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my friend is closeted gay and cant admit it

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#1
lyssss

what should I do? this is deadass a real situation and I'm not baiting.
this friend of mine has always been a very religious person and grew up in a traditional family, they would never accept that he's gay. That's not the only problem tho, cause he himself cannot accept or rightfully acknowledge that he is homosexual. He loves femboys and reads a lot of yaoi and says that he's never been really interested in a relationship (w women), to me its insanely clear that he's at least bi and i would like to help him find himself but everytime he rejects the idea completely. what should i do

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ash_knuckles
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nothing. if he accepts himself cool if he doesn't leave the nebro alone

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simbhdri
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DOESN'T LEAVE THE WHAT

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ash_knuckles
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i'm black

#3
KiwiJuice
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do nothing, it's not your business

#4
nooomy
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why do u give af? its his identity, not yours cuh

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SkyXD
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don’t force him to be someone he doesn’t want to be

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SkyXD
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why is ts downvoted

#12
GarbanzoEnjoyer
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because op isn't forcing anything so this advice is redundant

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SkyXD
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to me its insanely clear that he's at least bi and i would like to help him find himself but everytime he rejects the idea completely

making value judgments, wants to do something, “everytime” suggests multiple times, also implies that despite the friend rejecting “completely”, OP has repeatedly brought it up

he’s not forcing anything on paper, but don’t go the extra step

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InYourDreams
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he already have a binding vow set on him so it’s better you stay away

#7
unfertile
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shut up and mind your business

#9
Luffythegoat
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Bruh is acting like he should do something its his choice gang let him be who he wants to be don't force him out the closet

#11
_blahaj
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dont ask a valorant forum lol but also not really ur place to force him to do that

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Re2
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brotato is asking vlr about ts

#16
Tetrodotoxin
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Making assumptions like this (even if correct) is really pointless. If he is not straight, there is no reason for him to out himself out of safety reasons which are entirely valid.

How he views his sexuality is entirely up to him and there's no self admitting, or needing to "find himself". Being pushy will not make it any easier for him if he is not straight, so leave that aspect of him be.

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eejayzzz
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bruh

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