I would not want map queue times to be influenced by the playerbase like that. It's that simple. I don't want to be sitting in queue for 10 minutes and then looking up some stats website and finding out how the trends for right now affect my wait time.
I know "spamming 300 times" is hyperbole but this really sounds like a you issue. Check your tracker and show me if you're actually getting Abyss substantially more often than other maps.