girl keeps bothering me

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Choconaniyay

Okay seriously, there is this girl who keeps texting me all the time. I never text her first, she keeps texting me almost every day. She keeps asking me to play games, i keep making excuses for me to not play with her, but she STILL keeps inviting me as if it wasnt obvious that im not interested.
So today i finally joined a game with her. We played a game, and she was begging me to vc. We vc'd a little and when the game ended i told her i have to leave again giving an excuse.
How can i tell her without hurting her that im not interested?

Like, dont get me wrong, she is so pretty ngl, but i just cant be bothered rn

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EU_quiet

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Bro are u this hot?

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tell her you like men

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Choconaniyay

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im bi tho and i have a bf but i keep it for myself

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Glycoroldas

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Just say that you're not interested in dating her and would rather stay friends, ez

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Choconaniyay

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yeah i know, but i have bf atm and in case my relationship doesnt work out maybe i can try to get her then

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my friend, if you want to get it in the future, even if you say it without offending it, you won't get what you want. If you think you can want it in the future, you have to put up with it.

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ngl this is kinda messed up

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Stop flexing

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tell her you are interested in a man named keys (me)

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really there is no good way to say it. being honest is the best thing you can do. tell her how you're feeling and that's the best you can do. i don't think you can get away without hurting her sadly. but i hope !
gl

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Tell her you're gay

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CreepyCypherMain

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would prob work

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Choconaniyay

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yeah but maybe id like to get her in the future

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Okay seriously, there is this girl who keeps texting me all the time. I never text her first, she keeps texting me almost every day. She keeps asking me to play games, i keep making excuses for me to not play with her, but she STILL keeps inviting me as if it wasnt obvious that im not interested.
So today i finally joined a game with her. We played a game, and she was begging me to vc. We vc'd a little and when the game ended i told her i have to leave again giving an excuse.
How can i tell her without hurting her that im not interested?

Like, dont get me wrong, she is so pretty ngl, but i just cant be bothered rn

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this didn't need to be copy pastaed :/

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KEKW

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Weird flex but oky

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just tell her u need a break away and don't want to play. be honest and say that... and tell her not to bother you. then when u want to play with her say u wanna play valorant? or something casual, and there u go. say u need a break or some time by yourself and she should understand if shes a normal person. (serious conversation)

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weirdchamp flex

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CreepyCypherMain

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Tell her youre a Brimstone Gaming fan, she would prob faint of the hotness a brimstone gaming fan contains. if youre lucky she hits her head while she faints and her memory goes away.

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kindereggmodel

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not anymore, brimston gaming dropped strafe, they are no longer supported by us

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CreepyCypherMain

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Still, do it. Then she would be disgusted

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kindereggmodel

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yeah for sure

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u like mens i can tell

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Choconaniyay

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hehe

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ArgieGR8ArgieB8ArgieM8

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Tf is ur mindset?

Just tell her directly you dont like spending time with her and distance yourself over time. I feel like you don't even know what you want, that's the only reason you wouldn't be doing what I'm saying.

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Choconaniyay

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i have relationship but i dont want her to know, in case my relationship fails, i wanna try to get her THEN

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ArgieGR8ArgieB8ArgieM8

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So that's the reason; you are uncertain about your relationship so she's your plan B. I mean at the end of the day it's your decision, but IMO you shouldn't dangle someone else as your plan B while you're in a relationship, that's kind of fucked. Just make sure she knows you are not available and stay as friends if you enjoy being her friend.

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what world are u living in? save some for us man :(

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give her insta bro

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Down horrendous

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DasiusWL

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Tell her you're a TSM fan

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Tell her your dad is wardell

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Daniveus

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y u capping lmao

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tell her you like TSM

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"this girl...she is so pretty...."

Why no do very pretty things with her together? You oooK?

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Choconaniyay

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read #34

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"i have relationship ....in case my relationship fails, i wanna try to get her THEN"

^^^This response has cringe written all over it, and please don't take it as an offence. What you need to do is to sort out your current relationship, so that it won't fail, and tell that girl that you're seeing someone. Trust me she is not going to back off, if she found you hot etc. She will be there at the time when you decide to split with your current gf.

What I really mean is you need to take charge in your relationships, otherwise they will always fail. If you're still young, let it sink deeply. You don't want to become one of those creeps who are undecisive and passive takers. This is not kind of qualities ladies like and fantasize about, you know?

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cripsy

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tell her cned is cheating

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Okay seriously, there is this girl who keeps texting me all the time. I never text her first, she keeps texting me almost every day. She keeps asking me to play games, i keep making excuses for me to not play with her, but she STILL keeps inviting me as if it wasnt obvious that im not interested.
So today i finally joined a game with her. We played a game, and she was begging me to vc. We vc'd a little and when the game ended i told her i have to leave again giving an excuse.
How can i tell her without hurting her that im not interested?

Like, dont get me wrong, she is so pretty ngl, but i just cant be bothered rn