why hate something more than the intention? you only cause harm to your own self by blowing things out of proportion, you can choose to be victimised, or you can choose to man up and not be affected by it, brushing things off is a sign of confidence instead of a sign of weakness. it shows that you are not easily affected by calamities that come your way, imagine you are hit with a loss of life, or something much greater? its not good to exaggerate, again, it only causes harm to yourself.
unless of course, you want the other person to suffer, which is a weak move imo, smart move; but its weak and cowardly.
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