Need some genuine help vlr

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UPDATE: the guy was banned. I feel weird because I realised pretty late how dumb everything was an d I was thinking about squashing the beef privately where I would apologize to him and make him apologize back, because it was spreading unnecessary hate and negativity and made a mess overall. Now since he has been banned and I have no one to apologize to, i will like to apologize to all users who were even a little annoyed by this thread and drama. I know its not a big deal because it's all stupid online vlr drama, but hey it is finally over.

What should i do if a guy (username Reverie1) keeps harassing me by replying bullshit on every thread i reply to? This is because of an argument we (from which he ran away like a bitch from because he had no answer and shrike had to help)
Clearly this guy had no analytical skills to understand what i was saying and resorted to attack me personally (and is now attacking me on every thread) and shrike had to help him because it was nrg related and also because he ran away like a bitch.

Original argument (started hostile for no reason)
https://www.vlr.gg/685381/biggest-fluke-oat/#29

Me trying to stop another argument he was about to start (attacks me personally and after this the harassment starts)
https://www.vlr.gg/685705/ewc-truth/#30

Him harassing me on every thread i go to

I dont know if this is normally what happens if you decide to argue online because i never do it. But if it is normal, i gained experience I guess

Learning 1: Dont use slurs ever even if the guy deserves it and has said it back to you and your mum, suck it up like man!!

Learning 2: its not that deep if even the guy attacks you on every thread you go and dosent allow you to enjoy vlr.

Gained some experience, which was one of the goals, thank you vlrians 🙏

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mods do sumn

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u kinda gave nexus nomad vibes ngl

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That guy was smth lmao

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@mods

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Bro got so pressed about what you said he’s thinking about you several hours after the fact and posting under every comment you’d make

I’d wear that like a badge of honor, i’ve never seen someone get so tilted over nothing

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I am a reserved guy even online, but this guy is spouting so much bullshit about my mom and dad that i cant take it anymore

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i suppose you and i are different people because if this happened to me it would crack me the fuck up

Idk he will get bored eventually unless he is chronically online, if not mods are pretty good at handling harassment

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Again, shocking that we are different!! Right?

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ive seen murder documentaries treated more lightly

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Also i cant wait what this guy will reply here, yall will see live proof.

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lol

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off topic but why is it always the aussies

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Icl i dont even think he an aussie

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Download a VLR extension to block him if it matters that much

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I always use vlr on my tablet/phone otherwise i wouldn’t be making this post rn

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Ermmm so lowkey, doesn’t seem to me like it’s just him being in the wrong, he made a correct point that if you were gonna talk abt what ifs everything could be true (like what if KOI 2023 won all intls) yes then after he went a bit far w it by going to other threads but then u proceed to call him the r-slur(which is a slur) in the first thread i see. Like yeah bro is mocking u but ur retaliation is like ur pulling out a gun to a guy who bumped into you(in the point that ur reaction is quite disproportionate)

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Seeing how loosely the slur is used here i decide to use it.
Talking on the what ifs, see how this guy never said anything about the what if (which was the main point of the argument) after the fact and started just baselessly attacking me, causing me to use the slur. I think my use of the slur is fair. And if you analyse the what if yourself, maybe youll get what i am saying

And based on your analogy, if i pulled out a gun on him he proceeded to nuke my whole house. Think about it. Ofc i am wrong because i used the slur (right at the same time) because its a slur but what he is doing is double wrong no?

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Tf we saying, where did he retaliate harder then using slurs towards you, in this case he made a point, didn’t seem you had a response, he tried to rub it in your face a bit, and instead of ignoring it you decide to throw around slurs? I don’t see how that fair
Yes it’s childish of him to rub it in your face but your way of retaliation is completely overblown

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He called my mother a retard too?

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Before or after you called him a retard???
Like yes he is semi-provoking by rubbing it in your face but when u then respond by saying slurs in my opinion u basically alr did the worst thing you can do on a website besides telling some1 to die so its very difficult to see responses as overblown against that

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Yeah i get it, calling him the r slur was wrong because he was “full”provoking me. But he isnt in the wrong for calling my mom the same afterwards and doing the same on every thread, right?

