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No1AsunaFannn

A girl in my college(we are friends), who I know already has a boyfriend (I have confirmed) is currently dating my buddy (too emotional/depressed in past) who doesn't know that he's the side-guy

Should I tell him the truth or not, he's gonna think I'm just saying stuff as I might be jealous.

Edit - I might tell him tomorrow

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azraelmdfk
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if hes really our friend why the fuck would he think something like that? go support your bro

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No1AsunaFannn
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As I said... He's an emo

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azraelmdfk
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Okay, dont want to judge your own personal case, but have dealing with several friends with depression/anxiety i dont think they ever gonna think like that about me

In any case, you should tell him, the gesture is what is important in here, if he doesnt believes you that isnt in your hands tbh

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Quagmire
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sit back and enjoy the drama 😈

#37
RAOSHAB
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no, make it a rectangle

#40
Quagmire
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the guys make it a triangle leaving the girl out

#4
jish
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bro you gotta tell him

#5
enri
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Lmao

#6
Demise
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bros over hoes

#8
ilovefrozenblueberries
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The only way this will end is

1) you tell him
2) you dont tell and he eventually finds out

I would say its better to find out earlier than after you have been invested for a longer time

#10
trola
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you should indirectly tell him, like i saw your girlfriend with a guy yesterday they look a little intimate or i saw a photo of her with this guy and blah blah

#12
No1AsunaFannn
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W OPINION, i was also thinking something like this...
I'll just clue him in and he'll find it out for himself

#15
ilovefrozenblueberries
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Hire a play and invite the girl and also the guy to watch the play and make the play a reenactment of how the girl is cheating on the guy

#22
Mttn
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This would make for a totally boring tv show!

#28
ilovefrozenblueberries
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[Exeunt ROSENCRANTZ and GUILDENSTERN]

Now I am alone.
O, what a rogue and peasant slave am I!
Is it not monstrous that this player here,
But in a fiction, in a dream of passion,
Could force his soul so to his own conceit
That from her working all his visage wann'd,
Tears in his eyes, distraction in's aspect,
A broken voice, and his whole function suiting
With forms to his conceit? and all for nothing!
For Hecuba!
What's Hecuba to him, or he to Hecuba,
That he should weep for her? What would he do,
Had he the motive and the cue for passion
That I have? He would drown the stage with tears
And cleave the general ear with horrid speech,
Make mad the guilty and appal the free,
Confound the ignorant, and amaze indeed
The very faculties of eyes and ears. Yet I,
A dull and muddy-mettled rascal, peak,
Like John-a-dreams, unpregnant of my cause,
And can say nothing; no, not for a king,
Upon whose property and most dear life
A damn'd defeat was made. Am I a coward?
Who calls me villain? breaks my pate across?
Plucks off my beard, and blows it in my face?
Tweaks me by the nose? gives me the lie i' the throat,
As deep as to the lungs? who does me this?
Ha!
'Swounds, I should take it: for it cannot be
But I am pigeon-liver'd and lack gall
To make oppression bitter, or ere this
I should have fatted all the region kites
With this slave's offal: bloody, bawdy villain!
Remorseless, treacherous, lecherous, kindless villain!
O, vengeance!
Why, what an ass am I! This is most brave,
That I, the son of a dear father murder'd,
Prompted to my revenge by heaven and hell,
Must, like a whore, unpack my heart with words,
And fall a-cursing, like a very drab,
A scullion!
Fie upon't! foh! About, my brain! I have heard
That guilty creatures sitting at a play
Have by the very cunning of the scene
Been struck so to the soul that presently
They have proclaim'd their malefactions;
For murder, though it have no tongue, will speak
With most miraculous organ. I'll have these players
Play something like the murder of my father
Before mine uncle: I'll observe his looks;
I'll tent him to the quick: if he but blench,
I know my course. The spirit that I have seen
May be the devil: and the devil hath power
To assume a pleasing shape; yea, and perhaps
Out of my weakness and my melancholy,
As he is very potent with such spirits,
Abuses me to damn me: I'll have grounds
More relative than this: the play 's the thing
Wherein I'll catch the conscience of the king.

