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I have a plan to fix all my insecurities but height. I'm 16 and 5'6. shortest amongst my friend group. I have been feeling super anxious lately. I don't feel confident when I meet new people. My parents aren't that tall either. I'm trying my best to do what I can like exercise, maximising protein intake, hanging etc. I like to hope I will grow, atleast till 5'9 but idk this has been impacting my mental health a lot. I don't have anyone IRL who I can talk to about this so I'm writing here.

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trembolonaRage
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you are basically fvked for your entire life

you cant be considered a man having less than 6 feet and 15.7 inch arms

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Eag1e
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What ev ur height u still matter and people will still love u :)

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BananaBread
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5 foot 6/7 is the average height of a man so don't feel too bad, you are about average height in the world :

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yaiima0
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Height doesn’t make you a better person, being tall in your mind and values is more important than being tall imo.

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trembolonaRage [#2]

you are basically fvked for your entire life

you cant be considered a man having less than 6 feet and 15.7 inch arms

😟

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BananaBread [#4]

5 foot 6/7 is the average height of a man so don't feel too bad, you are about average height in the world :

it's 5'9 acc to google

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Bro I m 6 feet tall and 17 years old and I hate being this tall....no one is contented what they have in this insecure world..

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yaiima0 [#5]

Height doesn’t make you a better person, being tall in your mind and values is more important than being tall imo.

let's be honest, it does matter a lot. it's like the first impression for many people 😔

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MilanTheMyth
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Had the same issue then a growth spirt hit me and I was no longer the shortest guy in my friend group. Height doesn't matter. Just Start making muscles and cooking.

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CalypsoGHC
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Nomesh07 [#8]

Bro I m 6 feet tall and 17 years old and I hate being this tall....no one is contented what they have in this insecure world..

ur stupid i guess

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MilanTheMyth [#10]

Had the same issue then a growth spirt hit me and I was no longer the shortest guy in my friend group. Height doesn't matter. Just Start making muscles and cooking.

how old are u and how tall are you

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Nomesh07
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CalypsoGHC [#11]

ur stupid i guess

Stfu blyat..leave me alone

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MilanTheMyth
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Nomesh07 [#8]

Bro I m 6 feet tall and 17 years old and I hate being this tall....no one is contented what they have in this insecure world..

wtf dude

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dont worry about it too much if you can. im a 5'8 gal dating someone shorter than me, its not as big of a deal or impression as you think, plenty of other things get noticed first :)

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DocuSign [#12]

how old are u and how tall are you

he's 41 and he's 6'11

#17
Nomesh07
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MilanTheMyth [#14]

wtf dude

Idk but I don't like being this tall 😅

#18
SnxZ
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Bro you are literally 16 you can grow naturally for the next 2 years or even more. I was like 5'6 when I was 14-15 and now almost 5'9 at 17 and all I did was play games and eat good.

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Nomesh07 [#13]

Stfu blyat..leave me alone

you really want to be russian eh?

#20
clutchzero
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You can change your attitude, start using the metric system like any normal person.

#21
CalypsoGHC
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clutchzero [#20]

You can change your attitude, start using the metric system like any normal person.

true

#22
Nomesh07
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CalypsoGHC [#19]

you really want to be russian eh?

Hmm ya I like Russian and Ukrainian girls 😁

#23
dyoun15
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That only matters if you make it matter, try bot to worry about something you can’t fix and be proud of yourself

#24
BananaBread
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it's 5'9 acc to google

:/

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You're still young man, you'll still grow but even if you don't, just feel happy about yourself and take care of the things you can control!

Exercise regularly, eat healthy, drink water, take care of your skin. You take care of your health and take care of the things you can control, you'll feel better about a lot of things going throughout the day and you'll gain more confidence in yourself.

Keep your head up! You're young and you have a lot of life to experience

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CalypsoGHC [#19]

you really want to be russian eh?

What's your age?

