tell me ur problem

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fatpoipoiiii

tell ur problem here, we all anonymous here. at the end of paragraph, put one star if u want advice, put 2 star if u dont want advice because u only want to rant ur problem. i start first.

had a bad day this couple weeks. went from gold 2 to silver 3. my profesor that really hard to contact make my thesis progress really slow. if this keeps going on, the thesis will drag till the next semester and i have to pay tuition again which is no small amount. i want to get a job fast so i get out of my parent responsibility and give them money. in the end, time will pass and i believe life will get better. *

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cause na cant read

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NA education

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we dont claim him

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more power to u my friend. u will get through this phase of ur life

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thanks, you too my indian brother. hope the best for u

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i have to prepare for my upcoming exams but it is super boring
I dont want to do them.

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have a shit ton of submission to do and lets just say I cant spend money well(eating outside, buying sneakers, games)like

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like what? put some good music, play some valorant between and do that submission! goodluck to u my brother be strong

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chapati

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emphasis on SHIT ton bro like really shit ton

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yeah that sucks. gotta work hard so we can buy anything we want in the future!

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just wanna make my parents proud

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I hate studying, I just want to play video games.

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you'll grow out of it in time

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I'm not sure, it's been a couple of years and I still want to game a lot, I can't wait for the summer.

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nobody like studying. but in the end we got to do it cause its our responsibility and sign of commitment to ourselves. goodluck to u my brother!

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Of course, if I don't study, I will be fucked for the rest of my life, thx brother, good luck you too

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its my last year of engineering, i have been waiting until the last semester of year because my dream companies come very late for placements(recruitment),but there is much competition,i don't know how my parents feel if dont get a job.**

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try your best man

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Why you even worry about Placement You can apply off campus too with better opportunities and if you know you have Good Programming skill you can apply for remote work Earn IN Usd

But to get that Job you need to be Skillful not Competitive

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thanks for the advice

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Welcome People Alway tend narrow down there vision and look on just a small piece of the bigger picture
There are so many opportunity out there Online , Dude Just Chill and Look What you actually want to do

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same feeling like me actually. hope the best for u my brother, we can do it!

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Engineering fams really worry about everything else just chill and don't let other things bug you.

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fatpoipoiiii

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not only engineering, other major also feel it haha

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I HECKIN LOVE ENGINEERING BatChest "SAB WO HI KARTE HAIN" BatChest "BOHOT SCOPE HAI"

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What are your dream companies btw and Salary expectations?? Dnt get this fucking advice that off-campus, remote work(earning in usd) is ez. Hardly 2-3 months left in your engineering. Get the job fast, off-campus is 10times harder than getting placed through college. Keep doing Leetcode, ez placements.

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my dream companies : iocl,gail,hpcl

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My classes got delayed.fml

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whats wrong with that? doesnt that mean more time to play and sleep?

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You can say everything Inc placements got postponed with it

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Suffering from psoriasis..... My self esteem is at all time low.

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just google it cause i dont know psoriasis. must be hard on u. but to be honest a lot of people didnt notice skin disease. even if people notice they probably only think for 30 secs then forget about u. be confident brother, i believe there are good qualities from u!

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I have to Choose between Engineering and Medical
I genuinely don't know which one to choose.
I love Biology but it gets quiet hard after a while (You can't memorize shit).
And my math is ass but it's getting better.

⭐+⭐⭐

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LAW Will Save You

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I love History / Social Studies / Economics / Geography but I don't see myself getting a job in that field.
aka "Parents won't allow"

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may i know what job do u want?

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I don't know
In a Ideal world I would be a Doctor / Lawmaker
but anything that pays great is fine.

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there are this misconception that with law, u need to memorize a lot. but in reality u dont. instead, its like solving a puzzle. if u really like solving something or offer solution, i guess law good for u. do research a lot in movie aboout lawyer, or about doctor if u confused. there are a lot of youtube videos about people experience with their job like lawyer, or doctor. goodluck too u

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Unfortunately my parents only want Doctor / Engineer because many in my dads side is a Engineer while my in my mom side there are few doctors.
It would only happen in a ideal world.
well I have seen a few Doctors
only problem being memory and it's very time taking compared to other fields.

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same my mother also want me to become a doctor. but i hate science so much so i neglect my studies. its been really bad my class ranking are 37/37. then with my parent i talk a lot about science and social. in the end they let me pick whatever subject i want and the first semester my gpa are perfect. its probably a very taboo thing to say this considering we are asian, but "in the end its us who live our live. why do something that we know we dont like and fucked it up?" i already fucked up once, dont let that happen to u. its important to tell this with ur parent, have a heart to heart convo. goodluck too u, its never easy to convince asian parent.

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May I ask you what field are you in?

also, My Only problem being why do I have to study physics and Chemistry to be a doctor? will I have to test aerodynamics on a newborn? I understand maybe because of medicine I have to learn Chemistry but why Physics?

Bad news: my parents are facing more towards Engineering than Medical.
If I even got the opportunity to be a Engineer I would probably choose Architecture.
my maths is REALLY BAD compared to the average Indian Engineer bandwagon rider.

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I study law. Want to be lawyer. Idk about india, but in indonesia my friend that major in doctor as far as i know didnt learn physics. Chemistry maybe. Guess u really hate physics huh. In Indonesia, there are university exam for public which call sbmptn. In china i think its gaokao. I just apply and got in. The tuition are cheaper than private univ too so i have positive condition that let my parent put me in law major. U could try that too. Getting in good univ exam for degree that u like are not easy, and prove that u serious about this major. That can convince ur parent

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In India you have to clear one of the most competitive exams in India called NEET to study to become a doctor. And NEET consists of Biology, Chemistry and fucking Physics (I hate equations). That's the problem.
Physics doesn't count of a huge number but there are significant benifits if u do good in it.

