about 4 months ago i made a post talking about a girl who had just left her bf. Thats all in the past now as im actually in a good relationship now. Too good... The girls 5 years older than me (18,23) but she really is great. Shes a model with a masters degree in global health and objectively shes extremely attractive. Shes a great person. The one problem has nothing to do with her honestly but more a me problem. Her dms are flooded with guys from all ranges. From bums to legit nba players, on top of that her being older means she also has quite a few bodies then me but honestly idc to much, but she has all these things going for her and i havent even graduated highschool yet. Regardless i know im decent looking, smart enough and personable enough. But I still dont feel exactly great about myself some times when im with her, especially when i know that if i fuck up theres some nba players waiting. Not to sound like i dont trust her but regardless it sits in the back of my head. The other day she had a full conversation with fucking James Harden. Fear the beard himself. Im not jealous or even insecure but im more confused as to why shes with me. I know this is a soy problem but a problem nonetheless. I come to vlr since its funny seeing people you can tell have never been with a girl give advice , but also since last time i got some decent advice. Am i being an insecure soy boy or is what im feeling have merit. lmk (live in vegas)
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asunaluvr [#3]dont overthink it, if she's with u, she sees something in u
true but regardless it sits with me.
She sees something in you which even with so many others approaching her doesn’t see in them
While your worries do kinda have merit
I think she sees smth in you and sounds awesome <3
Gl my bro
Livvie [#7]While your worries do kinda have merit
I think she sees smth in you and sounds awesome <3
Gl my bro
yeah appreciate the good advice!
SleepingSnorlax [#6]She sees something in you which even with so many others approaching her doesn’t see in them
per chance your right.
I mean yes your worries are like fair
You shouldnt underestimate how fun you are
And whilst Those people might be famous and cool in your eyes most people don’t like someone just because they are famous but because of their personality which you have a beautiful one BC otherwise you wouldnt be in a relationship
(Idk if i made it clear but you are awesome asf and prob even more in her eyes then in your own)
Teunoin [#10]I mean yes your worries are like fair
You shouldnt underestimate how fun you are
And whilst Those people might be famous and cool in your eyes most people don’t like someone just because they are famous but because of their personality which you have a beautiful one BC otherwise you wouldnt be in a relationship
(Idk if i made it clear but you are awesome asf and prob even more in her eyes then in your own)
thanks you seem very genuine and kind i appreciate the advice.
Don't worry about the nba players, they're not relationship guys, the fact that she's transparent about the dms, she's surely happy with you. Don't put yourself down
I'm lowk curious, how did you pull her bro?
AvgRossiFan [#12]Don't worry about the nba players, they're not relationship guys, the fact that she's transparent about the dms, she's surely happy with you. Don't put yourself down
I'm lowk curious, how did you pull her bro?
ermmm lowk idk, we were on a cruise together and we hung out the whole time and we lived sort of near each other. We got along super well but even then some dude kept stalking her so she stayed in my room and thats kinda where it became more than friends.
about 4 months ago i made a post talking about a girl who had just left her bf. Thats all in the past now as im actually in a good relationship now. Too good... The girls 5 years older than me (18,23) but she really is great. Shes a model with a masters degree in global health and objectively shes extremely attractive. Shes a great person. The one problem has nothing to do with her honestly but more a me problem. Her dms are flooded with guys from all ranges. From bums to legit nba players, on top of that her being older means she also has quite a few bodies then me but honestly idc to much, but she has all these things going for her and i havent even graduated highschool yet. Regardless i know im decent looking, smart enough and personable enough. But I still dont feel exactly great about myself some times when im with her, especially when i know that if i fuck up theres some nba players waiting. Not to sound like i dont trust her but regardless it sits in the back of my head. The other day she had a full conversation with fucking James Harden. Fear the beard himself. Im not jealous or even insecure but im more confused as to why shes with me. I know this is a soy problem but a problem nonetheless. I come to vlr since its funny seeing people you can tell have never been with a girl give advice , but also since last time i got some decent advice. Am i being an insecure soy boy or is what im feeling have merit. lmk (live in vegas)
You offer her something that clearly no other guy interacting with her can. You might just not value it as much yourself or you might be unaware. Being a bit confused in your case makes perfect sense but honestly, just enjoy yourself. If you are both willing to commit, then go for it!
satellite_kov [#17]at what age does a 5 year age gap become normal
honestly i've thought the same thing but even though i'm younger it's pretty obvious she's much more naive so i couldn't tell you.
Kaust [#18]You offer her something that clearly no other guy interacting with her can. You might just not value it as much yourself or you might be unaware. Being a bit confused in your case makes perfect sense but honestly, just enjoy yourself. If you are both willing to commit, then go for it!