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Bro ur saying “ohh hé punched me after I punched him” like what do you expect, for you to call him a slur and just roll over. Stop being a crybaby, yes he hurt your feelings, yes in a vacuüm he punched you. But you threw the first punch so now live with the consequences

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Okay 👍

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Saying "Seeing how loosely the slur is used here i decide to use it." Is like saying "seeing how much murder is committed around the world I decided to commit a murder" like what are you saying dawg... Plus it's not even that deep why are you getting pressed about on an online forum you aren't 12

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My usage of the slur is whatever, maybe i am the type who uses it lightly online (never irl)

And there is always an answer to every conflict online “its not that deep”. We should ignore everything and anything done wrong to us online by saying to ourselves “its not that deep”

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"my usage of the slur is whatever" dismissing your wrongdoings is one of the reasons people in this thread disagree with u

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Weird how me using the slur which is thrown around so lightly in this forum is being highlighted more instead of what this guy is doing. Is saying “retard” on vlr a new thing?

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I mean you are calling someone a slur and thinking there’s nothing wrong with that lol. It’s the same as walking down the street and calling someone a slur and then getting beat up and then complaining about why they beat you up. You know how ridiculous you sound lol?

If you want real advice, ignore the dude. You are just giving him the attention he wants. Why would you care about some rando on the internet lol that’s why I’m saying it’s not that deep

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Dude cmon, you dont see why i used that slur? Why are saying i walked down the street saw this man and used it because i wanted to. You clearly dont see what is going on.

Also this is what you call “someone making replies to your posts that don’t directly support your point”

Me “ethan is not over boaster on this list”
Him “your mother is over me”
Me “sen needs strong”
Him “a father is what you need”
Me “that was sarcasm”
Him “aww my little girl understands sarcasm is”
Me “mibr choked vs nrg on abyss in champs”
Him “ The real retard,the oceanBoobs,the one cockroach is here....praise the oceaBoobs 😂”

Are you serious?

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its a fucking analogy u idiot

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I know dumbdumb, i am asking him how is it a fair analogy?

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js because its thrown around lightly, doesnt mean its okay
i was highlighting your continual dismissal of its use, not just u using it - clearly u dont understand that it IS bad to say

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I know its not okay to say just like any other slur, but cant i use it to defend myself, cant i use it ever. Is it a racial slur? Also dont you see this guy called me and my mother ‘retard’ back? It is not equal now?

Also isnt there a mountain of a difference between

“ I didn't wanted to say this to a random vlr user but you are a retard with the way you started this whole argument” what i said vs

“ Retard who? Your mother for choosing your stupid dad over me????” What he said

You be the judge of that

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it is a slur, like the n-word, there is no hierarchy to slurs, both are bad to say
i honestly dont rlly care about the other guy, hes a troll and you should just ignore him

you called someone an r-word vs someone calling your mother an r-word - these are both bad

you shouldnt be weighing up wrongdoings like this, its very childish

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You learn everyday i guess

continue thread →

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first thing i see is you calling NRG champs win a fluke :/

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Ignore that please <3

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sorry to break it to u bob, but it is..

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common W

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i think u need to let this shi go :wilted_rose:

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I decided to make this after seeing this btw, how will my mind and heart not want this guy nuked out of here

https://www.vlr.gg/685756/a-goat-list-you-can-not-disagree-with/#93

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You both need some time off vlr tbh

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45-60 mins every 2 days on here is this cancerous lmao

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An hour evey 2 fucking days lmao touch some grass bro it's only a game

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No joke but who would have thought 1 hour every 48 hours on vlr is so bad. I should probably go back to observing threads and avoid participation like i used too.

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With your weak ass crybaby mental you need to stfu and log the fuck off bro

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you arent a victim om, how are you instigating a conflict by bringing up your previous argument with him and then justify it by saying youre trying to prevent an argument?

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Hello, are You perhaps mr Bombastic Baboon on valorant???

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thats me

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I never said i was a victim.
Second, i originally didnt wanted to argue but he pulled me back (you can see how). Pulling up the argument on another thread was a mistake (i was trying to stop another one from starting, it backfired) but why is he mocking me and my parents on every thread i go to, isnt that continued harassment?

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if you are arguing that this guy is harassing you, are you therefore not the victim of this harassment?
so you did say u were a victim

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I just asked what should i do and presented some proof to show it is actually happening

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yes you asked what you should do about being the victim of harassment
ergo you are a suggesting ur a victim

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respectfully, log off. this guy cant hurt you

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Holy advice
I will follow it in a sec haha

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reminds me of what i did to yukyuk in master bankok when sen lost 13-1 i still cringe to this day, pretty loser behavior i know i even apologized to him

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Big W from you then

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Unwarranted hate therefore hes prolly a racist thats it

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he sounds based and youre over here cryning about it because you couldnt beat him in an argument and had to ask others for validation afterwards, kekw

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Yeah he is so based. And clearly i lost that first argument and he didst run away at all. Also its not deep at all that he is harassing me everywhere because clearly i lost and not because he had no counter argument to the original argument on nrg. Omg he is so based 😩

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exactly you're self conscious and need others to help you fight your imaginary boogeyman, keep cryning for your mommy lil bro

now run away from this argument and make another thread, fuck it contact the military to help you fight these battles

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you sound like youre Reverie1 himself btw + you cant even spell crying properly

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i can spell it correctly whenever i want and choose not to so i can auramog you after the fact lmao

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keep insta liking your comments loser😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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making shit up again?

