One last question then.
If someone has multiple negative experiences with a specific race, are they now justified to presume that race of people is dangerous? Likewise, if someone has multiple negative experiences with a specific identity, are they now justified to presume that group of people is dangerous?
That's what women do to men when they presume men are dangerous because they and their friends have had bad experiences.
If women are justified to think this way because they're personally impacted. Then so is everyone else with whatever group they've had bad experiences with.
Any other standard would be cherry picking. But this is why I can't support this thinking and label it all equally bad. It's the same justification, just different application.