[ALLAT]
Lets get some things out of the way.
- Everyone does in fact get to have and express an opinion regarding their relationship, the public gets to do that when the relationship makes money from the public.
- There is no "improving" or "growing" that results in the end of the relationship, if both are growing/improving, both continue, this means someone got worse.
- The argument "this is all we knew" is a trap, it has always been a trap. its what people that are jealous of single life say to justify leaving, and everytime, they regret it afterwards.
- If the relationship becomes "clingy" or "stiffling" there is a need for communication and resolvement, not breaks, not space, not dating other people. the break argument is used by windowshoppers/unhealthy people, it is not right, it is not correct.
- Kyedae does deserve the reputation stain, not death threats, only the rep stain. from all that is public, Tenz was a good spouse, so the weight of blame will fall on her.
- It doesnt make sense to end a relationship with someone you spent 7 years with, someone who supported you and helped you through a deadly disease. Tenz isnt entitled to her, a relationship is mutual dedication, however ending a relationship with someone dedicated to you, proves incompetence on YOUR part, so to say it was a "mutual" decision is damage control.
- This is the problem with public relationships, once its public, the public becomes the third ingredient in the couple, so it natural she will have backlash, as in parasocial terms, she is also breaking up with the public. Lesson is, never make your relationship public media.
Do not listen to what she has to say, do not believe her arguments, there is no lesson to be learned from her current perspective.
Single life isnt better, we humans weren't made for it, isolation is bad for you, cheap intimacy is bad for you, happyness isnt the end goal, contentment is, happyness makes you a slave to your senses, it turns you into an animal.
Dont fall for hedonist propaganda, you shouldnt listen to your heart, you dont need to be happy all the time, sadness is necessary, suffering builds character, passion fades away which is why it isnt LOVE, Love is and will always be a choice.
Vegetables are bland, Water is tasteless, exercise is painful, selflessness hurts the ego, self-control is tiring.
Doing whats right DOESNT feel great.
Don't turn yourself into a lab rat
EDIT: I will only redact what I said if it's proven that tenz either completely neglected kyedae, beat her, or cheated. If not, this is a very good example of lazy people not wanting to put in effort in the relationship















