my ex (who ive been missing so much and have gone no contact all this time) just emailed me asking for 400$ she owes someone money and if she doesnt pay shes geting taken to court
context she hates me btw i know she alrd asked every person in the world before coming to me
wat i do
cap but if not, verify if it is actually true or she just scamming u. if it is true, if u care about her, u can help her ig. just don't have that hope that she will get back with u cuz it will not happen.
well we obviously arent getting back toghether because shes across the country but i know its prob true because she would NEVER contact me
broke bitch begging everyone she's ever known for $ not just because she's broke as shit but to get her ass out of COURT?? she is a fucking LOSER
if it helps you to heal from the relationship then its worth it, whatever your reasoning is it needs to be you doing it for YOURSELF and not for her. like other people have said if you have any hope of you guys getting back together and thats the reason then please do not do it, it will not do anything towards that. please asses what you're actually feeling too, i have bpd so my emotions are much more extreme however they still apply to big situations like this, make sure you have a reason for what you're feeling, don't just act on an emotion without knowing why you have it, i've made that mistake way too many times.
well i know we arent getting back tg because im on westcoast and shes on eastcoast, and she doesnt do long distance relationships
idk its been almost a year since i last talked to her? i kinda js want that feeling again and just kinda talk abou life yk
this is pretty unhealthy imo however, i understand wanting to feel like that for sure cuz i've been there but it's just not worth it
all its going to do is make you miss and want her more so i heavily recommend against it, please try to work on coping with feeling that way. like i said it does suck and it takes a long time to get over but going back to her is gonna do nothing but hurt you further, i believe in you and wish you the best always!! :]
ive sent her an email back and so far havent gotten a reply yet, i know its going to make me miss her more and probably end up hurting myself more in the process but i just wanna talk to her. i miss our convos.
If she asked everyone else before you, you're not worth her time or money, she is an ex because she in your past, leave it that way gang
i mean bro cut me off bro blocked me on every single platform virtually available and im pretty sure she thinks im dead too so i know shes literally exhausted every option before coming to me i dont even know if she had a new bf or anything
i still love her tho
She isnt your responsibility. If you give her that money you are betraying yourself and showing you dont have boundaries for yourself. I understand you love her, I've felt the same way about exs before, but dont fix someone elses problems especially in this case.
no i mean like
im using this as an oppturtunity to get back into contact with her yk?
like maybe i can convince her to unblock me
Bro, it's not worth it. She gave up on you, she is trying to use you for money. The only option you have in this situation, is to just move on man. If she did that once what's stopping her from doing it again. I can't force you to make a decision but im telling you man, dont engage the conversation. Just stop going back to the texts, try to stop thinking about her, dont let your thoughts about her stop you from meeting new people. I felt the same way about a girl but a bit of a different situation. Just here recently i made the mistake of going in for a 2nd chance with her. I've still had some trouble even to this very hour completely forgetting about her. But i made the mistake of trying again and now im suffering the consequences of my mental being screwed up and Im damaged. Again, I cant force you into anything, but if you just stop for a minute and take anything from my messages, its to put yourself first. I know you can do it, everyone in the thread does, do whats best for you man, take care of yourself please.
i still love her tho
well there u go thats why ur consdiering this
dont do this shit lol think of all the things u can buy for $400
Tell her to fuck off
(Honestly, id send her the money and ask her to meet up. pls laura i miss u so much just let me hug u one more time)
I hope you haven’t done anything bad which makes it easy for her to approach the court. if not then I think you could ignore the mail simply
If you find it in ur heart to help her then help her out n dont expect anything in return (other than $400)
damn
but my suggestion is gonna be the same if u find it in ur heart to help her then do it
At last you wont feel like i shouldve helped her this n tht
n if all of this is bs u r puttin on vlr then fck u :(
Don't do it, if you give her $400 this time she'll ask for $600 next time and she'll keep doing it if she realized she can farm you for money.
I wish I had a simp like you that I could call upon for money just like that
You’re gonna give her $400 and then she will block you. She’s a genius, you’re a fool (or you’re just baiting).
im already blocked on every platform available on the planet this mf contacted me on a burner email
Honestly, let her deal with her own problems. Save your peace and sanity, she's your ex for a reason.
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