I feel like I don't want to go into baseless arguments with people. I would love to know people's advice on how to avoid fights, physical and vocal.
how to make it so that I can never argue with sm1
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just dont care
I feel like for example if I avoid my parents that won't be nice I mean it works for a lot of people I don't know and don't want to argue with.
i thought we were talking about internet arguments oh shit oh shit oh shit oh shit
no I meant in general probably something that'd work with anyone in the world
well if you're allowed to forget about it then just forget about it. you did say they were baseless arguments after all, so just drop the urge to argue. see i can't really tell you to just do this obviously because resisting the urge is entirely dependent on the person but if you get the slight feeling that whatever you're about to get into a fight about will amount to absolutely nothing, even if that slight feeling lasts for a second, then you should hold onto it if you know what i mean.
Oh true for parents it’s another different problem…
- Walk away from all vocal arguments
- If you can’t walk away or they follow, give a stern warning
- Run away
- If you can’t run, call the police
- If you can’t call police, shout for help
- If you can’t call for help, learn some basic MMA moves to give you a better chance in a real fight
I feel like this wouldn't work against a lot of arguments I think?
Yeah it depends if it’s like a random person or like a friend or family, the latter would be more difficult
I don’t think there’s any one advice that can solve it other than case by case solutions
dont argue with stupid people
that's one I guess but what advice would you give to maybe people you possibly cannot avoid?
if u can just agree with them and leave it that generally works but if not its kind of unavoidable imo
"wait a minute i'm white"
nah but for real
i focus on how happy i am and how getting into the argument/fight would make me less happy kinda
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