I'm just going to skip the "it'll be alright soon BS" and get to the point.
Being on VLR is a red flag.
But if you want genuine advice, try to join organizations and private groups (public groups are more communal but they're a good way to befriend people of all sorts). They provide more interactions, and it may be hard at first, but once you befriend many, developing feelings isn't too difficult.
Learning a language is also very attractive. If you have a certain type of ethnicity you're into, try to learn that language (or learn a new language relevant if already mastered). This is just one of many attractive points, but intellect (both paper and street-wise) is a very valuable asset to retain.
Other hobbies/necessities are also pretty coveted such as:
- Cooking (very valuable)
- Medical (as in CPR and basic emergency knowledge)
- Values of paternity (how much of a good father you will feel like to a future partner)
- Sex drive (dependent on partner)
- Views (political, sociocultural, etc...)
- Degree of support (how much do you support your partner?)
Lastly, you say you've been depressed. This probably is exactly why you aren't pulling. No female will like you more than you like yourself, as much as it is a cliche saying. Good luck my dude.
what the fuck am I saying on this accursed site
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