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referring to player as they/them misgendering??

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Siigma777

Genuine Questions about the tier 2 casters referring to the players with they/their pronouns...

Since referring to Clove with she/her pronouns is misgendering them, how is the reverse also not misgendering?

Most the players go by he/him, so isn't referring to them as they/them misgendering as well?

someone explain

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It is.

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Siigma777
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It is.

yah that is what I thought

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they/them are gender neutral

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Simp4S0m
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It definitely is. But you know they are straight so they don’t get offended by it. Even if someone calls me she I wouldn’t care about it. I don’t take pride in my identity that much

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veneri
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it’s misgendering the players as being gender fluid which they aren’t. however in reality no one should give a fuck.

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Siigma777 [#3]

yah that is what I thought

I thought one of the players were non-binary they them is gender neutral unless a player specifically asked to be referred to as he/him or she/her.

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I always call every agent "he" because i refer to the player.

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Simp4S0m [#5]

It definitely is. But you know they are straight so they don’t get offended by it. Even if someone calls me she I wouldn’t care about it. I don’t take pride in my identity that much

brain rot take

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number1_cNed_fan
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chloeburbank [#4]

they/them are gender neutral

Hello Joji's scrapped debut album chloeburbank

Where have you been?

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Siigma777
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Simp4S0m [#5]

It definitely is. But you know they are straight so they don’t get offended by it. Even if someone calls me she I wouldn’t care about it. I don’t take pride in my identity that much

I agree (with the first 3 words) it's just lowkey annoying to hear since linguisticly they/them refers to multiple people

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number1_cNed_fan [#10]

Hello Joji's scrapped debut album chloeburbank

Where have you been?

Exams :/
How have u been number 1 fan of best duelist 2021?

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veneri [#6]

it’s misgendering the players as being gender fluid which they aren’t. however in reality no one should give a fuck.

yah it's not that I would take offense or get offended for them, it's just annoying to hear since they/them typically refers to multiple people

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Siigma777 [#11]

I agree (with the first 3 words) it's just lowkey annoying to hear since linguisticly they/them refers to multiple people

I mean idc if someone wants to be referred as they/them. But it’s annoying how easily people get offended for being misgendered. It shouldn’t even be that serious that people get cancelled over it

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veneri [#6]

it’s misgendering the players as being gender fluid which they aren’t. however in reality no one should give a fuck.

they is a pronoun which does not refer to gender. That's the whole point. It's not fucking misgendering, they is simply a neutral pronoun without a gender attached. People who do not associate with either gender often choose to go by only they because they don't associate with the male or female genders.

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chloeburbank [#12]

Exams :/
How have u been number 1 fan of best duelist 2021?

I hope you did good on your exams! I am doing great thanks for asking!

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Siigma777 [#13]

yah it's not that I would take offense or get offended for them, it's just annoying to hear since they/them typically refers to multiple people

"They" has literally been a singular personal pronoun since the 1300s, where shakespear was using it to refer to characters of unknown gender. You're a fucking idiot if you think that a word can't have multiple definitions.

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Rubrik_Duck [#15]

they is a pronoun which does not refer to gender. That's the whole point. It's not fucking misgendering, they is simply a neutral pronoun without a gender attached. People who do not associate with either gender often choose to go by only they because they don't associate with the male or female genders.

that makes more sense thank you

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Siigma777
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Rubrik_Duck [#17]

"They" has literally been a singular personal pronoun since the 1300s, where shakespear was using it to refer to characters of unknown gender. You're a fucking idiot if you think that a word can't have multiple definitions.

I know it can that is why I said "typically"

no need to get mad

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It’s not that deep surely

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Siigma777 [#19]

I know it can that is why I said "typically"

no need to get mad

It's used in both cases frequently. saying that one happens more and therefore the other shouldn't happen doesn't make sense. Bear is used more to describe the animal than to describe someone holding something, but that doesn't mean that that usage is invalid/shouldn't be used.