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clutchzero [#20]

You can change your attitude, start using the metric system like any normal person.

I'm not American I use metric for everything but for height. idk it's like the norm for height

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Almost all girls i know are fine with any height as long as he is bigger than her. The average height for women in Belgium is 5,6 so you're taller than half of them already anyway and you aren't even 18 yet

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HaSanity
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look up creatine it boosts height growth. work out. you are still at a growing age. its not late. working out is the best thing you can do for yourself

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Nomesh07 [#27]

What's your age?

17

#32
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its not something massively to care about, but literally any decent girl will literally not care about height or anything like that, and if they do not worth ur time

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QuinTessencee [#15]

dont worry about it too much if you can. im a 5'8 gal dating someone shorter than me, its not as big of a deal or impression as you think, plenty of other things get noticed first :)

it's not about girls, it's about me and myself :(

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HaSanity [#30]

look up creatine it boosts height growth. work out. you are still at a growing age. its not late. working out is the best thing you can do for yourself

creatine can do no harm. BUY IT

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HaSanity [#30]

look up creatine it boosts height growth. work out. you are still at a growing age. its not late. working out is the best thing you can do for yourself

my mom won't let me get those things. also by working out do u mean joining a gym or general cardio and shit. I've heard that weight lifting stuns height? is that not true?

#37
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sidduce [#25]

You're still young man, you'll still grow but even if you don't, just feel happy about yourself and take care of the things you can control!

Exercise regularly, eat healthy, drink water, take care of your skin. You take care of your health and take care of the things you can control, you'll feel better about a lot of things going throughout the day and you'll gain more confidence in yourself.

Keep your head up! You're young and you have a lot of life to experience

thanks for great advice

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Bro just eat Belgium chocolates and ice-cream everything will be ok.. chill

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CalypsoGHC [#29]

Almost all girls i know are fine with any height as long as he is bigger than her. The average height for women in Belgium is 5,6 so you're taller than half of them already anyway and you aren't even 18 yet

it's not about girls friend, it's about myself and how I don't feel confident with it + fake flag

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HaSanity [#34]

creatine can do no harm. BUY IT

hello friend I'm waiting for your reply

#41
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Who tf cares about how tall you are. There's 0 reason to not feel confident when meeting people. Do you think people aren't going to like you just cause of your height or something? Because that's a braindead thought and even if someone didn't like you cause of your height, they're not a real one anyway. The only downside to being short is not being able to reach shit but that's nothing to be insecure about. If you wanna deal with your insecurity about height, you just need to accept that you are short and that you can't change it and move on.

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yaiima0
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DocuSign [#9]

let's be honest, it does matter a lot. it's like the first impression for many people 😔

Yes but it superficial, if someone judges on how tall you are then that says more about them than it does about you.

#43
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Lmao @ all the people saying "you're young don't worry, you'll grow to be X"... What if he doesn't grow to be X? Is he doomed to a shitty life?

You guys are crackheads.

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Look at Zendaya and Tom Holland. The way I see it, if she cares about height, she wasn't worth it in the first place.

About mental health, I suggest reading some books about other people's experiences with short height, because at the end of the day if you don't reach the level you want to be you're only going to limit yourself further. This type of thing eats at your brain man, better to toughen up and learn that this is who you are.

#45
plas
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all u need to do is talk to a girl and the worry will go away. a small height difference doesnt matter bro :)

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DocuSign [#35]

my mom won't let me get those things. also by working out do u mean joining a gym or general cardio and shit. I've heard that weight lifting stuns height? is that not true?

that is the biggest myth about weight lifting. no scientific study shows that this is the case. of course doing TOO much of anything can cause injuries. So, weight lifting does not stunt growth, but you need to make sure that you are lifting right and in the correct form to prevent injuries long term. dont lift weights more than 5 times a day. make sure you rest properly and get in the habit of following a diet RESEARCH DIETS, they are more important but weights finalise it. if you make a habit out of getting a routine it will be easier later to have discipline.
Dont listen to these people who say, " youre fine, you will grow out of it". they are the ones that never tried and are bums now. you need to take ACTION right now. dont worry about timing. just be what you want to become NOW. life is short. take control. If you leave it till later, it will become more difficult because of the natural concept of age.

