2023 I'm going to try Host application.
I will succeed being No.1 Kabukicho Host.
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Basically woman pays to drink with you, and you need to entertain them.
This playlist as example.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y08c07Sa7z0&list=PL9ipyNiZ_UJ-3Dig3mAuo1q2Rmy9WE6Ie
Depends, bust some hosts earn like 200k-600k USD per month.
If you're above average you can easily make 10k-30k per month. (If you're not shy and can talk with woman properly you can definitely be above average)
no offense but why would anyone pay for this service?
it just seems really shallow and empty imo.
It's kinda hard to understand if you're from west
But overall many girls how frequent host club work in this industry as well (cam girls, brothels, or some rich woman 30s, some famous idols frequent too)
It's because in Japan culture is really different, for example, here they don't consider cheating if you sleep with someone that you don't have feelings, so some woman (even married) prefer to go to these places since they pay, no mutual feelings and end.
But overall you kinda become like a ''therapist'' for these girls, entertain them, drink, chat, have fun.
They prefer to go to these places instead to go with friends since Japanese they don't like to tell their past to their friends, but they do it with the hosts... since Japanese care about their reputation a lot, so it is better to talk, have fun, with someone that nobody knows (And will not look for you) over with their friends.
- Loneliness is also a big factor.
wow thanks i never knew these things, so majority of japanese dont care at all if their wife/husband sleep with someone else? it doesnt affect their reputation?(no hate im just really curious)
they don't care if they sleep with someone else, but care if you let people knows about it since it can affect their reputation, that's why there's a lot brothels here.
even Motels in Japan is funny because when someone is leaving their room if someone is in the hall all the room doors is unable to open because there have been cases of people bumping into their partners, both cheating. lol.
Anyway, here a small clip of truth.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/55OOEsH4Lx0
At first I found it so weird when my friends told me that they cheat their partners, but rarely you will find someone who never cheated once here. I thought it was just boys, but even girls say they cheat without remorse, in my experience cutest a girl, highly you will be cheated.
Most girls I haven't seen cheating on here were usually "gals", like, yakuza or something related.
But yeah, cheating is normalized here, if you date here 99.9% you will be cheated without knowing.
Yeah.. also why japanese doesn't marry here (at least mans) is because woman can sue them if they cheat, as mental damage... while mans cannot sue.
It's starting to increase a little of redpill things here because of this stupid law so one sided, but most ends up choosing 2D wife instead 3D.
thanks for the information, from the clip i understood that cheating is more normalized among non married people, i mean marriage is a serious thing in the west too and you shouldnt get married unless you are 100% commited to it
seems like a downward spiral
social relationships are fake since there is no honesty and integrity - feeling of inadequacy -> turn to drugs and alcohol and "hosts" to forget your problems -> you become sober again and become depressed again. this is a never ending cycle of stress and its got everything to do with the culture that is promoted in that society. why does the government promote drinking? something which effects your health and wellbeing AND puts your guard and consciousness down? the answer is so obvious, may Allah open our eyes.
i want you all to read this carefully, with an open mind brothers:
A young man came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, “O Messenger of Allah! Give me permission to commit Zina (unlawful sex).” The people surrounded him and rebuked him, saying, “Stop! Stop!” But the Prophet ﷺ said,
(Come close) The young man came to him, and he ﷺ said,
(Sit down) so he sat down. The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Would you like it (unlawful sex) for your mother) He said, “No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.” The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Neither do the people like it for their mothers.) The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Would you like it for your daughter) He said, “No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.” The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Neither do the people like it for their daughters. ) The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Would you like it for your sister) He said, “No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.” The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Neither do the people like it for their sisters.) The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Would you like it for your paternal aunt) He said, “No, by Allah, O Allah’s Messenger! may I be ransomed for you.” The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Neither do the people like it for their paternal aunts.) The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Would you like it for your maternal aunt) He said, “No, by Allah, O Allah’s Messenger! may I be ransomed for you.” The Prophet ﷺ said,
(Neither do the people like it for their maternal aunts.) Then the Prophet ﷺ put his hand on him and said,
(O Allah, forgive his sin, purify his heart and guard his chastity.) After that the young man never paid attention to anything of that nature.
In another narration, the Prophet said to him, “Then hate what Allah has hated, and love for your brother what you love for yourself.”
Yeah.
It's Japanese society problem honestly, most work in Japan you need to go out with your "boss" during friday to drink all night.
I'm pretty sure they do this thing to make you addict and rely on alcohol to ''live with discomfort'' instead of trying to change
Since alcohol can give you fake happiness.
It`s not that much different than what will happen in US with marijuana, you will see some big companies soon offering these things to their employees as any type of drug is something numbing, they do this specially to deceive you and not making you go after changes in your life (like changing job or something)
Inshallah.
im glad you understand the situation, and I would advise you to look into the Quran in your free time, there is no harm in doing so. May Allah guide us all.
everyone can be, you just need to be confident. (I've seen some foreigner being host too but he has fluent in Japanese)
Men I'm white, sexy af, 186 height, do gym for 5 years pretty masculine, will I earn 32k month for hosting in english?
With all due respect this job seems fucked up to me, no matter how much you cover that up with culture bs
It's better than working at Konbini, for sure.
But yeah If you overthink this job you will see it as nightmare, i see it more as fun.
There's bad parts about it (drinking too much) but besides that it's a fun job.
Not sex, but to drink and entertain them.
It's like the same reason why you watch live stream, to be to be entertained.
But host is like IRL stuff
dont pay heed to anyone undermining you on this site btw do what u want my guy 👍
wtf aint no way japanese culture is like this
afaik china isnt like this and korea is like exactly the opposite, guys and girls can get pretty possessive here (i wont lie i am a little possessive too)
thats crazy i never knew this
being a host sounds fun tho its just socialising for money. i do that shit for free bruh
Update: This weekend one girl spent almost 800k yen on me, she suddenly asked me if I wanted to f**k I denied, after that she went to the club again and spent 1 million yen on some on another host who is in training just like me, she kept looking at me all the night while I had to talk with other womans.
When I had to drink near her, she suddenly said that I'm smelling bad and I should stay away from her because I was breaking her mood.
Weird shit is that she kept looking at me all the fucking time. Also she created a new twitter account and started to RT/Like everything that I posted.
Now I'm doubting my decision and thinking that I should have just f****d her and I wouldn't have had this problem.
From today I will be a bad guy since being a good guy is causing me problems, I'll update it next month to see how it goes If I will be able to earn more or not.
Thanks guys.
You're single handedly keeping the city boy movement alive.
Well fucking played champ!
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