hey I know this isnt a suitable forum but I need some genuine help everything hurts I cant eat I cant do anything I need advice please
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dealing with heartbreak
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take time for yourself and allow yourself to grieve bro and spend time with the people that love you
you are still loved and valued as a person. dont forget that, ever
one break up, short term or long term will never define you as a person, genuinely never
you are a great person, best of luck and hope you will recover soon <3
delete everything about them, block them, get out of the house and get som food with friends/family
get in shape and never try to stalk their socials
its a long way to go but its going to get better, trust me
It’s ain’t helping when you still having the memories which will not be forgotten
babushka_boii95 eventually will accept it and learn to live with It
Wish we can forget exes and shih but their memories will remain. All you can do is forgive and cherish the good times they gave to you
lock in bro. Go to gym and don't even look back at their social media.
Take your emotions out on the incredible game, Shadow of War. The nemesis system is so sick
it's not a mf ad, it's a sick game that's criminally underrated and would easily put any depressed person into a state of happiness
Speaking from experience, self improvement is the best distraction. For me it was the gym + working on projects (I like watchmaking so thats what I did), but really do whatever makes you a better version of your self, you will be so distracted by it that by the end you will get over it. Sounds corny and all but I was pretty down bad and just hitting a soft reset helped me and I don't really look back now.
Best of luck tho, ts hard and its not fun, but in the end things turn out kinda ok
Just talk with your best friend he would help to lower your suffering
I mean bro it's gonna hurt, the more time that was spent on that thing from which u got heartbreak from, the more time will be needed to recover. Life will be slow tbh and painful, u just grieve and talk with people abt it if possible , also u will start to remember happy memories Abt her ( I am assuming heartbreak means a girl broke ur heart) but try to balance that out with all the sad experiences with the person as well. This is a general thing that often when we start liking a person and go through heartbreak we think we loved the person but in many cases they actually didn't, we create a completely different than the reality version of the person in our heads according to ourselves and like that imaginary version and not actually the real one, try focusing on this. Also speaking from personal experiences yeah it's gonna be really painful, my first time I didn't have an appetite for 2 months and just watched series and anime and movies
your girlfriend left you? a better one is coming (please get the reference)
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