shes said she does but her actions say otherwise at times
what can i do
weve been talking for eight months now
any advice boys
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i think she likes me
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You don't pander to those kinds of gals. If she knows what she wants, then you win.
Talk to her ?
Edit : Dont listen the guys that want you to dump^her right away, if need to learn to communicate with your partner if you do want to build any couple on long terms basis, those are the same guys that want a team that disband after one mistake even tho the best team are team that tend to stick together for a long time. You will always have hard moment with your partner, and need to express your feeling. Find solution with her before dump her.
Then you have to request her some proof of love because you dont feel secure
Nah bro it's not that, they just know they like each other that's it, haven't even begun dating.
mate this guy is probably like 14-16 years old, u dont do the shit u said at that age
at that age, most of you haven't maturing enough to have that kind of talk. You will be seen as cringe person.
But if you think you can hold that kind of conversation with her, then go do it. Ask for some kind of confirmation about your relationship with her
Ask her to make it official the worst thing she can say is no, if she does just move on it'll take time but such is life. If she says yes, works out for the better. Otherwise there is plenty of fish in the sea, some bluefin tuna others being goblin sharks.
weve talked about ts before she said shes not ready idk if thats a good or bad thing
i dont think she will ever get ready in the future, speaking from personal experience, is this your first time with liking someone?
oh , i asked cause when its your first time , u will end up with the thought process that you are some kind of charming prince on the white horse, who's gonna eventually win her over with you charm, time, efforts, patience whateevr etc, but it doesnt happen like that, lot of times u get blindsided by the liking and cant really look at things logically and then u end up wasting lots of time and efforts for nothing and thus i suggest u to examine things carefully before pursuing and ngl its not gonna be worth it to wait until she says shes ready
It just doesn't make sense to be in the talking stages for 8 whole months especially if mutual feelings have been confirmed by both you and her idk dude
I think if you have communicated your feelings and she said she's not ready, then in my opinion you should move on.
Why she's not ready and when she'll be ready are irrelevant, if she currently feels the same way you feel about her you would be dating her.
I hope this helps broski.
my usual advice would be give her my number but as i am no longer single my advice will be to become a mole person and live underground
if she said she likes you, you gotta do something now bro
just say you like her and ask her out, it's that simple, doesn't even need to be romantic, just let her know you better on a date
edit: she said she's "not ready" nahhh you gotta let it go, be honest about your feelings again and if she says the same thing unfortunately it's wraps
every time i try she has one reason or another why she cant. in her defence she is very busy and she snaps me to show shes not being dodgy but its getting long now every single time
the weirdist thing is she keeps saying she likes me whenever i bring it up
she says she wants me and likes me more than a friend but then acts all up
idk if she really is this busy or if im being played
bro she is actually using u like a backup option , wrap it up bro, give her one last ultimatum and asking her you dont like it this way all these things she does and whether shes willing to be together or date or whatever and if she cant you cant be friends with her anymore
from what you mention it just sounds like she's stringing you along... it will only hurt you because your feelings are not being reciprocated.
thanks man.
Amigo is actually inspired from warowl videos and I added colega because "amigo" was taken.
Just be straightforward nothing much if you don’t speak up then you’ll be in trouble
I don’t know how you can like a girl for 8 months and not make a move this is insane bruh
Always keep in mind "Actions speak louder than words". You will be able to navigate relationships with others much more easily after doing this.
Ask her out, try to make it official, see if she's actually interested in committing.
based on your other replies shes putting you on the hook. confrot her about a decision and if she keeps up the behaviour distance yourself. there are other girls in the world
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