[Exit

#33
blazennn
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make this a movie

#36
ilovefrozenblueberries
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Something quite similar exists , google “The Tragedy of Hamlet”

#11
Okayyyyyy
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Be a w man’s and tell him. It’ll hurt him at first but not telling him means you’re allowing him to get played, just think about it, she’s out there laughing about this situation in her gc rn, don’t let your boy go down like this

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Rebellion2408
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I know it's risky to tell this to him because you said he is an emotional dude but I think it is for the best that you tell him. Because there are chances he might find it sooner or later and that would be even more depressing for him. So I guess it's better to tell him as quick as possible and whatever happens is in his hands tbh

#18
No1AsunaFannn
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👍

#14
orqn
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Met up with my duo, it wasn't awkward at all. Met her friend thats really close to her, red flag?? After we went for a walk at korea town, got Boba and corn dog together, I notice she meows randomly in middle of conversations like she does in valorant and she told me she wants to bark at random strangers especially children weird but I dont mind cause I was fine with it in valorant. We went to Canada's wonderland after (better than Disney world imo and never been there) that's when I started getting comfortable with her hanging my hand on her shoulder whenever Im tired. she asked me to hold hands, at first I said no but we did hold hands eventually. At night we went to jollibe for her first time, she liked it. Then night ended. Should I go for another date, if so any tips?

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No1AsunaFannn
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Bruh, it's not my copypasta, it was similar but not this one

#19
orqn
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Is meowing and barking in public a red flag? she doesn't do it out loud, only I would hear it, and I don't think she's stopping it cause it seems like she does it with her family too. She's half white half japanese (a fucking dream) sometimes she would just say baka for some reason, she likes kpop too which I dont like. But she's a 10.

this one?

#29
No1AsunaFannn
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Nah... It's the shy guy one

#32
orqn
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I remember that one

#38
No1AsunaFannn
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HERE YOU GO BUDDY

We have similar interests, live close And she usually starts the conversations.
I am interested as well, wanna see where this goes

Should I stay this way like I don't really care like she's a good friend... I fear if I open up too much I'll mess it up.

And I swear if this turns into a copy-pasta I'll become a simp

#17
Neonfreak
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If I told my friend that his girlfriend was cheating on him and he responded with, "You're just jealous" I would seriously reconsider being friends with that person.

#20
ilovefrozenblueberries
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If my friend told me that id go date his girlfriend and mom at the same time and break his moms heart and his at the same time. At the same time I’d hire someone to date his dad, then have the dad find shes cheating on him, then have the mother find out the father is cheating on then while having the dad find out his wife is cheating on him so I’d break 3 hearts at once

#21
nutab1e
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that's crazy I'd probably just smash his brother personally

#24
ilovefrozenblueberries
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If they had a brother and sister id date both of them at the same time then have the brother walk in on me and his sister

#26
Neonfreak
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Just fuck the dad while ur at it, might as well complete the collection.

#35
ilovefrozenblueberries
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Gotta catch em all

#23
Neonfreak
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Actually go to the girl first since ur friends and tell her to break it off or you will tell him

#25
No1AsunaFannn
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.

#27
No1AsunaFannn
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He's good dude.
see the thing is, we kinda used to joke around about dating her... (Not serious on my part)
Ofc he took it seriously and now if I say that she already has a boyfriend, he'll feel I'm f#cking with him

#31
nutab1e
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do you have a 3rd friend in your group that can tell him for you without that dynamic?

#34
No1AsunaFannn
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Good idea

#30
ufc
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tell him immediately, before he is anymore invested than he already is

#39
vispri
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this right here ^^^

the more attached he becomes and the day he figures out, hes going to be in more shambles than you just telling him now!!

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