StutterSt3p [#11]
'i dont mean it as a gender" If that's the case then you literally proved yourself wrong because then that kind of connection can be built regardless of gender.
But I do get what you're saying, as in that connection does exist, and is gendered. However, I'm still failing to see how that connection is so superior to other connections, that the only way teams can exist in any fashion, is through gender connections.
no i meant the boys as in that special group of boys to not create confusion as to if i was referring to the gender in general or just a group of boys.
that connection just has a special chemistry that you can clearly see when playing sports or something. maybe you've never really played anything with really close friends. but im telling you from experience that it is different than playing with people who are "just friends". i think its because you just dont give a shit about anything when you play with your friends and you're in a super relaxed state where ur just having fun.
also sorry to break your bubble but men just feel more comfortable with men. and women feel more comfortable with women. there will ALWAYS be that underlying thought of potential sexual or romantic relations when you are with a person of the opposite sex because it is a primal and innate mechanism that humans as animals have.