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Kyedae is wrong

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cioccolat

[ALLAT]
Lets get some things out of the way.

  • Everyone does in fact get to have and express an opinion regarding their relationship, the public gets to do that when the relationship makes money from the public.
  • There is no "improving" or "growing" that results in the end of the relationship, if both are growing/improving, both continue, this means someone got worse.
  • The argument "this is all we knew" is a trap, it has always been a trap. its what people that are jealous of single life say to justify leaving, and everytime, they regret it afterwards.
  • If the relationship becomes "clingy" or "stiffling" there is a need for communication and resolvement, not breaks, not space, not dating other people. the break argument is used by windowshoppers/unhealthy people, it is not right, it is not correct.
  • Kyedae does deserve the reputation stain, not death threats, only the rep stain. from all that is public, Tenz was a good spouse, so the weight of blame will fall on her.
  • It doesnt make sense to end a relationship with someone you spent 7 years with, someone who supported you and helped you through a deadly disease. Tenz isnt entitled to her, a relationship is mutual dedication, however ending a relationship with someone dedicated to you, proves incompetence on YOUR part, so to say it was a "mutual" decision is damage control.
  • This is the problem with public relationships, once its public, the public becomes the third ingredient in the couple, so it natural she will have backlash, as in parasocial terms, she is also breaking up with the public. Lesson is, never make your relationship public media.

Do not listen to what she has to say, do not believe her arguments, there is no lesson to be learned from her current perspective.
Single life isnt better, we humans weren't made for it, isolation is bad for you, cheap intimacy is bad for you, happyness isnt the end goal, contentment is, happyness makes you a slave to your senses, it turns you into an animal.
Dont fall for hedonist propaganda, you shouldnt listen to your heart, you dont need to be happy all the time, sadness is necessary, suffering builds character, passion fades away which is why it isnt LOVE, Love is and will always be a choice.

Vegetables are bland, Water is tasteless, exercise is painful, selflessness hurts the ego, self-control is tiring.
Doing whats right DOESNT feel great.
Don't turn yourself into a lab rat

EDIT: I will only redact what I said if it's proven that tenz either completely neglected kyedae, beat her, or cheated. If not, this is a very good example of lazy people not wanting to put in effort in the relationship

#2
ASD
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Brother who cares

#20
cioccolat
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Do you not understand the chokehold micro-celebrities have on the current population?
Have you not seen the collective meltdown Swifties have whenever Travis Kelce does anything?
Celebrities are the modern gods, and they are teaching you awful lessons

#22
catNmouse
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well i personally don’t care what these celebrities do with their personal relationships

#30
KiwiJuice
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only on sheep like u

#39
Danny
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he left the vlr.gg collective conscious the second he retired

we do not care

#3
poiuu20
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https://tenor.com/ja/view/gem-alert-gem-alarm-gif-16665913606119222560
holy peak

#9
KINGMANNY42
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irrelevant i saw that guy doing the prank on the train before

#11
poiuu20
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wait in irl

#13
KINGMANNY42
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yeah

#16
poiuu20
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daaammn tbh i would def pray to not be a target icl lmfao

#4
FNSaimcoach9
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i aint reading allat but i agree

#5
tv0rusluke
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Allat for nothing
Who cares if two people are together or not anymore in the end u gotta lock in irl

#21
cioccolat
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I assume you don't care because you do not allow famous people to define your life. Problem is, there are idiots who do, my point is to try and prevent a few of them from internalizing the wrong lessons celebrities teach

#31
PandaZ
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Bruh based on how invested you are it sounds like you’re one of those idiots

#36
CarnageBTC
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This world would be a better place if idiot people just governored themselves. Let them do idiotic things

#6
MrBulbe
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crazy

#23
cioccolat
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Thank you moistcritikal

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skububu
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i mean they have the right to break up amicably
if they grew apart, then so be it.

weird thing is kyedae and 39daph stopped being friends all of a sudden and kyedae was seen with daph’s ex boyfriend.

i don’t know what’s going on behind the scenes but it seems messy

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cioccolat
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That does make it worse.

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skububu
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i don’t understand how you can get together with your friends ex boyfriend

no wonder the friendship ended

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Nats_2nd_biggest_fan
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Massive news for the unemployed

#10
jawn
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GO OUTSIDE

#34
cioccolat
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what do you think you're implying?

#12
uwukitten
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you MIGHT just be subhuman 😭🙏how do you write this essay off a statement that essentially said they grew out of love? are you retarded? that's completely normal and better to end it off at that point than stay together and let it morph into something toxic and btw it wasn't even mentioned who initiated the break-up, you just assumed it was kyedae because she announced it

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cioccolat
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You can't grow out of love
You can change, but that doesn't mean you became better, you at best did a lateral move.

#42
uwukitten
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clearly you don't understand english because the word grow doesn't mean you become better

#14
itoktobenotok
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NUKE THE WHOLE GENERATION 💣💥

#26
Disaintreal
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only valid reaction

#28
cioccolat
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You talk as if prince Harry's marriage wasn't broadcasted on love television.
Celebrity worship isnt new

#15
SudokuDude
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parasocial activity

#17
Slotshot
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Lol, feel bad for the younger generation. Just like a bird is born with the genetic knowledge to fly a woman is born with the genetic knowledge to select the highest tier mate they can, the internet expanded the selection process and made it instantaneous.

#18
InYourDreams
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Game Name - Getting Over IT so better you also get this into your head

#19
Monsteiur
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couldn't care less

#33
cioccolat
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Good

#25
ARix145
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Can we calm down like is this the first time you have seen a internet personality break up

#32
cioccolat
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I think you misread my point.
I'm not saying this breakup counters love, or that this is the worst thing ever.

I'm saying that, this breakup, like many before it, use bad faith arguments and teach the midwit populace to act in a self destructive manner.

What I'm against is the "lesson" the regular idiots will take from this

Such like the lies that "improving can cause you to fall out of love"
Or "it makes sense to end a relationship if there isn't euphoria"

These concepts reveal faulty ideas that develop awful relationships. They must be avoided

#29
KiwiJuice
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no one is reading that

#37
Schue7ze
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You need smthn real thats not in the internet, touch some grass or meet some friends irl

#38
ggbench
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you need therapy holy fuck what did i just read

#40
GodAwfulGod
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Ah yes because over analyzing a simple twt post that said both parties felt as if they grew apart and creating crazy speculations off of what is essentially a PR statement is a good use of time and effort. Like stop being so parasocial.

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i mean yeah they might have their reasons, but obviously they are hiding things. The daph situation could be interesting but that's too parasocial for me. Kyedae should have at least been thankful or even said she appreciate Tyson for being there for during her treatment. Not sure if that was even mentioned.

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catNmouse
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she mentioned that she’s grateful for spending time with him

#43
PrincePuma01
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Even though I would rather stay silent over this topic, There's a lot of wisdom behind whatever you've mentioned but a good amount of folks will dismiss it.

#45
gutterslugs
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i mean you get to know a person for seven years and tell me if you feel the same way or better about them than the first year this is all so easy to type out

#46
ajtwain
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What a big lil ass loser! oh my! get a life ! kiddo!! does your family/friends not love your or anything or you a bit suicidial or something!llyikes

#47
foythvlr
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Normal people: I wonder if its going to rain tomorrow

#48
TM06Nick
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Putting this much effort into 2 of 8 billion people who will never know you exist

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