like someone i like jst leaves me on read like a fuck ton and i jst feel shit like i jst want to talk to him (sry for posting like off topic things on this site its jst i dont have anywhere to talk abt this )
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I hate that, and it's completely fine to post shit ton of things about non valorant things (just make sure you set it on off topic thread)
TheFumbler [#3]Why are we censoring the word "just"?
no im jst shortening it cus im lazy
dimmed [#2]Idk what to say to this since I am the one who ghosts my friends a lot
ur friends miss you
either they don’t fw you that way or they just don’t text much. could be either but defo if they come online but don’t reply you they’re probably not into you. better to move on than be stuck on someone.
OR it could be that they just don’t know what to reply because there are people like that or maybe your reply was lowkey a conversation ender.
anyways hope this finds you well, there’s always someone out there you’ll like more 😊
xhaetae [#7]either they don’t fw you that way or they just don’t text much. could be either but defo if they come online but don’t reply you they’re probably not into you. better to move on than be stuck on someone.
OR it could be that they just don’t know what to reply because there are people like that or maybe your reply was lowkey a conversation ender.
anyways hope this finds you well, there’s always someone out there you’ll like more 😊
they reply to me on discord but like on WhatsApp they never reply to me
Experienced it and sucks man like bro if u had to go somewhere mid conversation fucking tell me and then leave , now I am just left hanging in the convo
KClaw [#10]Experienced it and sucks man like bro if u had to go somewhere mid conversation fucking tell me and then leave , now I am just left hanging in the convo
oh like i like like like him not like as a friend
Emmieeee [#11]oh like i like like like him not like as a friend
Does the person know u like him, do they do this with bad intentions , do they do this everyone, u gotta know all this then
pkkkk [#6]ur friends miss you
Dw its fine my friend group are all very close
if people cant be bothered to respond i just cut them out of my life cuz i'd rather have people who actually care instead
KClaw [#12]Does the person know u like him, do they do this with bad intentions , do they do this everyone, u gotta know all this then
they dont like 100 percent know but i think they might think that i do and also idk if they don't like me but i spend quite alot of time w him at school and he talks to me alot but they have told me they are homophobic but for some reason he seems rly gay and also he like touches me but i think he does that as a joke
Emmieeee [#9]they reply to me on discord but like on WhatsApp they never reply to me
Text them on discord then, problem solved
I_LOVE_LESS [#14]if people cant be bothered to respond i just cut them out of my life cuz i'd rather have people who actually care instead
w mentality, unfortunately its just too hard to cut them out seeing them drift away from our friendship for some other fuckass people
dimmed [#2]Idk what to say to this since I am the one who ghosts my friends a lot
that aint tuff
CaxTonYT [#17]w mentality, unfortunately its just too hard to cut them out seeing them drift away from our friendship for some other fuckass people
im really good at cutting people out of my life because of how much i've had to do it, they kinda just disappear from my memory forever once they let me down and wont apologize or change their ways
I_LOVE_LESS [#19]im really good at cutting people out of my life because of how much i've had to do it, they kinda just disappear from my memory forever once they let me down and wont apologize or change their ways
is it not hard to do it with long time friends? or u havent had that situation
DaBetz [#18]that aint tuff
It wasn't meant to. It's just something that happened because I was busy besides my friend group is decently large so me going missing for a few days isn't that big deal
Emmieeee [#9]they reply to me on discord but like on WhatsApp they never reply to me
whatsapp can see last online unless they turn it off what, just check from there and see if the last online overlaps with the time you sent your message. if you’re left on seen or read but not replied they're probably not into you…
I_LOVE_LESS [#14]if people cant be bothered to respond i just cut them out of my life cuz i'd rather have people who actually care instead
THIS. why waste your time on someone who clearly doesn’t care for the most part. find someone better 😭
When that happens to me I recognize that the way I feel is because I like the person. For whatever reason they aren't replying, try to do another activity apart from thinking about it. If it had been anyone else you wouldn't have cared, right? So identifying that is key.
Also, ask him out! Good luck :)
amigo_colega [#24]When that happens to me I recognize that the way I feel is because I like the person. For whatever reason they aren't replying, try to do another activity apart from thinking about it. If it had been anyone else you wouldn't have cared, right? So identifying that is key.
Also, ask him out! Good luck :)
W analysis
Don’t bother forcing it.
I’ll put it in simpler terms:
You can lose someone no matter how much you care or how hard you try.
The only reason anything would work is if both people are willing to be kept/stay/commit/pursue something, especially if this is going on for a while ...
If anything, maybe ask him why first
... If they really view you platonically, it's better you find out sooner than later. So, don't worry about any outcome :)
xhaetae [#22]whatsapp can see last online unless they turn it off what, just check from there and see if the last online overlaps with the time you sent your message. if you’re left on seen or read but not replied they're probably not into you…
they view every message i send them in like an hr or so even late at night until maby like 1 or 2 am then its always read by the morning
CaxTonYT [#20]is it not hard to do it with long time friends? or u havent had that situation
had it many many times thats why its so easy now
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