I have been in a talking stage with this asian girl for a bit now and idk I just kinda need some help and dont wanna ask reddit, any help from ball knowers is appreciated, we both go to the same university and play val together sometimes if that helps
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Play Val together -> bring up hobbies and places of interests -> use that conversation to initiate doing something together
find things yall can do together, like some sport or smthg, just be yourself if it clicks it clicks.
All the best
i think everybody has a personal life, it's like a myth that gamers don't have life outside.
If you are Good Looking you can score without trying much.
On the other hand if you are ugly then give up. No amount of game is going to help you.
doesnt really matter much if shes asian or not but just keep trying to know her and hangout with her, eventually things will click (or not) and itll all just fall into places. its not going to get complicated as long as you both are comfortable and just genuinely want to get to know each other
are you actually from australia? if so, there are alot of asians that go to australia for the degree and to even eventually settle there. It is in her best interest to be with an australian?
. She also plays val with u which says that she doesn’t dislike u. I’m guessing she is waiting for u to move things further? maybe ask “wanna try playing this game?” It’s a good start in my opinion
wrong place to ask for dating advice...but just ask her out honestly..worked for me.
in the off chance of getting a no, just queue val...but without her this time
idk why her being asian matters😂😂 if you're really serious about her and not just fucking around, stop playing valorant and actually hang out with her in person. this might be corny but treat everyday like it's the last. enjoy every moment with her, even the ones where you feel like it's a chore. if this girl has shown you enough of her character for you to be confident enough to spend the future with her, don't take it for granted. or else you'll be comparing every other girl to her for the rest of your life. treat her no different than you would your homie (obviously be more sensitive to things) and if she doesn't like you for who u are, oh well atleast u know
brother they're not a different species just talk to her like a normal person 😂😂😂
idk just try hanging out w her more, thats the baseline ngl
if u got classes together then ask her to study w u (preferably just u 2, also maybe try to make it so its somewhere other than the school like a coffee shop or sum. secondary option could be smth like a dorm/res common area i suppose)
ask abt hobbies, see if yall have anything in common that u can do together (idk like watch a movie, go somewhere, etc). this could also include things one of u does that the other one wants to learn to do (ex like learning to paint or wtv), just needs to be smth u can connect on (also could just be playing val together more)
could also js flat out ask her to do smth, doesnt have to be related to any hobbies.could be smth like grabbing coffee or wtv (obv if u/she dont like coffee then not a coffee shop), restaurants, museum, landmark, movie, shi anything u can do together that ppl wouldnt normally do together for no reason.
also maybe dont frame it as a date or wtv, but if she asks ig dont deny it completely, like a “sure, yeah”/ “i guess so yeah” or wtv
just do things that might help a connection imo
im also a vlr bum so dont take any of this advice as gospel or sum shi
every human is different theres no blanket advice that can soecifically apply to "asian girls" other than making sure ur the one driving
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