tell me what issues you are currently having in your real life and I will use my wisdom to fix them
or ask a question if you have a perfect life
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What parts of you are you proud of? If you can take advantage of your skills and the positives aspects of yourself and display them, you'll eventually find someone who appreciates you for who you are (or you hit the jackpot)
another thing is self acceptance. If you accept who you are and appreciate yourself, it will be easier for other people to appreciate you as well.
Ain't no one gonna love you if you don't love yourself
If you find someone willing to, there are three options:
- They're trying to take advantage of you (not cool)
- They are your mother (very cool)
- You hit the jackpot (super cool)
parts im proud of? ehhh well idk. and i feel like what ur saying is that i should put up a kind off facade to not show my real me but just the fun parts
Quite the opposite, actually. Being authentic is absolutely a necessity when it comes to relationships, but it all really depends on what kind of relationship you're looking for I suppose.
If you want real love, it's gotta take a lot of patience and dedication.
Facades are definitely not the best for long term relationships, but it could be a good way to get to know some other people.
Depression: Depression doesnt really have a failsafe "cure" that I can give you without knowing your life, but if you arent consistently exercising + walking at least 30 mins to an hour a day then you need to start.
Any type of exercise (including walking) releases endorphins AKA the brain chemical that helps make you happy. Considering Depression is usually a brain chemistry issue, doing this can definitely alleviate symptoms. Same goes for food, sleep, water, fresh air and social interaction.
There is a reason why humans evolved to be social, exercising machines and not cave dwellers who sit hunched over a PC all day, so if you arent doing that already then that is a great start
Women advice:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnYFAMzOE_I&list=RDXnYFAMzOE_I&start_radio=1 is a great motto to have when it comes to Women. Being witty/charismatic is the biggest cheatcode in all aspects of life and dating is no exception.
Also try to listen less and watch more when it comes to dating advice. A lot of women/ men who date women will say things about dating which dont really hold true to the real world, so instead try to meet people who have similar characteristics to you, while also being successful at dating, and try to emulate what they do right while also maintaining your individuality. Nothing wrong with having a role model but dont be a copycat cause it comes across as inauthentic
forget the girl, work on yourself. Find hobbies you like, gym (great for serotonin), spend time with the people you love.
how do I stop crippling exec dysfunction and the act of losing the will to live
(Copy and pasted from above message) Depression doesnt really have a failsafe "cure" that I can give you without knowing your life, but if you arent consistently exercising + walking at least 30 mins to an hour a day then you need to start.
Any type of exercise (including walking) releases endorphins AKA the brain chemical that helps make you happy. Considering Depression is usually a brain chemistry issue, doing this can definitely alleviate symptoms. Same goes for food, sleep, water, fresh air and social interaction.
There is a reason why humans evolved to be social, exercising machines and not cave dwellers who sit hunched over a PC all day, so if you arent doing that already then that is a great start
how do i fix dogshit movement, all my fights are me having to flick onetap the enemy before they onetap me, every fight i'm in only has 1 bullet shot and it's a headshot from one of us
i'm diamond 1
I think that if you "need" to flick 1 tap someone it says more about your gamesense/teamwork/positioning than your movement tbh.
If you watch someone like Asuna play ranked, he rarely ever takes 50/50 gunfights head on, and instead will use the tools available to him to catch the opponent off guard, or trade his teammate etc.
Diamond tends to be the rank where dumb players stop being rewarded for bad mechanics, to improve more you need to try to read the enemy and do things that will catch them out
if in high school: you wont have to do biology for much longer
if in university: biology careers are very well paid
What should I do about my future I am really indecisive currently ?
TLDR- I am currently doing major in IT
Idk whether I should change my career to doctor / lawyer ( because I really wish to help people out ) or complete my master on IT or just get into a j*b
Try not to tunnel vision on "working in IT" when coming up with plans for your life. A university degree teaches a tonne of transferable skills which you can use to pursue other careers or other postgraduate degrees.
For example, my two university degrees are in Journalism, yet I am going to teach English to non-native speakers for a living. On the surface, these two arent related, but Journalism teaches you communication skills, the ability to talk to people one-on-one in a professional setting (which is really difficult lol) and patience when speaking to people. All of these make me extremely hireable as a teacher, and I am starting my PGCE (Postgraduate teaching degree) next year.
Im sure your degree has a lot of skills you could use in other careers too if you feel too restricted by doing IT.
Bonus: dont make your biggest hobby your job. Make enough money doing something boring to pursue your hobby with a bunch of free time youll get with this job (So no becoming a nurse!)
Okay thank you and also if you talk about biggest hobby which is prolly playing games so you made it easy to cut option
nooomy I have this strange affliction. There's this entity, let's call it Bob, that I've been supporting for a while now.
Bob always seems to be getting better and closer to achieving his goals every year, but always falls short. Not only does he fall short, he will get within touching distance of his goals, only to trip, fall, choke, and get dragged into the void. Every year I root for Bob, I slowly lose more and more of my lifespan. I think if Bob doesn't reach his goal in the next 2 years, I might have to stop watching Bob.
Can you relate
I think you have a really unhealthy relationship with Bob in the sense that part of your happiness depends on Bob doing well. You need to distance yourself from Bob and focus on something else. Something that will affect your happiness that you have control over.
god i fucking hate it when bob gives me hope only to take it all away last second. he's such a piece of shit.
I think Bob needs to learn the power of me strapping a bomb to my chest (for legal reasons this is a joke)
oh, avoid duolingo at all costs for starters. I find that reading makes listening easier, and listening makes speaking easier, so I would start with reading first. If you can read certain words then youll pick those up in conversation, which makes it seem less like they are speaking 10 million miles an hour at you. Obviously mix in some listening and speaking practice while you learn to read, but its where I would start.
what if poggpigg is already intermediate-advanced at french but needs to perfect but cant bc french stupid and grammar stupid
give yourself a small reward for doing groceries, like "I can have a hot shower after I do groceries" or "I can rewatch 100T vs FUT Masters Shanghai 2024 after I do groceries"
I appreciate you helping other people.
My question is: Is there anything that you would like some advice with? In my experience the people who help the most are the ones who try to hide or push back their own issues. Not saying that you have any, but you're free to talk about anything you want to too.
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