I visited family the other week and nobody cares about any of this stuff over there. They won't hate you for being different but they also won't waste their time talking about it. It's a very privileged thing for people to be able to waste their time on such pointless things like this. You think you're not your born gender? Okay, cool, anyways...

...does not matter. Anybody who obsesses over these things, from either side, should remember that they're playing a cartoon fantasy game. None of this matters unless you're too emotional to detach yourself from the internet.