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#1
saucymother

hello im a regular user that most of u know but choose not to use that account so i can post this. does anyone else come to the valorant pro scene or vlr in particular as an escape from reality. cause my life sucks with super strict parents and school drama and i just want to cry. pls tell me

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It's fine...dms are always open 🙂
Plus things will only get better trust 😌

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Im not sure that EU_quiet is the person to talk to about something like this.

#5
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Ok I standby this tbh... but I grew up with struct brown parents so idk I can relate tbh

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Tbh, there a lot more American Indians (Or anyone from south east asia) here than I imagined.

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I can relate ngl.

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it’s something that makes you happy in life so you should use it as an escape from the things that make you stressed/unhappy. there’s always something positive to focus on/escape to even when there’s a thousand bad things going on in your life, just do your best to realize what those positive things are

#7
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sounds like basic teenage problems that go away once u grow up and move out on your own. that's what happened to me at least.

#8
swaglord69
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i feel the same way too sometimes man

#9
saucymother
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thanks guys:) also the reason i didnt post this on my main is cause im pretty sure all responses would be trolled considering who i am lol

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Asphyxia
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I'ma guess this is Chupappi Wardell

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That was my first thought too

#16
Asphyxia
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lmfao. I think the second guess for me is Delusional Nukkye Fan or smth.

#30
WitLitning
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nah its getsys. obviously.

#40
ShadowisBAD
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nah i go thru the same stuff , ur all good bro

#10
schlong
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dang i feel u. try and do some extracurriculars to get to know ppl similar to u. i did football freshmen year and even tho i also quit that same year, i met a bunch of ppl and got closer with friends i alr had. having ppl to talk to in irl makes stress a little more bearable

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Agreed, Life can be stressful and painful
I lost my sister and it's been 3 years
VLR is the only thing that keeps me running

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Damn, losing ur sister can be hard.

#18
kindereggmodel
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deepest condolences to you and your family.. losing a loved one is terrible.

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well i also have fucked up shit i go through... going here helps me laugh and enjoy time trolling with others... another escape for me is working out... i use a rowing machine and also do long range running to burn all my stress away..... run away from it...... i also compete in distance events now that im able to run marathons. only thing is im 15 so there are no real competitions for this

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life used to suck 2 years ago, but now im doing better
Trust me, an escape from reality is going outside and playing sports or video games, gets your mind off other things and fills you with joy
If you play valorant, just dont play comp, at least nrn

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good to hear ur doing better..

#34
bigpeensheen
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thanks man

#27
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My pet died

#28
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fish?

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123?

#32
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Bird

#36
kuparu
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That sucks man, I feel you cuz i also lost my bird last year

#31
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my parents kinda kicked me out before i finished college. and then tried to say it was my decision. as if i wanted to go out into the world without health care or the financial security of parents. but if you have/had strict parents then all that sounds familiar.

it gets better. soon you can go to bed when you want. and stay on your phone as much as you want. and drive wherever the hell you want to go. lean on your other relatives, they will understand. my cousins, half-brothers, and uncles/aunts help me out a ton. so does my gf's fam.

#33
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.

#35
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tbh you cant really do anything about strict parents until your 18 and can get out of the house so until then just try your best to do what they want before in the end it's for the better. the only reason they want you to be good in school is because they care about you so yeah pull thru man you got this

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the unfortunate reality is that the world isn't set up for kids to move out at 18. you still need an adult to do so many things (co-sign, for example) until you're older. plus you have no permanent address, everything gets fucked.

and please don't give him the generic bullshit about "parents want what's best for you." people say that and it completely shits on kids who know that their parents aren't doing what's best for them. kids who have to live through abuse in all forms every day. some parents abuse their kids. to a lesser extent, some parents think they know what's best, but their opinions don't fit their kid's needs.

every kid's situation is different. don't generalize.

my parents wanted what's best for me in school so they could brag about their son being at the top of a class of 500. i make a couple decisions they don't like, and boom i'm on my own trying to fight through college with no backup from them.

#38
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stay strong my guy, life will get better
remember to open up to someone close to you and it will help relieving stress.

#39
WitLitning
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i bitched about my parents to my entire high school and coworkers back in the day. it’s crazy how many ppl you can meet with strict parents. stories are endless.

#41
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Kinda feel you....i actually kinda like this community

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