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I have very toxic parents who have very narrow mindset and updated with the world everyday it's just keeps getting worse I have been suicidal since years but take it lightly I don't have courage to do that so it's that level of worse, Idk what to do people ask me to move out but I don't want to do that since they are my parents and I should take care of that but if I keep living with them then it will ruin my whole mental health and it will also ruin me as a human.

The best posible outcome which I want is I earn alot of money so I can live somewhere on my own and also provide more than enough so they don't have to face any problem in any way.

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sh1lll

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this is not advice bro but i hope things get better for you u got this

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Tenzwillcomeback

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Thank you and I will try my best!

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foythvlr

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Are your parents sick? Like so they can't live alone. Genuine question

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Tenzwillcomeback

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They are not sick but they won't let me go live alone and it will create a scene in life which I definitely don't want

If you didn't understand I am their asset they raised me as their asset so I will feed them and earn them money when they grow old and I grow young so because of that they won't let me live alone and also I am going to do bachelors soon and I don't have college fees so I will have to stick with them

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foythvlr

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Well they are already creating a scene in life that you don't want right? If you still has to go through college than i guess you might have to wait a few but don't hesitate to leave them if you reach your limit. I understand i don't know the full context and that you might care about them a lot but it's not selfish to get out of a situation that is deeply hurting you. You should not be an asset at all

Hope things get better for you

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KGad03

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Are you actually American? cause my advice varies based on that

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Tenzwillcomeback

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I am not an American

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KGad03

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then why tf u got the flag on 😭

yea I got no clue outside of the US, good luck tho

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Tenzwillcomeback

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I have my reasons to put US flag and thank you for considering helping me!

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GodAwfulLover

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r u Indian and ashamed or something?

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Tenzwillcomeback

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Are you gay and ashamed of something?

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GodAwfulLover

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what a strange response to a question

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live alone

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Tenzwillcomeback

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Not financially that independent yet dude my bachelors is not done yet.

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I used to be in a similar situation. Work hard and save up so you can move out in the future. I hope the best for you!

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Tenzwillcomeback

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Thank you buddy, how did you handle your mental health?

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Focusing on my goal to move out and the steps I needed to take to achieve that goal helped me be hopeful for the future. Also, consistent exercise and different outlets (hobbies, reading, spending time with friends, etc.) helped with my mental health.