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there comes a time in every chronically online loser (vlr user)’s life where he actually speaks to a woman and has to immediately take it to vlr and tell the ragebaiters because he has no actual social skills

SO basically i met this girl and she’s really cool i like her whatever BUT i’m pretty sure the feeling is not mutual

problem is i’m too desperate to just give up but too scared of rejection to actually try to make a move so instead i’m just torturing myself by constantly spending time with her in platonic settings/bigger groups and schizophrenically overanalyzing every single little detail of every interaction between us

so yeah what do i do (blind leading the blind ahh)

Nothing and see what happens

dont be wierd like me and message them often

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get some balls and ask her out. What's the worst she can say?

I feel the same but the only difference is I am not at all scared for rejection

deadass had the exact situation happen to me last year

have fun hanging out with her, take her out, and eventually when the time is right, ask her out. If you go on for too long and hold the question back, youre perma stuck in the friendzone. If youre ready, ask asap. Best outcome? she says yes from there the balls in your court. She says no, just move on. It's hard, but the quicker you do it the less time it will linger and hurt.Took me too long to realize that and the only way I ended up getting over her personally was bc some other personal shit was happening in my life and I didn't have the energy to keep missing her.

tldr if you think the time is right ask her out but definitely dont wait too long else she'll see you too much as a friend and you wont be able to get over her

Safest Answer is to just wait and see what happens and keep analyzing to increase your sucess chance in later

All that you can do is try. If you REALLY feel like nothing is there on her side, you may have to throw in the towel. However, nine times out of ten it’ll be worth it to be upfront with her and tell her what you’re feeling.

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I’d just be upfront tbh. Yeah waiting longer might mean a longer friendship but you’re either wasting time you could be together if she likes you back, or it’s just going to hurt you more if she says no.

as someone who has experienced this 3 times; my success rate is 33%

try not to be too clingy, as if she says no she might quite literally break your world based off what you are saying

if you REALLY REALLY like her try to take things slow and just wait for the right moment. you got this man

maybe wait a few more weeks than tell her just dont wait too long otherwise your chance will be gone that doesnt mean you should rush things just wait for the right moment and take some time just dont take too long thats it

Had the same situation happen to me last year. There was this girl that I liked - i spent hours overanalyzing small interactions and trying to figure out whether she felt the same way. I think that she was interested for a bit at some point there, but I never said anything about my feelings beyond the occasional minor flirting and eventually she lost interest. In my case, we were in a bunch of uni classes and clubs together, so I was worried that if things became awkward, it would screw up all of my classes and clubs.

But honestly, I regret not saying anything and losing the chance. What's your timeline? If you don't anticipate running into her often or if you guys aren't going to be around each other constantly, I would ask her out because there's nothing to lose. If you are going to be around her for a while, I would wait for a bit to see if you truly do like her, and if she enjoys your company before asking her out. Most of the women I know don't say no to a first date with a guy whose company they enjoy.. and even if she isn't interested, if you are mature about it, it shouldn't affect your future interactions too much. If she makes a big deal out of it, hey its a good thing she isn't a bigger part of your life!

Good luck soldier!

only real answer: flirt. if she flirts back, repeat until you're married

if she doesn't reciprocate at any point, back off. if you push too hard, you will look creepy.

if she friendzones you, accept it, and move on with your life.

ask her out on a date / make your feelings known. If she doesn’t feel the same way about you thats okay , just focus on being your best self and if she doesn’t want that then she doesn’t deserve you and you should find someone who does.

Build a beautiful garden and the butterfly’s will come, even if they dont, youll still have a beautfiul garden

FREE MY BOI ✊

I literally did everything you did a few months back. Vlr actually gave decent advice but I pussied out and missed my chance. So dont just sit back, actually take initiative.