just being sarcastic

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sh1lll

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is it idk lol too tired for ts 🥺🥀🤦

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ynuser

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No no we are not mutuals but they are very kind and helpful to my girl. She's taking a nursing course at ASU so they are like minded

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sh1lll

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u got my ass bro it’s over 😭😭😭✌️

it’s alr tho they may have her body but you have her mind and hewrt ❤️‍🩹

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ynuser

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She truly loves me bro and so do I. One time she was tired that she didn't read my message for 2 days. Poor soul man I wish I was next to her

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sh1lll

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reminds me of that one time when she went with her guy best friends to hawaii for 2 weeks. she said i couldn’t go because there wasn’t enough room in the hotel but she had a blast so it’s ok 🥹🫶

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holy moly bro
only one is pregnant
she cant be pregnant

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im fine with all of these

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What if they slightly like asuna

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fuck no then

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what if they slightly behave like boaster

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Livvie

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this is also ragebait right

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sh1lll

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no

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feminism

has guy friends

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more reason to believe it's not ragebait

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Livvie

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i dont get the no guy friends thing

cuz like are yall rlly thinking you can control who someone else is friends with?

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Livvie

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i know yall would be mad if a girl told you who to be friends with no?

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Acethyr

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Hes not saying you can’t have guy friends, hes saying hed prefer if she didn’t

Not the same
If she did have guy friends hed probably just not date her

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Livvie

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i dont get why

this is my point

i dont get why :P

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Acethyr

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Preference

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Livvie

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im asking why it is one

but ig u dont wanna explain :P das fine

continue thread →

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sh1lll

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fuck no not even close

relationships aren’t a one way street it’s like a seesaw where it balances out

if i don’t want my girl too have guy friends i will be more then happy to not have girl friends

if i want a girl who works out i’m also gonna be working out

same shit

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sh1lll

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did i say that though? no, it’s ‘icks’ for a reason, i don’t like it but i don’t live in the deluded reality that it’ll happen

i’m not gonna stop u from having guy friends but i won’t be thrilled

also it’s coming from a guys perspective like im sure girls like having guy friends but usually it’s not as platonic as it may seem

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LugiaVLR

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cuz like are yall rlly thinking you can control

too many guy friends is definitely an ick, few are fine

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god this is some miserable ragebait

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sh1lll

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wtv u say

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this and the women version is like a time capsule of the modern dating scene

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sh1lll

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yeah i know i find the concepts of icks stupid as shit but i was urged to make one so i did

more then icks its just preference lol i mean all these comments are nitpicking as if im expecting to find a perfect girl in my eyes, no im reasonable and know they will have flaws which is ok

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preferences are fine and if something is not attractive to you that's understandable.

people are just complicated and have so many different aspects to their personalities, which makes each person unique. because of that there may be something to be attracted to in everyone, but of course, there are dealbreakers.

it's just kind of unfortunate how social media has warped how humans interact with each other and see each other.

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sh1lll

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yeah forsure social media romanticized bullshit and fake perfect love.

it’s just more so frustrating how ppl can’t understand that at the end of the days it’s my opinion i’m not tryna convince anyone it’s just what it is

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You forgot to add the type that has hating men as a personality, and when called out, either doubles down or pretends it was a joke/not serious

Besides that pretty good and valid list

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thats kinda that i meant with the feminism thing but i worded it pretty badly i should’ve said the radicalized thinking

what you said is def true and that’s not even an ick atp it’s just brain damage

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why does everyone think feminism is misandry lol

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partially because of a vocal minority claiming to be representative of the collective i figure. i've seen it too.

obviously i don't believe feminism to be the same as misandry but social media loves to propagate the narrative that being a feminist means you advocate for an unethical and unfair stance against men instead of supporting more ethical and fair rights for women to help them have equal opportunities and treatment after a long, long period of historical male dominance.

i guess a big issue is that such extremist misandric rhetoric has made its way into the common vernacular where normal people who aren't misandrists will repeat the same figures of speech in a more casual way - probably as a joke. You see it with "I hate men"/"Kill all men" whatever, but an earlier example is the "Women☕️" phrase. I personally feel like such things are just unhealthy and enforce the gender war going on so I try to avoid them.

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Because of the online representation of feminism
Like every woman you see online who hates men would refer to herself as a feminist

I know it’s probably different irl, but online that’s just how it is

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Can you explain misandry please new to this term

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sh1lll

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basically misogyny just genders reverse; women hating on men

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Ahh okay basically uno reverse

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yeah exactly

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and you have none of these in your personality, correct?

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if it’s an ick clearly not dude

i got flaws but why would i have an ick to something in my own personality

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i'm just saying, it's kind of unrealistic to think that all of these are all "icks" when some of these are unavoidable.
like how can you consider having 1-3 guy friends as an "ick?"
you're either really insecure about your relationship with your own partner or really possessive, in which case, a girl would also see as an ick.
and you're willing to tell me, that you don't at LEAST have 1-3 girl friends?
C'mon dude, some of these just sound stupid as hell.

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uh no i have 1-3 girls i talk to cuz i have to for school n shi but never actual friends no

and it’s unavoidable but thats just life dude i know im not getting a flawless women it is what it is

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fair enough, at least you admit that you won't get someone flawless

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sh1lll

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yeah i mean that’s quite literally impossible unless if the gods bless you but all u gotta do is adapt and anyone could be perfect from a perspective shift

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a lot of this list is subjective tbf and i don't think it's too difficult to check the more objective criteria (no ambition/doesn't work out/takes longer than 30 mins to get ready/lies/etc.)

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bruh just like someone u dont gotta have a whole ass checklist if they are perfect for u or not

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ik lol this shit ain’t a checklist more like a wish list

but realistically it’s not gonna be perfect so i’m gonna accept the flaws

again as i’ve reiterated its just preferences at the end of the day

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having a bajillion things ur thinking about will make it 10x harder and will end good relationships, just let stuff be natural and be levelheaded with their actions so u dont do anything dumb

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yup dw i don’t actively think ab this shit it’s more so a response to someone who told me to make the list from a males lens