I have above average looks and height but no girl talks to me . And I sse 2/10 guys get all the pretty ladies.
Any tips?
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if you cant even be friends with a woman how do you expect to have a girlfriend?
I've seen the exact opposite on Twitter, "you don't ask the fish for fishing tips" type shit
different fishermen have different ways to catch a fish
different fish have the same way to catch them(generally)
so u ask the ladies, what they like and prefer and make decisions according to that. cuz u can notice these patterns in men and women. men usually have variety of friends with diff-diff likes and dislikes but girls usually are the same with generally everything matching(likes and dislikes) with their friends.
fr? around me, i've noticed several grps like this and so far this has been the case. maybe not everything but ig likes and dislikes do match a bit?? but yeah im not a part of a girl grp, so you'd know better
Well i would say they generally have similar interests but not much more than guys, especially if were talking abt friend groups and not like extremely close friends
Yeah ask the fish how to catch a fish. The amount of upvotes just shows how a lot of people get no huzz.
idk man my gym buddy gets approached hella by girls in the gym and he's similar to me personality wise and here I am
bro, first thing a person sees in you is your looks. work out+ try to dress up according to trends these days.
when u approach someone or vica versa, then personality comes into play, because nobody wants his partner to be as beautiful as princess diana and personality is like chasing him around with a knife on any minor inconvenience
yeah go harass women in swiftplay like that one pdfile
oh wait thats how to go in jail
stop expecting girls to talk to you
desperation gets you nothing
it's cliche but it works: focus on building good friendships first and THEN consider a romantic relationship
but don't go into friendships expecting a romantic relationship
expect mutual respect, fun moments, good memories, etc.
sincerely,
a lesbian w/ a gf
edit: to add on this, romance isn't everything in life dude. i know it sucks feeling like you're being left behind but my favorite conspiracy theory has always been that people always hype and glaze romance and shit for the birth rate to go up. go outside. touch grass. find a hobby that you enjoy doing, you don't have to be good at it. improve on yourself, on your mental, and humble yourself constantly. don't actively go looking for a relationship and it'll come to you naturally as a nice surprise.
I mean I have the same friends that I met by accident years ago and it's usually easier for guys to become Friends than girls idk
forced proximity + time + common interests
it starts with classmates, coworkers, acquaintances -- people you don't know really well and then suddenly you start hanging out a lot, talking abt stuff other than work/school, hanging outside of where you usually see each other, sometimes to go do the [common interest] you have.
it's how i got w/ my gf actually, we were classmates in college, mostly talked abt professors and assignments and then when waiting in line i found out she read a lot of manhwa/manga and we ended up talking about that and sharing recommendations and stuff. she came over to watch movies, we binge-watched tv shows and got to know each other. we were friends for a solid 5 months but after responsibly drinking alcohol and coming out to her, we got together and we're 2 years strong
"hi"
but make sure you are attractive before you talk, otherwise it will not work
random guys that I small talk with sometimes at the metro or a meeting room tell me I should try modeling so
there is this effect that if youre too good looking people will be scared of u and automatically reject themselves because they see u as too good for them
so what that means is YOU should just go to a girl and talk
it takes time but dont go out hunting for a gf
u guys will find eachother at some point or another
- Mindset first Confidence > looks.
- Social skills matter more
The “2/10 guys” you’re seeing probably have good game they are funny, easygoing, flirty, bold enough to approach, humor, teasing or some shit like that
and stop pedestalizing “pretty girls” If you act like they are rare treasures, you’ll will feel nervous areound them and they look at u like u are not Confidence idk just Treat them like normal people, just be urself & act normal...Nonchalance type shit
Also, he should be himself. Embracing who you are is a really attractive trait and people are often too scared to be themselves around others
Idk what ur image of 2/10 guys is but just being funny and outgoing will NOT be enough to pull pretty girls especially "flirty" will be considered as creepy and harassment, here the context matters that its usually easier if you are already friends with the girls because with strangers they wont know ur personality and will think youre harassing them
Also, confidence is important but it wont be jackshit if youre chopped
If you are an actual 2/10 your personality doesn't matter best thing you can do is work a lot so one day you can marry a gold digger
Be yourself, start some hobbies, workout, take care of yourself properly, get rid of abnormal insecurities and try to be happy. Other people will see the self-love and it will make it easier for you to approach people. Especially because new avenues of meeting people will open up when you do a variety of activities. I met my current partner in highschool and I have lived by these things for a while now and I am in a happy relationship of 3 years now.
Also dont objectify women. Thats pretty important too. And also dont blame women when things dont work out. Its not their fault and blaming women will make u less attractive too.
What? No! Objectifying is viewing women as something to get/have instead of seeing them as their own unique person. One who compliments another who maintains the notion that women are real people too, does no harm. However, sexual compliments should only be done once the boundaries of the relationship have been set.
Where did I say that complimenting was objectifying women?
I'll be very honest with you, the fact that you're asking vlr users might be a part of it. going out and talking to women frequently (without wanting to fuck every woman you see) will do you a lot of good. and stop looking at it like a competition.
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