stupid comments

This is a list of comments that i encounterd irl that i find are completly unnecessary

• "cut your hair"
  context: i am bio-male (<- i did not intent for this to cause arguments, #26 is context on why i wrote it) and chose to grow my hair out, so this comment i find just annoying
  https://www.vlr.gg/597829/stupid-comments/#26 (quick acces to context)
• "society isnt built around you"
  Ik, let me complain about our societal construct, I KNOW society isnt built around me
• "why am i paired with [my name]"
  like, i get it, im socially awkward, yet you complaining that you are paired with me, still hurts

those are all i can think off at the moment

I have never heard someone refer to themselves as a bio-male ever

just like ignore them don't let those stupid comments ever dictate what you do and just be yourself

that third one is rough, hasn’t happened much but when it does it hits harddd

cloudberry [#2]

I have never heard someone refer to themselves as a bio-male ever

nah
you edited your comment

Emmieeee [#3]

just like ignore them don't let those stupid comments ever dictate what you do and just be yourself

i get comments like those all the time and i just don't listen and just don't care about what others think when it comes to personal choices like how u dress how your hair is and if people don't like being with you most of the time its not a you problem its them

Foxym [#5]

nah
you edited your comment

Yeah I realized it could be misinterpreted

The main idea is still there though

Never had the 3rd one but thats mostly bc people made use of the fact id actually take stuff serious

oh no, i am so different and misunderstood, oh no

asunaluvr [#4]

that third one is rough, hasn’t happened much but when it does it hits harddd

true
for me it happens often
i have someone i once considerd a friend, in my class, that now gets pissy as soon as he hears my name in the same group as his name
(i dont have many friends in my school (1), doesnt matter since im in my final year though (my friends either go to a diffrent school or live in a diffrent country))

"bio male"

"stop meowing"

this one hurted😿 why cant people just let me be myself😭

Livvie [#11]

"bio male"

such a stupid term

Third one happened to me once

was someone i thought was a friend too

very harsh reality check

Foxym [#10]

true
for me it happens often
i have someone i once considerd a friend, in my class, that now gets pissy as soon as he hears my name in the same group as his name
(i dont have many friends in my school (1), doesnt matter since im in my final year though (my friends either go to a diffrent school or live in a diffrent country))

ohh im sorry:(

Livvie [#13]

such a stupid term

a trans woman is a biological woman

a trans man is a biological man

stfu

asunaluvr [#15]

ohh im sorry:(

sorry for venting

cloudberry [#2]

I have never heard someone refer to themselves as a bio-male ever

We are living in a dystopian world

Livvie [#16]

a trans woman is a biological woman

a trans man is a biological man

stfu

?

BerLINglazer [#19]

?

terms like "biological male" & "biological female" are often used against trans men and women as a way to say they arent men/women

most notably when it comes to sport

Foxym [#17]

sorry for venting

nono its fine dw

Livvie [#20]

terms like "biological male" & "biological female" are often used against trans men and women as a way to say they arent men/women

most notably when it comes to sport

i mean is it not an important distinction in terms of sport? u cant exactly have somebody who transitioned at 20 and underwent male puberty competing in the female division or it just wouldnt be fair

SAMPV6 [#9]

oh no, i am so different and misunderstood, oh no

Oh no, someone expressing their frustrations, oh no

it could be that im interpreting your comment wrong, if so i apoligize
otherwise:
people letting their frustrations out, even on an online forum can be benifitial for mental health because you can find people that relate, that feel the same way

Castawaytwizz [#22]

i mean is it not an important distinction in terms of sport? u cant exactly have somebody who transitioned at 20 and underwent male puberty competing in the female division or it just wouldnt be fair

trans women are shown to be on average weaker than cis women when transitioned

Livvie [#24]

trans women are shown to be on average weaker than cis women when transitioned

i would like to see where you're getting this from because there's no way this is real

Livvie [#13]

such a stupid term

most of my class doesnt know im non binary, so some of them tell me to fit "the male mould" basically, which i then dont understand because metal heads exist

also i thought it would be better for context

shrike- [#25]

i would like to see where you're getting this from because there's no way this is real

https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/58/11/586

Livvie [#27]

https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/58/11/586

also like

trans women who do no strength training go from being a (lets say) middling strength testosterone high person to a weak estrogen high person

Livvie [#20]

terms like "biological male" & "biological female" are often used against trans men and women as a way to say they arent men/women

most notably when it comes to sport

sry i dont quite get it

cuz op is using the term to describe himself, its not like hes using it hatefully

BerLINglazer [#29]

sry i dont quite get it

cuz op is using the term to describe himself, its not like hes using it hatefully

yea it just annoys me now i have context i kinda get it :P

Foxym [#26]

most of my class doesnt know im non binary, so some of them tell me to fit "the male mould" basically, which i then dont understand because metal heads exist

also i thought it would be better for context

ah i see

also

NB !!!!

Livvie [#28]

also like

trans women who do no strength training go from being a (lets say) middling strength testosterone high person to a weak estrogen high person

of course further research is needed but yea :P

Livvie [#31]

ah i see

also

NB !!!!

& good luck with your enbyness

cloudberry [#7]

Yeah I realized it could be misinterpreted

The main idea is still there though

#26 is context though for why i called myself that

https://www.vlr.gg/597829/stupid-comments/#26 (quick acces)

Livvie [#27]

https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/58/11/586

this seems like a very narrowed down experiment that only displays just a few metrics in which trans women athletes are shown to have less success than cis women athletes

it's a start but there's not enough evidence in this at all that trans women athletes are on average weaker than cis women athletes when, at least in mainstream sports, male postpubescent bodies have an adventage with greater muscle mass and higher bone density

shrike- [#35]

this seems like a very narrowed down experiment that only displays just a few metrics in which trans women athletes are shown to have less success than cis women athletes

it's a start but there's not enough evidence in this at all that trans women athletes are on average weaker than cis women athletes when, at least in mainstream sports, male postpubescent bodies have an adventage with greater muscle mass and higher bone density

yea i worded it badly but to me it shows signs that my belief that we are equal y'know

its not conclusive and we need more studies :3

Livvie [#36]

yea i worded it badly but to me it shows signs that my belief that we are equal y'know

its not conclusive and we need more studies :3

its also hard to conduct these studies as ppl are constantly reclassified as transgender or intersex etc

Cut your hair is a fair comment if you have haitstyle like manbun or something. 😿