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how are u getting pressed on VLR out of all online forums?....just ignore it gng

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Sorry, i should have gained more online experience before using vlr.

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just ignore the guy, no way you just got offended by what some fat piece of bacon said

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Bros mad over internet debate and pixels

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It was always pixels

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bro rlly holding grudges 😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Ikr 😀

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How about you stop using slurs first of all, second of all just ignore him it's not like he's gonna come to your house or anything

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Unlucky that i never used it ever (irl or online) and then when i finally use it for necessary backpush and space, its a war crime

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I'm just saying if you want to put yourself in the light don't use slurs than. What I mean is that he shouldn't be affecting you that much to the point where you are using slurs against him. Just ignore him

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Please please please logo off the Internet for a few months

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It might be time, can’t believe i am sitting here doing this bs for the past 2 hours. I think i am crazy.
But still fuck this guy

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Holy fuck you live in his head rent free lol I’d take it

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This used to be me and berlinglazer we chill now though even though I still think Bumlin is ass cheeks

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just 1v1 him all the way, jus like how yinsu likes to do it in her chat

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looks like he got banned alr

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W mods if it really happened

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he got flag banned too, like me, 1-3 days ban

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@aiminverylabs help this guy

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Fuck u

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Who fuck me ??

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idk????

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ok

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Help me bruh 😭

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this thread needs to be locked fr

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Yeah man, I am done

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A VLR.GG DRAMA?? HELL YEAHHHHHHH

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it's rare without Thegreat

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yeah im not seeing any post frim him these past few days did he get banned

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I think he's taking a break hopefully

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bhai bande bulale
xD

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Mai akele he kaafi hoon iske liye (real life mein)

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i was joking man

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rossi GE duelist soon?

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nah bro
hes fully washed in 2026

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Me too, mods did their job perfectly

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too mods
gulabi dil gulabi dil

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if youre going to repeatedly call someone the r-slur and then victimize yourself afterwards by claiming ur being harassed on an ONLINE forum, you are the problem

clearly he's a troll and just trying to bait you and ur falling for it every time... you've let him win purely by creating this post all dedicated to this "harassment" youre facing which is somewhat deserved.

neither of u are victims and are both just as toxic as each other

moral of the story is to just ignore people like Reverie1 who just bait for reactions

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I mean, man got banned I think ocean wins it.

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it doesn't matter, he got banned on VLR, it's not exactly the end of the world

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u have nvr been banned before udk how it feels like to be silenced especially as a baiter

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I have learned how to keep quiet like i used to. Thanks for saying the same thing people told me, now please don't bump this thread anymore 🙏

Also someone who obviously behaves like a tard should be called a tard, and my mother and father aren't one of them so.. also you don't know me personally or my intent behind creating the original reply which started it all, so you don't know if someone deserves to be shit on and mocked on for a take which is very very very valid

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i don't know either of you personally nor know your intentions but i don't need to know ur intentions. whether he was "acting like a tard" or not, if you're going to PERSONALLY insult him by calling him that, then he has every right to PERSONALLY attack you, by which he said that ur "mother and father are tards" etc.

regardless, he's just baiting and honestly good on u for deciding on just staying quiet from now on

at the end of the day not everybody is going to like u and u won't like everybody too, and this is all happening online where there's nothing preventing u from leaving the situation.

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chat shit get banged, don't come crying afterwards

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Rule #1: Don't waste your life, breath, time, energy on any online immature idiot.
Very simple mate.

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Damn right

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i think you deserve it

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Honestly why would you even bring the shit up after the first time it happened. All this could've been avoided

But I do agree. Him doing it on every other thread is kinda mad.

This is why you learn to walk away from pointless arguments and not let your ego in the way. And don't say my argument wasn't pointless

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Unfortunate cannon event

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y'all should both get banned, would be doing the rest of us a favor

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I am sorry for this mess, this thread should be locked and I am gonna log off for a week or summ
I can understand yall's anger. Kids these days

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Update!!!!

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Bump

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Bump 2

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Final bump and this thread can rest in peace