thinking about this one girl, makes me sad, really sad.
she was in the same school, college and eveything, her place of work is kinda nearby mine too. and yet as much as I love her, I can't talk to her :(
she's also kinda really popular and i'm just gonna be another person in her life
why cant you lol ofc you can u miss every shot u dont take and currently ur missing by not taking it
I'm curious about how much you've interacted with this person and what kind of interaction were they?
cuz You can't love someone that you don't properly know yk what I mean
no interaction, apart from just glancing at each other sometimes when we passed by each other. she clearly knows who I am, but neither did she make an effort to talk to me nor did I.
initiate a conversation politely. You just have a crush on her, you don't love her. Get to know her first, she might just not be your type intellectually or emotionally. Good luck.
You probably are already another person in her life. Take a chance to change that. Sometimes if you feel like you are going to fail, you still gotta do it to find out to know you failed. But hey you never know
bro sybau and talk to her pussy
legit so annoyed seeing posts like this anywhere and now its on vlr
if you love her TALK
she has like a large group of close friends, and they all share stuff with each other. i'm afraid my name's gonna spread around and shit
Bro you're out of college and you're worried about your name being spread around. Cmon man
yeah, but there's more to it than just that bro. i'm a introvert mf who works and plays valo sitting in my room. she's the most social person and travels a lot and posts a lot on her instagram and stuff.
what part of me would she even find interesting lol
maybe she won't find you interesting, not everyone will. even if she doesn't, you're no worse off than you are right now
worst case scenario: you ask her out -> she says no -> you don't date her
you currently aren't dating her, its not all that different. you have nothing to lose
If it makes you feel any better or more confident, I used to be in the same position as you. I was a little bit of an introvert but it was more so just social anxiety. My current gf and I went to the same elementary, middle and high school, and currently she goes to school about an hour away from me. I took a shot and met up with her to tell her I had feelings for her, and now shes my gf (a little bit over a year now). I didnt know too much about her before that as well. You just have to stop thinking about what other people think and how they will react, and if shes the type of girl to tell all her friends about you and make fun of you, then she isnt the one
nice bro, good for you.
its like uncertainty, you know, like if i suck at valo, i can atleast grind more and get better. this situation on the other hand just feels helpless.
Idk man if u truly think shes the one, you should definitely go for it. But if you dont end up going for it, dont get depressed over it or let it affect your life. Also about the instagram stuff, just uninstall that shit. It's not healthy comparing your life to others, especially because people only post things that are good in their lives and not the bad
yeah, thanks for ur words.
also i dont have inst0gr0m or any social media lol i see her posts sometimes from my friend's phone
wow you are even more of a pussy than i thought
i dont like insulting people but wow bro
are you 12? get up and say hello, pussy
if you dont come up to her you are going to live with this regret forever my guy,yolo it whatever happens happens
how do i even approach her? with what context? i've never talked to her ever before.
Idk learn to make some small talk and then you can start from there to let to know her. If you never talked to her how do you "love" her lol
its like valorant u need to shoot and if u whiff go to the next round
ok so in valorant terms
even if you think it's an unwinnable 1v5 and that u should save, you never know if you'll ace or not. If you whiff, that's okay, there will always be more rounds
here's what i think how the situation looks:
you have a pistol, and you could try fighting with that, with the possibility of winning one round. whereas if you pick up that op and save it and give it to lets say you have kangkang on ur team, he would win you the whole game, who knows?
so now is it worth taking that shot?
ok dropping valorant terms for a second
if you're never going to try to shoot your shot then don't say stuff like "she'll never love me" or "i don't have a chance with her"
you literally have no idea what she thinks about you because you haven't tried to get to know her
also #20 is a retarded take because what does it matter if people talk about you, you're literally a working adult now, it's not college / high school anymore
I would advise you to get to know her better, try to become friends with her and then take it from there. Also I dont think you "love" her its still just a crush, if you dont know her that well (although judging by how ur describing it, its a very strong crush)
youre asking the wrong people bro
come up to your local chad (like myself) and ask for actual advice
if you rate as objectively as possible out of 10, what would you be, and what would she be?
You miss 100% of shots you don't take.
Is better to be disappointed and move on , than just regretting it in future
Think of it like a main quest that you refuse to do because you're scared
can't progress the story until you do
and everyone around you has done it or already doing it and leveling up for it
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