friend died, nothing interesting going on in life, feeling lifeless whenever I play, got nobody basically, people in real life avoid me as if I am a curse (I can tell you why if u ask me)
I have depression
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First of all, sorry for your loss, I hope you are doing well. You should look into new hobbies, go outside, and take a walk while listening to your favorite music, anything to help you get into a better state of mind. Valorant and VLR will NOT make you feel better.
Personally for me, I think going to the gym consistently has helped me become a happier person because I feel like I’m striving to achieve something everyday (improving my health). If you feel like you’re not doing “interesting”, it’s okay life is all about small steps. You could set a goal for yourself, however small so you feel like you are achieving something everyday!
If you actually believe you have depression, visit a therapist, trust me it’s worth it.
Thanks man, I do go outside a lot but like I don't have anything much going on, living in this country is hopeless, there's no jobs, I got no money to go to the gym and I don't want to burden my parents
edit: i did go to a therapist before and they aren't that good honestly
Damn yeah that situation fucking sucks. It’s impossible for situations to always worsen though, and eventually it’s certain that your situation will improve. If you think everything is hopeless, it’s a downward spiral and you’ll only view life negatively and never be able to tell if things do improve. I hope that you can view the situation for what it could be, and that there is still a support system around you (your parents/family) that you can talk or ask advice from.
To my family, each and every one; their problems are more important than mine, and my friends; their problems are also bigger than mine, hencewhy I have nothing to do now really except go outside and bask in the sunlight doing nothing at all.
It’s absolutely okay to reach out to your friends and family, they care about you and would want to help. Everyone has their own problems, but they won’t ignore someone who they care about if they have a “less important problem”.
The burden on you is too heavy. Look at you now, even if you‘re in a bad mood, you’re still a kind person, still thinking about what others are experiencing. How can your life be meaningless? With people like you around, this world becomes a better place.
Let go of those burdens and relax. No one is the savior, everyone has their own lessons to learn.When you figure this out, you‘ll feel better.
I know it's really hard to even speak up about it, but even if they can't help you or they don't think it's a big deal, its way better than keeping these burdens to yourself. More often than not there will be at least one person willing to listen to you. It won't magically get better the instance you tell them but it's going to help you build a support system and seeing at least one person care about you will make you see yourself in a better light.
Me too, bro. Me too.
I hope all of us can get out of this fucking shitty phase of life and find ourselves in a much better place someday.
sometimes I wish it would have been better that I wasn't born, it's funny because there was a chance I wouldn't be
Sorry to hear man. I get you, things like that can just happen all of a sudden. It's a terrible ass fucking feeling that's hard to dig away from
But just know you aren't cursed or anything man, try getting your mind off of it, as it's just going to make things worse, which I don't want you to feel that. Listen to music, talk here if ever needed with us, watch some youtube videos, anything. I promise that it'll make you feel at least a little better
I'm confident you are a great person with a bright future, you'll still continue to do amazing things in the future. Although everyone says this (and it probably won't help at all), but truly just try not to grieve about it too much. There will always be people you can talk to. You still have a bright future ahead of you, even if you don't see it that way
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Thanks man, appreciated. Honestly, I have no soul in doing anything at all, unfortunately.
I understand, you don't have to worry about trying to force yourself to do anything right now. Just go about it day by day, and if you still don't feel like doing anything, that's completely fine. But just know that you still are a great person that didn't do anything wrong at all, we are all here if ever needed
permanently deleted all my social medias a few days back, and I still feel empty, nobody would text me either ways, I think I will take a break from this web too
That's fair, do whatever you may need that you'll think would benefit you. But don't think that nobody cares about you, or that no one will. There's always a lot of supportive people willing to help you out. As others stated, you could make a call to a therapist or anything. Always a lot of amazing people -- no pressure though, just trying to point that out in case. Take care man ❤️❤️
Sorry for ur loss man:(❤️🩹
i hope u recover from your loss cuz I'm pretty sure that's what ur friend would've wanted u to do❤️
rest in peace to your friend, idk if ur religious or not but may god be with him, and you.
R.I.P to your friend. Wish you a healthy recovery. Things will get better, just believe in yourself and don’t give up ❤️❤️❤️
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