I need yo guys professional opinion on this matter
okay so first you gotta go up to them, right? if you don’t want to do that, then just abuse ur seating plan and say “hi” to her in class. think of another class that you two have together, and be like “i don’t get the work, can you help me??” even if you get it. play dumb as an excuse to talk to her (it works i’ve tried it but on boys) this is how ur gonna get her number now, once you start talking mention that you’re going to have an exam soon (EVEN IF ITS A LIE) and ask her if you can look at her notes since yours r very messy. she would 99% not have her textbook on her, so you could be like “maybe we can exchange numbers and you can send photos of them to me?”
i mean i suck at talking to boys but yeah
if you don’t want this method, i have another one ‼️‼️‼️
legit add them on snap and be like “heyy, what’s up?” they might think ur weird for a bit but i promise if you talk for a while they’ll stop thinking about that. if you’re texting but she’s ignoring you in real life, it isn’t worth it.
1- Just treat women normally, like human beings, not inferior or superior beings
2- Wash yourself and stay clean. Take care of your appearance in general
3- Be Sociable and mature
4- Get along with girls/women sometimes, be open to do some things and participate of more talks with them
5- Make different circles of friends in your work, school/college
6- Enter some groups of people with same hobbies as you
7- Go to parties (night clubs or friends of friends parties, etc...) and/or use dating apps
about point 2: depending on where you live and your culture, talking to someone with the sole intention of having sex is pretty normalized, and theres not much to it. but if you talk to someone and you only want to have sex, nthing more, be honest about it, dont act in love, dont act as a friend, act as a potential booty call