seems reasonable
SENfns [#14]about 4 months ago i made a post talking about a girl who had just left her bf. Thats all in the past now as im actually in a good relationship now. Too good... The girls 5 years older than me (18,23) but she really is great. Shes a model with a masters degree in global health and objectively shes extremely attractive. Shes a great person. The one problem has nothing to do with her honestly but more a me problem. Her dms are flooded with guys from all ranges. From bums to legit nba players, on top of that her being older means she also has quite a few bodies then me but honestly idc to much, but she has all these things going for her and i havent even graduated highschool yet. Regardless i know im decent looking, smart enough and personable enough. But I still dont feel exactly great about myself some times when im with her, especially when i know that if i fuck up theres some nba players waiting. Not to sound like i dont trust her but regardless it sits in the back of my head. The other day she had a full conversation with fucking James Harden. Fear the beard himself. Im not jealous or even insecure but im more confused as to why shes with me. I know this is a soy problem but a problem nonetheless. I come to vlr since its funny seeing people you can tell have never been with a girl give advice , but also since last time i got some decent advice. Am i being an insecure soy boy or is what im feeling have merit. lmk (live in vegas)
about 4 months ago i made a post talking about a girl who had just left her bf. Thats all in the past now as im actually in a good relationship now. Too good... The girls 5 years older than me (18,23) but she really is great. Shes a model with a masters degree in global health and objectively shes extremely attractive. Shes a great person. The one problem has nothing to do with her honestly but more a me problem. Her dms are flooded with guys from all ranges. From bums to legit nba players, on top of that her being older means she also has quite a few bodies then me but honestly idc to much, but she has all these things going for her and i havent even graduated highschool yet. Regardless i know im decent looking, smart enough and personable enough. But I still dont feel exactly great about myself some times when im with her, especially when i know that if i fuck up theres some nba players waiting. Not to sound like i dont trust her but regardless it sits in the back of my head. The other day she had a full conversation with fucking James Harden. Fear the beard himself. Im not jealous or even insecure but im more confused as to why shes with me. I know this is a soy problem but a problem nonetheless. I come to vlr since its funny seeing people you can tell have never been with a girl give advice , but also since last time i got some decent advice. Am i being an insecure soy boy or is what im feeling have merit. lmk (live in vegas)
nooomy [#23]about 4 months ago i made a post talking about a girl who had just left her bf. Thats all in the past now as im actually in a good relationship now. Too good... The girls 5 years older than me (18,23) but she really is great. Shes a model with a masters degree in global health and objectively shes extremely attractive. Shes a great person. The one problem has nothing to do with her honestly but more a me problem. Her dms are flooded with guys from all ranges. From bums to legit nba players, on top of that her being older means she also has quite a few bodies then me but honestly idc to much, but she has all these things going for her and i havent even graduated highschool yet. Regardless i know im decent looking, smart enough and personable enough. But I still dont feel exactly great about myself some times when im with her, especially when i know that if i fuck up theres some nba players waiting. Not to sound like i dont trust her but regardless it sits in the back of my head. The other day she had a full conversation with fucking James Harden. Fear the beard himself. Im not jealous or even insecure but im more confused as to why shes with me. I know this is a soy problem but a problem nonetheless. I come to vlr since its funny seeing people you can tell have never been with a girl give advice , but also since last time i got some decent advice. Am i being an insecure soy boy or is what im feeling have merit. lmk (live in vegas)
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satellite_kov [#17]at what age does a 5 year age gap become normal
maybe around the age of 23
delighted [#26]maybe around the age of 23
yeah somewhere around there is it fine
delighted [#27]she's happy with u + u shouldn't worry abt the nba players
yeah reasonable
Minispoon [#13]ermmm lowk idk, we were on a cruise together and we hung out the whole time and we lived sort of near each other. We got along super well but even then some dude kept stalking her so she stayed in my room and thats kinda where it became more than friends.
You met her on a cruise? holy titanic
Also, if you asked her out, were you hesitant due to the age gap?
AvgRossiFan [#30]You met her on a cruise? holy titanic
Also, if you asked her out, were you hesitant due to the age gap?
not really, in my head i was more thinking abt how this is the prettiest girl ive ever seen, so whats there to be nervous about.
Minispoon [#31]not really, in my head i was more thinking abt how this is the prettiest girl ive ever seen, so whats there to be nervous about.
W rizz mans, I'd have never approached a cute girl on a cruise thinking she prob here with her bf
All i can say is with that attitude she's not your's it's just ur turn buddy if you show her that you're insecure she's gonna fall out
Pls tell harden to lock in gang they need that 35 - 20 run tell him to tell kawhi too nga got injured outta nowhere
Minispoon [#19]per chance
you cant just say perchance. its definitely dismounter.
Cael [#33]All i can say is with that attitude she's not your's it's just ur turn buddy if you show her that you're insecure she's gonna fall out
her last bf was an insecure bum so i try not to be like that
Pusakabo0 [#35]Pls tell harden to lock in gang they need that 35 - 20 run tell him to tell kawhi too nga got injured outta nowhere
he fucked up my parlay the other night
sideshowsbaldhead [#34]this definitely isn’t real but if it is ur getting groomed
Yeah I hope it’s fake bc it’s weird when someone with a masters is with a high schooler..
Sorry to be negativity, but let me give you advice.
Just bc she said that she likes you, doesnt mean she is you gf, you guys are not even related yet.
You have somethings to work, meet her, talk to her, date her, know her.
Dont be emotional, dont call her gf or say you love her, you are a interest for now.
It's a copypasta, don't listen to what it says btw
ashyemperor [#40]Yeah I hope it’s fake bc it’s weird when someone with a masters is with a high schooler..
i dont gain anything from lying but i dont feel its that weird; what makes it weird
Nats_2nd_biggest_fan [#41]Sorry to be negativity, but let me give you advice.
Just bc she said that she likes you, doesnt mean she is you gf, you guys are not even related yet.
You have somethings to work, meet her, talk to her, date her, know her.
Dont be emotional, dont call her gf or say you love her, you are a interest for now.It's a copypasta, don't listen to what it says btw
also probably true
Minispoon [#20]idk couple months?
idk man try to spend more time with her and learn abt her ig?
if she trust u she might open up and u can clear ur doubts
AvgRossiFan [#32]W rizz mans, I'd have never approached a cute girl on a cruise thinking she prob here with her bf
yeah but its the best time cause even if they do have a bf youll never see them again
_AshBorne_ [#47]idk man try to spend more time with her and learn abt her ig?
if she trust u she might open up and u can clear ur doubts
we had a talk yesterday actually and it left me with more doubts
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