I've always been reserved shy person even around family and I feel like I cant really be myself but I didn't mind it for a while but last year something happened and it's made me feel the loneliness alot more and I don't like but I don't want to seem like a pick me. None of my friends really text me or talk to me except one and around him I feel really happy cause I can vent to him but recently I haven't had alot of time to hang out with him and the loneliness has hit even harder than before it just feels like no one likes me or wants me (sry for sounding like a pick me). I know I post alot on this site and sry for venting but I just had to get off my chest.
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I've always been reserved shy person even around family and I feel like I cant really be myself but I didn't mind it for a while but last year something happened and it's made me feel the loneliness alot more and I don't like but I don't want to seem like a pick me. None of my friends really text me or talk to me except one and around him I feel really happy cause I can vent to him but recently I haven't had alot of time to hang out with him and the loneliness has hit even harder than before it just feels like no one likes me or wants me (sry for sounding like a pick me). I know I post alot on this site and sry for venting but I just had to get off my chest.
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well what happened last year? if u dont mind sharing ofc but idk what type of advice to offer besides just getting out of ur comfort zone and slowly trying to speak to more and more people
Well basically I wasn't able to get the grades for the GCSEs (which are finals in the UK) I wanted even after working my ass off to do so and all my friends except went into sixth form and I know I could just like meet up with them but I hurts how they haven't texted me alot since and I don't want to be an inconvenience. Also my parents after I got the grades were shitting on me for a long time after even tho they've been saying to every one that I was working so hard and said to me that I worked so hard and now almost my entire family is using it to put me down whenever they can
Hey man, loneliness is a very common thing for people and you shouldnt feel ashamed or like a pick me because you dont want to feel lonely. Its nice having people that you can count on to pick you without you asking them to, and its totally normal to feel that way. As for your loneliness, the only one that can help with that is yourself, do things you dont wanna do, step out your comfort zone to find and explore new things. Be yourself no matter who youre around with, dont lose yourself trying to be someone youre not for someone else. You can vent anytime you feel theres a need to vent because theres always gonna be people out there in the world that will give a fuck just like how im doing right now even though you have a bum ass username and a bum ass flair too
Idk I just kinda got used to it after a while but that's definitely not a healthy way to go about I guess you try taking the risk of getting to know your other friends better
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