you should research creatine and how it will help you. there is no age restriction on it. in fact you can buy it without your parents consent. im not saying you should do this but you should research it thoroughly, use good sources, convince your parents to buy it. they may not listen to you but they will listen to science. sometimes parents believe in stupid myths, and its hard to convince them to have an open mind. keep in mind creatine can help but you need to be working out for it to actually have a real impact. also for weight lifting and cardio, you should be doing both.

but do NOT take my word for it, research for yourself and verify. never take things at face value.

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kwe
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Hey we all love our short Kings

#48
turkey
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DocuSign [#9]

let's be honest, it does matter a lot. it's like the first impression for many people 😔

being 5’6 won’t leave a bad impression on people, it’s not that short. 5’4 and under will
be leaving an impression

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https://www.themodestman.com/100-famous-short-men/

<3

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Ok I have a question. How much facial hair do you have compared to men in your family like your dad or any brothers or uncles you may have? srry if this sounds creepy or anything but its often a decent indicator of how much more you have left to mature

For example, my dad is white and he's basically like a gorilla. He's covered in body hair from head to toe and has a bunch of facial hair. My mom is asian, and her brothers (my uncles) have a bit less hair but still have patchy bits of facial hair along their jawlines and around their mouths. As for me, I'm 17 about 180 cm tall (5'11 I live in the US but don't use feet and inches it sucks, cm and meters are way better) and have absolutely no facial hair even tho men on both sides of my family have more than me. Basically, my family/doctors and most others are saying that i'm likely to hit another growth spurt. :)

Then again, 🤔 there's some more drastic things you can always do like height lengthening surgery which I don't exactly recommend.

The global 16 year old male height is 5'7, about 170 cm. Don't feel bad m8. Everyone is different. There is no "perfect" person in this world. Your height is what makes you unique. 🤗

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trembolonaRage [#2]

you are basically fvked for your entire life

you cant be considered a man having less than 6 feet and 15.7 inch arms

wrong time for a joke

#52
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lets bang azn bitches together 🤠

#53
trembolonaRage
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Zaynio [#51]

wrong time for a joke

sorry you're right

#55
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DocuSign [#7]

it's 5'9 acc to google

Noone actually cares about your height . And those who do are wrong people that you are better off without

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clutchzero [#20]

You can change your attitude, start using the metric system like any normal person.

common clutchzero W

#57
raka
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start lifting weights or move to asia

#58
alexxx
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gym

#59
most_mens_guy
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I'm 190cm and honestly idc about anyone height and about mine as well. Sometimes it feels like that being around 180cm could be better. Just be a good human being with a good sense of human and you'll definitely succeed in your life :)

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If you don't have height just be strong as fuck, and have a beard, it always works.

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To tell you the truth you still have so much time to grow, best advice it to just be the absolute best person you can be and no one will even notice your height. A larger than life personality will go a long way. Don't sweat the small stuff.

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do pull ups, they help straighten your spine and make you look taller

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DocuSign [#6]

😟

no worries dude, and don't pay attention, he's a dumbass all time.

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My recomendation is: consider going to psychology, cuz maybe your insegurity it's a part of a deep emotions and situations, also keep do exercise, watch a online videos of exercise (a fitnness ytbers), doing exercise with others (in this case video) its so good.
I'm was in your situation many years ago, so be stronge, you got all dude 🤜

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Going to be completely honest, I'm a similar situation to you. Around 5'8, 17, and one of the shortest in my friend group, it's really frustrating to not be as tall as others especially when people (although jokingly) compare heights all the time. From those with more life experience than me though, the one conclusion always stated is that appearance only matters for first impressions and afterwards, its all about personality.

