h786
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riot wants you to keep playing so you will most likely go on a losing streak and then feel like you have to play again to get back up. they are controlling your dopamine system.

posted about a year ago

something that may benefit anyone if they want for it to benefit them

posted about a year ago

obviously it is wrong. you are creating difficulty for someone else, not only yourself. don't they feel guilty? but at the end of the day, half of the problem is the system which enables gambling - enabling addiction, wasting money, goes against the teachings of Allah most of all, you can argue but do some research and realise whatever rule Allah tells us to live by, is best for us, just have an open mind. don't get me wrong, they are also wrong for enabling their desires and getting money unlawfully, at the expense of other humans but also against Allah.

Don't you think you're angering Allah by hurting your fellow brother, who was created with the same love and perfection as you?
you may think its just a ranked game but imagine the same thing happened to you, and im not talking about just ranked, this is about your etiquette with your friends, family and people who you interact with.

in Surat Ar-Rahman, Allah says in ayah(verse) 60 "Is there any reward for goodness other than goodness?".

in surah Ahzab ayah 58 (And those who hurt believing men and believing women without their having done anything (wrong), they shall bear the burden of slander and a manifest sin.)

that it is forbidden (Haram) to cause any pain, harm or hurt any Muslim without a justification recognized by Shari’ ah.

In a hadith:
it was asked to the Prophet of Allah(Peace Be Upon Him):
"O Messenger of Allah(PBUH), what is backbiting?"
He(PBUH)said:
"It is when you mention something about your brother that he dislikes"
It was asked:
"But what if what I say about my brother is true?"
He(PBUH) said:
"If it is true, then you have committed backbiting about him, and if it is not true, then you have slandered him."

in another hadith:

Sahih Muslim (2581)
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The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to his companions:
“Do you know what bankrupt means?”

They said:
"Among us, the one who is bankrupt among us is the one who has no money or wealth"

He said:
“The one who is bankrupt among my ummah(people) is the one who will come on the Day of Resurrection
with prayer, fasting, zakah(alms tax)

but he will come having insulted this one,
slandered that one,
consumed the wealth of this one,
shed the blood of that one and beaten this one.

They will each be given from his good deeds, and if his good deeds run out before the scores have been settled, some of their bad deeds will be taken and cast upon him, then he will be thrown into Hell.”
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from one of the scholars commenting on a Hadith:

“Whoever harms [others]”
“Allah will harm him”
“Whoever causes hardship”
“Allah will cause hardship to him”

Al-Qaari (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

“Whoever harms [others]” means harming a believer, and being the first to stir up trouble.

“Allah will harm him” means: He will requite him for his action, by way of making the punishment fit the crime.

“Whoever causes hardship” means by opposing someone and showing hostility towards him,

“Allah will cause hardship to him” means He will punish him.

End quote from Mirqaat al-Mafaateeh (8/3156).

Secondly:

The questioner says
“but people are harming others at present, and Allah is not harming them”

; this may be answered in several ways:

-1-

There is nothing in the hadith to suggest that the requital for this harm must be in this world; rather the basic principle regarding requital is that it will take place in the hereafter, which is the arena of requital, although Allah may hasten whatever requital He wills to whomever He wills of His slaves. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And never think that Allah is unaware of what the wrongdoers do. He only delays them for a Day when eyes will stare [in horror]”

[Ibraaheem 14:42].

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in conclusion be very careful for how you treat people, since one day, out of nowhere you will be perceived with an affliction(in this life or the next) that you will ask yourself
"why did this happen to me?"

but, at the end of day, Allah still says:
But whoever repents after their wrongdoing and mends their ways, Allah will surely turn to them in forgiveness. Indeed, Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

Surah al-Ma`idah 5:39

posted about a year ago

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posted about a year ago

brother, i urge you to swear less just to see what kind of impact it has on your daily life.

posted about a year ago

shower every friday and also after being in a state of sexual impurity (most likely before fajr prayer since, you cannot pray the compulsory daily prayers if you are in a state of sexual impurity without ghusl(ritual shower))

posted about a year ago

one day you will realise nothing is under your control.

posted about a year ago

if not26-0 then fantic 👎

posted about a year ago

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posted about a year ago

islam

posted about a year ago

good luck with your future endeavors then.

posted about a year ago

its going to a tough couple of days, but once you get over the first hurdle, it gets easier, the real problem is porn itself, not the fapping part, (unless you think about porn while doing it). both are bad but porn is wayyy worse than fapping itself. just realise that if you feel low or depressed, that is your brain trying to reset your dopamine levels and its a form of withdrawal symptoms.

posted about a year ago

be honest, try it yourself, then tell us if you are addicted. you would be surprised to know how difficult it is sometimes, not trying to belittle your self control, but if you cannot try it, you will never know.

posted about a year ago

break out of the hive mind people

posted about a year ago

most studies based on what we humans consume are meant to lie to us, since companies from that specific industry pay the researchers and want us to keep consuming that so that they earn more money. in the 1960's , sugar companies paid researchers to to blame weight gain towards fat instead of sugar, From the 1930's to the 1950's, patients were prescribed cigarettes by the doctor, as they weren't looked at as dangerous as they are now. The cause of this was because tobacco brands hired throat doctors. for now look at all the processed food with an unhealthy amount of addicting chemicals being fed to your brain to keep you consuming unhealthy stuff. being sold and not a single person bats an eye. dont you think newer companies would have gotten sneakier with their approach to make sure certain studies are being put forward instead of others? P*rnography is unhealthy once you research why. it has the same effects cocaine has on the brain. it gives you an unhealthy amount of dopamine in such a short amount of time, its like an overdose of drug but you just dont realise it since you consume it with your eyes and not your mouth. i would suggest people reading this to have an open mind and do some research on the addiction. https://fightthenewdrug.org/

posted about a year ago
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