Ok. I agree with the relative meaning of words with reference to the context in which they live in. I and the author disagree on the use of these words because we have different frames of reference.
Empathy argument
I genuinely think attempts to quantify empathy are even worse than attempts to quantify intelligence. The only proper objective measurement is a complete lack thereof. This leads to radically different definitions of the word -> making it easy to employ some custom definition to demonize groups of people you don't like (This makes me sound like some far right larper, i'm not).
also,
you don't need empathy for that
ehh i take that back. That would prove the commenter's point. I am simply discontent with the definitions used in modern discourse today.
Good laws (the ones that govern) are to some extent, built on the mirroring of another's experience, but steeped in rationality ( cause and effect), empirically observable phenomena. Bad things are bad because they cause bad things to happen. I like this much more, and that is why i proposed the constraints I did.
Physical harassment of players (cause, involuntary involvement of affected) -> actively endangers affected, (effect) [BAD]
doxxing (cause, involuntary involvement of affected) -> actively endangers affected, [BAD]
death threats (cause, involuntary involvement of affected) -> indeterminable effect, dependent on actor [waivable but very sus]
Trashtalk, flaming (cause, voluntary involvement of affected) -> ??? does not actively endanger affected, standalone, worst case scenario it lowers performance [Waivable]
Using this framework (enlarged in scope), it becomes much easier to optimize for the good of other people while minimizing preexistent biases . At least to me anyway.
Case study: I write a lot of code. If i push some trash unlinted code to production, and (for comfort, let's say this is some informal environment, some forum or something) and people on this forum flame the fuck outta me for it and call me retarded, i wouldn't exactly say these people are inhuman. I am expected to perform and i fell short. What comes next is the product of my own ineptitude. I can choose to let it harm me or not.
The only good argument against "being mean" is that it isn't constructive. Doesn't further progress. In a formal environment (platchat or wtvr), there would be no place for those types of comments. But in an informal one (vlr/twitter), all is permissible.
equality argument
Out of scope. As is bulk of our essays, tbh. You don't need to read this part, but i'll try to condense. I think equity is a useful tool to attain equality of outcome. That is a good thing to try to do. It gives ample opportunity to the people who can, in fact, hack it. I will forever be on the side of elevating those types. However the problem arises when most people start to think the reality of such programs (the outcomes will still remain inequal, even if it closes the gap a little) is caused by "inefficient equity" and tweak this proposed "equity" to get the outcomes they want , which is why the bulk of these programs start out good and quickly become corrupted.
Good case study: GC <- example of a good program (for now)
EDIT (sigh): remapped to avoid confusion, equity (properly applied equality) is affordable up to the point where it allows the capable % of concerned groups to catch up. Past that, it just promotes the incapable.
Mimesis was besides op's argument
This was only used to disagree with his base inherence thing. No more no less.
FINI: We will most likely agree to disagree, as we have different frames of reference. Ngl i was kinda just bored, and trying to pick a fight with a 0 star user for fun. I didn't even end up steelmaning my amoral man. Whatever tho. My bad 🤷♂️. I need to stop arguing on fucking vlr of all places. THIS IS WHY I SAID TO TURN YOUR BRAIN OFF AND JUST ENJOY THE SHOW