Like I know i’m not lonely and that I have friends and families always by my side, and i shouldn’t worry about finding true love. But idk, whenever i see love stories, or see couples in my feeds, at campus, etc… i just have sudden thoughts of loneliness. Despite being 20, maybe I’m still just an immature brat that doesn’t know how to control his feeling.
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I have friends and families always by my side
you're definitely not alone, you just want a romantic relationship
Look, the honest truth is that you can't really suppress that feeling in a healthy, lasting way, and trying to force it down usually just makes it come back stronger (or turns into frustration, resentment, or weird emotional pressure).
The healthier move isn't suppression, it's acceptance and gentle redirection
Those feelings are super normal and just the fact that you acknowledge is already a great step. And you already know, you are not alone
Yeah, you’re right. I should change my mindset, I shouldn’t see this as a problem but an opportunity to find the right path. Thanks
you CANT control your feelings. its literally impossble. and there is nothing wrong with that, it just is the way it is.
and longing for someone is natural, you’re the exact age that your evolved brain wants to find a mate, no?
imo you should not ask how to supress your feelings, but instead how to react to them
True, I’m probably just panicking because of changes. I should just take things slow and learn. Thanks
unc u just gotta realize theres nothing worrying will do to help so just try to tell yourself to stop. At least for me once i got used to doing that enough I stopped worrying a lot more
Yeah, I’m thinking too much, i still have other stuffs to do for this to get in my way.
u just need to find ur true love n have them cheat on u so that u can reallly appreciate the loneliness u have right now
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