Well. Judging by the audio recording, 95% of men would be cancelled by tomorrow and half of them would go to jail.
As for the texts, the dude is an insecure little dickhead, a sick fella full of complexes, like ALMOST EVERYONE I'VE EVER MET. I'm really curious, how many of you would be embarrassed to hell if someone released your intimate conversations. (Intimate meaning: happening with the people you're closest to), and how many of you wouldn't 'deserve' careers.
I'm not saying how he behaves is cool, I think he's a dick, but my experience is, that A LOT of other players are even bigger, huge dicks.
Anyone who says about that audio that it's sexual harassment, obviously has never been harassed by anyone and any means.
What he doesn't deserve is a good person as a girlfriend.