Keep your head up, you'll probably still grow until you've hit like 21 so you should be fine. Even then, a person who's 5'6 and big, looks taller than someone who's taller but has a smaller build typically (this is something you can definitely work on whenever you want in your life).

#66
LifeIsALie
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Nomesh07 [#22]

Hmm ya I like Russian and Ukrainian girls 😁

KEKW plot twist

#67
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You are still 16 dude chill
You will grow

#68
FightWasTaken
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not even that short bruh if a girl or ur friends judging u cuz of that they dont deserve u

#69
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try swimming and cycling consistently, both quite effective to make you taller

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5'6 at at the age of 16 and average height for men in asia is 5'5 lol

Try swimming, I went from 5'0 to 5'11 in 4 years with just 3 months of swimming

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Nomesh07 [#22]

Hmm ya I like Russian and Ukrainian girls 😁

Average indian in my mom's dms on insta, you guys should stop.

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Vortexy [#50]

Ok I have a question. How much facial hair do you have compared to men in your family like your dad or any brothers or uncles you may have? srry if this sounds creepy or anything but its often a decent indicator of how much more you have left to mature

For example, my dad is white and he's basically like a gorilla. He's covered in body hair from head to toe and has a bunch of facial hair. My mom is asian, and her brothers (my uncles) have a bit less hair but still have patchy bits of facial hair along their jawlines and around their mouths. As for me, I'm 17 about 180 cm tall (5'11 I live in the US but don't use feet and inches it sucks, cm and meters are way better) and have absolutely no facial hair even tho men on both sides of my family have more than me. Basically, my family/doctors and most others are saying that i'm likely to hit another growth spurt. :)

Then again, 🤔 there's some more drastic things you can always do like height lengthening surgery which I don't exactly recommend.

The global 16 year old male height is 5'7, about 170 cm. Don't feel bad m8. Everyone is different. There is no "perfect" person in this world. Your height is what makes you unique. 🤗

a have like a stubble on my face, not much hair on cheeks but there is like 1 cm hair under chin and extended side burns. comparing that to my father, he is also like a gorilla like u mentioned. is there any other way I can check if I'm going to hit a growth spurt?

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prophet_m1mosa [#70]

5'6 at at the age of 16 and average height for men in asia is 5'5 lol

Try swimming, I went from 5'0 to 5'11 in 4 years with just 3 months of swimming

can't swim cuz COVID😔 I'm looking to join gym tho

#74
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deadSQUAD [#69]

try swimming and cycling consistently, both quite effective to make you taller

no swim because covid. and I have started cycling recently

#75
prophet_m1mosa
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DocuSign [#73]

can't swim cuz COVID😔 I'm looking to join gym tho

hardly helps at height

#76
ideekae
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It’s ok, being shorter means faster reflexes because it takes less time for info to pass along neurons.

#77
MilanTheMyth
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Just do a lot of sprinting and eat a lot, whatever ur eating. Try fish. helped me alot.

#78
Rizvi
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BRO ZEEK IS FREAKIN 5 5' AND HE WAS MVP LAST TOURNAMENT RELAX

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MilanTheMyth
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Rizvi [#78]

BRO ZEEK IS FREAKIN 5 5' AND HE WAS MVP LAST TOURNAMENT RELAX

Rizvi American pride

#80
Kezu
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Try Basketball or Swimming.

#81
Aight
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"You are 16, u are gonna grow eventually"
That's not always the case
Frankly speaking,
Just learn to not care about ur height
U can't change genetics
Have a good day

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Softy
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prophet_m1mosa [#70]

5'6 at at the age of 16 and average height for men in asia is 5'5 lol

Try swimming, I went from 5'0 to 5'11 in 4 years with just 3 months of swimming

Dude im 17 nd I'm 5'5 im probbly fucked

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prophet_m1mosa [#75]

hardly helps at height

cycling helps right? I'm gonna do that.

