I haven't been in a relationship throughout my highschool and even now in my college I don't seem to be getting in relationship anytime soon
So those of u who have had girlfriend, this is about tenz breakup Obv, if a man/woman stays with his or her fiance / girlfriend throughout his/her hardtimes , do they really grow distant and why so?
no they don't grow distant
ideally hard times makes relations closer.
This is pretty much impossible to answer bc it depends on both parts, and their willingness to commitment and just the overall dynamic of the relationship. Some people will marry after 1 year of dating while others have been in a relationship for almost a decade but won't commit to anything serious
Just to be clear this is generalised and not about tenz/kyedae
very dependent upon the individuals and their relationship + life circumstances but speaking from experience the "staying with x through tough times" stuff can be rough.
It can easily build resentment on the part of the helper/stayer because you have to divert a lot of your time/energy to your partner and if your life is already going through a busy/stressful period it really wears on you.
you may also feel like you cant express your struggles to your partner because theyre already suffering - so you bottle up more and feel less comfortable opening up which can also build resentment since you were able to be open before and it changed - but also is just unpleasant in general ofc
and possibly you set expectations for their recovery and, as recovery often is, there are setbacks. then your expectations dont get met and perhaps you wonder "will this ever end" or "how much more"
these are just possibilities and hypotheticals and im trying to generalise just to paint a rough picture. i dont know tenz/kydedae so i dont wanna speak on them
they just dont love each other.... tbh you gotta first find your self and gotta like yourself and live yourself alone till 20's and than if you love someone than it might long last..but all these teenage relationships are just people being desparate which wont last coz at some point you will grow over your old self
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