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I might have just fumbled badly

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#1
Yistyy

Im sure no one cares but I have to get this off my chest. I was just walking back to my dorm after hitting the gym and getting some food. In the lobby I saw a 10/10 baddie who seemed distraught and on the verge of tears. She was sitting alone too and I remember seeing her in the exact same spot 2 hours before when I was leaving for the gym.

I realized later that I fucked up and I had an easy conversation starter by asking her if she was ok. So I went back down and now she's on the phone but she still looks upset.

What do I do? I think she noticed me wandering, fuck man.

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fezure
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????????????????? HARASSMENT LEAVE THE GIRL ALONE WERIDO

#9
Yistyy
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How? I just wanted to see if she was ok. If she said she wanted to be left alone I would have left.

#17
fezure
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you are literally stalking her and being obsessive when you literally dont know the person or have even spoke to her? weird ass thought process from you https://www.vlr.gg/535333/hello-vlr/#21 even more proof you're oddball

#18
Yistyy
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Huh? The no girls thing is a running joke on vlr for years. Like for example I just found this with a simple search
https://www.vlr.gg/post/3334804/gym-suggestion

Also wondering if someone is ok is not stalking wtf. How is everything I say getting twisted rn

#33
nobody___100
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are u a redditor lmfao

#35
simbhdri
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simbhdri mentioned somewhere in this post <3

#41
InYourDreams
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Reddit behaviour

#43
vindrew
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0 social awareness

#36
Two_Percent
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dog how is wondering if a girl is ok harrasment?? Its not like he was gonna ask her out on the spot lol

#39
zekken_on_adderall
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Not only is it harrassment but it's also sexist

#42
Two_Percent
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how is it sexist????

#46
KClaw
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Don't question sen fans bro they think in a complete different dimension

#47
Two_Percent
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life is irl twitter to them

#3
termtermtermterm
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just walk away if she on her phone theres prob more important things she doing

#10
Yistyy
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Yeah maybe you're right

#4
Dudhi
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instead of focusing on tryna hit or sumn like that, how about just tryna be in the mindset of helping a person or leaving a person alone in a bad situation?

also wild first thoughts ngl

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Yistyy
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Tbh that was my main intention, but her being fine was just a bonus

#5
Aayan
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maybe its just me but its hella weird that u see someone on the verge of tears and ur first thought is ab you fumbling

#11
Yistyy
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Not my first thought. Im just wondering if I should have said something. But judging by the comments maybe it was good i didn't say anything.

#6
Uncleben
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Dawg being disappointed in urself for not taking advantage of a vulnerable person is mad weird

Like you should be disappointed that ur not confident enough to comfort someone in distress that you felt empathy for, not whatever this is

#16
Yistyy
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Jeez guys, I genuinely did feel bad.

#8
cobalt21312
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would you have considered walking up to them if they were not 10/10

#12
vorro1x
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😂😂

#13
m0rtem
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mf be asking 16 year old valo degens for advice in the middle of trying to pull.

for real tho even if they chopped or nah, ask them if they ok and try to comfort them

#14
Dudhi
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why the change from g2 to bbl my friend?

#15
m0rtem
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dont want hereshits to make champs

still support g2 tho

#19
Dudhi
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w mans

#40
zekken_on_adderall
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W

#20
grisx23
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I cant tell if this is satire

#22
Yistyy
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Its not. Im a despicable human being ig 🤷‍♂️

#21
ArterieX
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Just leave her alone prolly doesnt want to talk to any stranger while being distressed

#23
Yistyy
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U prolly right

#28
ArterieX
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also u got flamed by ppl i understand what u meant if ur intentions were (which i assume were since u seem pretty kind onvlr)
dont feel bad abt ur self it is only natural to feel attracted to a beautiful woman
u were kind enough to try to help her dont feel bad ok ?

#30
Yistyy
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Thanks, glad someone understands.

#32
ArterieX
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its fine mate ik how bad being called a weirdo feels when u didnt even mean do be remotely weird even things on internet can get in ur head

#24
wordlelover
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Vlr living up to the getting no pussy allegations

#25
Marii
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What does the verge of tears even look like from afar

#27
Yistyy
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Wasn't that far. Like right in the lobby

#26
MindGoblin1
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just go and shoot your shot if she calls the cops then you know she ain't the one

#29
ArterieX
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brother man XD

#31
Marii
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Real

#34
king_bob
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tell her to woman up and wipe those tears

#37
ballsinyojaws
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and then you woke up and everyone clapped 😂

#38
Vegaaa
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harassing a random girl for no reason

#44
oness
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Go for it my friend 💪, make your move. Go ahead console her and take advantage of her vulnerable position and get to know her. Don't listen to the vlr virgins above or you'll stay single forever

#45
InYourDreams
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Just help her if she is been in any problem

#48
Nilonesia
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bro I kinda get wym but this is worded like 💩
It kinda seems like you only wanted to “make sure” they were ok cuz they were cute and you found an icebreaker (someone’s distress???)
Idk abt that one dawg but if u mean it in the context of missing a chance to be a good person I understand.

Yeah sometimes we don’t get 2nd chances for these quick social interactions, so just be aware in the future. I’ve missed chances to help people before, and I guarantee you that every time I’ve come back and helped, or just didn’t hesitate from the beginning it’s always made both parties feel better.

So failing just keeps you more alert to not miss these chances in the future.

Be da better man! 🙌🙌🙌 (and not a creep…)

#52
KClaw
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Actually true that, trying to get chance in someone's time of distress doesn't seem good to me

#53
Nilonesia
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I really don’t think your first thought should be “oh no I fumbled a 10/10” after not comforting a person in distress 😭, much less a stranger.

#54
KClaw
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Yeah I know but for some reason I am getting downvoted

#55
Nilonesia
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I lowkey don’t know maybe ppl either didn’t read ur message properly, you have a bad reputation, or it’s your flag.

#49
SudokuDude
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Is it a fumble tho

#51
KClaw
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It is a big one tbh , but it just depends if the guy genuinely wanted to help her or wanted to shoot his shot and I don't think using someone's bad time to shoot ur shot as it has a more chance is q good thing

#56
SudokuDude
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the down frag is crazy. this really is the reddit of valorant lol

#50
KClaw
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I mean u could have asked her when u were coming back from the gym that was the perfect time , now don't do it bro cause like now ur just gonna come off as weird in front of her cause u don't have a reason to be there yet u are, while u were coming from the gym u could have could have asked her was everything okay since u saw her there crying before as well but now just leave her alone, unless there's a way around that but don't do it cause u think she may become ur gf or something but cause u are genuinely worried for someone

#57
Shadow_Monarch
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Just be a man bro. Go say hi and ask her if she's okay. You have nothing to lose, but can maybe gain. Don't be a pussy~

#58
Z0vereign
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ask for a quick cheeky shag

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