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Softy [#82]

Dude im 17 nd I'm 5'5 im probbly fucked

bro chill just read the replies and ure gonna feel better

#85
fatpoipoiiii
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I got a friend, college major oceanography. Dude went like 10 cm height increase in 1 year cause they keep swimming.

#86
Supr3meGucci
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nothing can be done, ur gonna be ridiculed for being a dwarf

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Softy [#82]

Dude im 17 nd I'm 5'5 im probbly fucked

its worse for europeans

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prophet_m1mosa [#70]

5'6 at at the age of 16 and average height for men in asia is 5'5 lol

Try swimming, I went from 5'0 to 5'11 in 4 years with just 3 months of swimming

lmao stop coping, swimming doesnt help height

#89
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raka [#57]

start lifting weights or move to asia

underrated advice

#90
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fatpoipoiiii [#85]

I got a friend, college major oceanography. Dude went like 10 cm height increase in 1 year cause they keep swimming.

bro I can't go for swimming because like all the swimming places are closed because of covid

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wellinever
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Dont worry dude, i was small as a teenager, and when i say small. Doctors didnt think i would be more than 5ft1. Had a growth spurt and eventually stopped when i was 5ft9

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wellinever [#91]

Dont worry dude, i was small as a teenager, and when i say small. Doctors didnt think i would be more than 5ft1. Had a growth spurt and eventually stopped when i was 5ft9

did u have facial hair?

#93
Softy
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DocuSign [#92]

did u have facial hair?

pls reply, I have a thick mustache and a light beard. I'm 17 n 5'5.

#94
Softy
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Softy [#93]

pls reply, I have a thick mustache and a light beard. I'm 17 n 5'5.

Wait am i revealing too much?

#95
Carthage_Er_Pola
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You're not defined by your height man dw, also you're only 16, you're gonna grow more. Just eat healthy and exercise alot

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fatpoipoiiii
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DocuSign [#90]

bro I can't go for swimming because like all the swimming places are closed because of covid

just swim when its open or get major that make u swim like learning fish or something lmao

#97
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probably get that surgery i saw on tiktok where they put metal poles in your legs to become taller

#98
Supr3meGucci
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Softy [#94]

Wait am i revealing too much?

Name checks out
Stop being so insecure

#99
thanatos11
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Softy [#94]

Wait am i revealing too much?

Pakora Escobar

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Vortexy
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DocuSign [#72]

a have like a stubble on my face, not much hair on cheeks but there is like 1 cm hair under chin and extended side burns. comparing that to my father, he is also like a gorilla like u mentioned. is there any other way I can check if I'm going to hit a growth spurt?

Hey that's a good sign. You're only 16. I remember growing quite a bit since when I was 16 about a year ago. There's no concrete way of checking if you're going to hit a growth spurt or not but things like comparing the amount of hair you have, deepness of voice, and other factors attributed to maturity are often decent indicators. ig the most professional way would be to go see a doctor and not take the advice of a vlr.gg user :)

#101
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This used to be the only think I would get upset about. now I somewhat grew but I don't care about my height now because I have much worse issues like academics.
juts get used to it, or ignore it.

#102
brado
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life is what you make it. you can chose how you act on your own feelings, but you cant chose how others act on theirs, or theirs about you.

so dont worry what others think of you, worry about what you think of you, because you control that. you write your script, the hard part is deciding what to write, but that part is up to u

#103
juno_VLR
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there’s no sugarcoating it, being short makes life tougher. eventually you’ll find a partner that doesn’t mind your height while checking off your own boxes.

until then, remember that being short makes it easier to fit in supercars.

#104
QuinTessencee
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DocuSign [#33]

it's not about girls, it's about me and myself :(

aw understandable. can't give you much advice on that front but my heart goes to to you, always here to listen if you need to vent! <3

#105
X3NO
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PrTsty [#55]

Noone actually cares about your height . And those who do are wrong people that you are better off without

I agree

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