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Simp4S0m [#14]

I mean idc if someone wants to be referred as they/them. But it’s annoying how easily people get offended for being misgendered. It shouldn’t even be that serious that people get cancelled over it

No one is getting cancelled for accidentally misgendering someone, you can tell when it’s an accident. Most of the time is on purpose to provoke a reaction.

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Rubrik_Duck [#21]

It's used in both cases frequently. saying that one happens more and therefore the other shouldn't happen doesn't make sense. Bear is used more to describe the animal than to describe someone holding something, but that doesn't mean that that usage is invalid/shouldn't be used.

never once said the other shouldn't happen just because the other one is used. Didn't say it was invalid either. Just said it sticks out to me when the casters say it. Personally it sticks out to me when it's used, cause it sounds grammatically incorrect. Not saying it is used incorrectly, again just that my ear catches it cause it sounds incorrect.

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samhatts
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I mean I personally wouldn't want to be called they/them as I am not multiple people but can see why others may want to be

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Vegaaa
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everyone is they/them. i am a man born a man. i am still referred to as he him they them.

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Siigma777
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Vegaaa [#25]

everyone is they/them. i am a man born a man. i am still referred to as he him they them.

exactly as "he him they them". They were being referred too only as "they them"

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yaiima0 [#20]

It’s not that deep surely

me when i call clove she:

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chloeburbank [#9]

brain rot take

whats wrong with it? he stated he doesnt mind getting misgendered and other straight people dont either(true)

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frappzlul
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they them is gender neutral; can be used to address anyone.

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i don't care who you are in game I'm calling everyone a he, if agent specific is needed I call the agent name, if group of people i call they, fuck this specific gender pronoun shit

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Pengu12 [#28]

whats wrong with it? he stated he doesnt mind getting misgendered and other straight people dont either(true)

how can using they/them be misgendering if they/them are gender neutral terms

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Siigma777 [#23]

never once said the other shouldn't happen just because the other one is used. Didn't say it was invalid either. Just said it sticks out to me when the casters say it. Personally it sticks out to me when it's used, cause it sounds grammatically incorrect. Not saying it is used incorrectly, again just that my ear catches it cause it sounds incorrect.

"it's annoying to hear" suggests that you think that "they" shouldn't be used in the singular form.

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chloeburbank [#4]

they/them are gender neutral

also plural, which means that now we can't now if we are talking about a singular person or multiple, nicely done.

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cobalt21312
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have some of u ppl never learned basic english???? they is gender neutral

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davidesquer [#33]

also plural, which means that now we can't now if we are talking about a singular person or multiple, nicely done.

Context clues

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chloeburbank [#31]

how can using they/them be misgendering if they/them are gender neutral terms

Ok tell me this, if a biological female chose to use the pronouns He/Him and I knew about this and they knew I knew about this but I still kept on calling him they, wouldn’t they ask me to use their pronouns?

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Pengu12 [#36]

Ok tell me this, if a biological female chose to use the pronouns He/Him and I knew about this and they knew I knew about this but I still kept on calling him they, wouldn’t they ask me to use their pronouns?

no

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Psion
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they/them can literally address ANYONE

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siphonval
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fuck all this pronoun shit im calling everyone monkey fighter

#40
Mortadelo
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Bro how else would you call a group of people wtf are you guys even trynna say

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Pengu12 [#36]

Ok tell me this, if a biological female chose to use the pronouns He/Him and I knew about this and they knew I knew about this but I still kept on calling him they, wouldn’t they ask me to use their pronouns?

no they wouldnt, stop getting pressed over made up scenarios

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davidesquer [#33]

also plural, which means that now we can't now if we are talking about a singular person or multiple, nicely done.

I mean yeah if ur dumb enough to not get that from the context

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Its not lmao. They/them has existed for centuries you'll be okay with someone using those pronouns in normal usage

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veneri [#6]

it’s misgendering the players as being gender fluid which they aren’t. however in reality no one should give a fuck.

They/them is for everyone and has never been a symbol for gender fluid, even today

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chloeburbank [#41]

no they wouldnt, stop getting pressed over made up scenarios

I’m not pressed, I’m just saying the trans people I know would react that way

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