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damn so thats why. going to be hard on u, but sometimes we gotta do what we dont want to. i hope the best for u milan, u bring a lot of fun to this website so i hope u have fun too! i believe in u

continue thread →

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Try Computer science if you are interested in any of the fields in it. I was in the same thought process but I've decided to get into 3D designing. But if not interested then don't even think about it. It would turn into a curse.

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Hahah Many People Just Jump into Programming For The Pay which is not wrong but they are just doing for the sake of doing and you will eventually burnout

That Why What i prefer is Make Some You like to do a Hobby and Soon that Hobby will turn into Monetary value

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but if try making money with ur hobby it could ruin your hobby and u dont have fun anymore. usually there are cases like that.

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It Still better than the first case tho

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Yeah that's the sad possibility.

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I wanna do it because I like it. Also I have a creative mind. Helps a lot there.

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Im also studying game design arts

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i ahve the same problem my dude

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TSM isn't winnig shit

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that aint a problem thats u being dumb dumb supporting tsm

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Well it obviously is a problem for me, btw look at your flair lol boom ain't winning shit either

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boom : https://www.vlr.gg/49636/south-built-esports-vs-boom-esports-royal-sea-challenge-playoffs-gf

tsm : https://www.vlr.gg/68726/built-by-gamers-vs-tsm-champions-tour-north-america-stage-1-challengers-lr4

imagine kicking bang from the team and end up lose from bang LMAO

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https://www.vlr.gg/29258/tsm-vs-faze-clan-champions-tour-north-america-stage-3-challengers-2-gf
Why are you linking me results from november 2021

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https://www.vlr.gg/67116/boom-esports-vs-team-frog-champions-tour-indonesia-stage-1-challengers-opening-a

where tsm on groupstage?

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NA and SEA teams differ a little in quality of gameplay buddy :)

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envy are not na? lmaooooooooooooooo

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did boom esports beat envy?

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Man i can do this bait thing anymore, its not my style. Sorry calypso. All tsm need are time for chemistry, they are potential threat.

Also boom gonna beat envy 2-0 ez quick and easy

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Hopefully they'll win smth next week in YFP or Knights tourney

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tsm academy maybe

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I have quite a lot of shit too study but i have been studying realy less with respect to time for eg:-i be on the same chapter for like 3 hours and have finished like 4-5 pages and i keep getting distracte..idk wt to do*

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i know friend when its time to learn, he shut down his phone, put it away then study with only book. goodluck too u, i believe in u

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Yea will try my best to do that thanks man

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No problem right now. But I know I am gonna have a lot once 12th grade is done and get into 1st year UG. Just hope don't get forced to do something I don't like at all die to some unfortunate stuff.

If you ask what's making me sad then only thing would be EG and India not getting the recognition cuz they just started adapting to meta and stuff *

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india are slowly getting recognition with whole sa team. time will tell. also in life sadly u will do something that u dont like. when that time comes, just remember u doing this so u could doing thing u like. goodluck to u! also, freshman in college. my advice just go out a lot with friends, play a lot. its the last moment before u going to working enviroment. but dont forget ur studies!

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I would be making new friends in freshman year probably. Wanna live the hostel life. Mainly because parents lost hope from me and now it's just kinda demotivating now

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fatpoipoiiii

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damn must be hard for u. its okay buddy we all been there. even though im stranger, i believe in u will do something great in the future!

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Thanx bro! Hope you reach your goal too!

I want to try and be a content creator like markiplier or vanoss. But twitter and controversies makes me question my choice sometimes. But again these examples I gave clearly show that the way to success is driving your career car with a middle finger out of your window to the controversies. My creative ideas would help a lot in that field.

But gonna do 3D designing before that. The creative mind would help there too. Wanna have a stable job before going into content creation for 2-3 years at least so I know I have a plan B.

What are your goals?

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Yeah bro. Life is not a competition. Ur life belong to u. My goals tbh just financially stable for myself right now. Dont give a crap what job, as long i got paid. Wanna save up to get money so i can buy new phone and laptop for work and valorant. Outside of that, i dont want anything tbh.

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my problem is that guy that posted the boaster pic thread

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fatpoipoiiii

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YEAH MAN FRICK THAT GUY GOT HEART ATTACK

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Ikr. My eyes, ears and my heart showed a middle finger to that guy.

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brother, i believe in u goodluck too u!

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Not recent, it happened last year.
Meet my ex, have a chat and at some point she confess to me that she ever become pregnant with me. She didn't told me because at that point our relationship is already not good and she know if she tell me I will ask to marry her. So she choose to do abortion and later end our relationship. **

Not really problem, but I can't get it over my head. It feels like I've done something very wrong but you can't change it and the victim (my ex) just don't care about it. Abortion is like killing your own child, and I feel like I did that even I didn't do anything. I even didn't know at that time.

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holy shit damn, since u put 2 stars imma just sent virtual hug. hope the best for u mentally!

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Yeah, more like a mental health to me. Thanks man,

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fatpoipoiiii

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Semangat bro, 2 hari lagi tim indo main. Bakal seru sihhh

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This thread is a reminder that we all have problems and have to deal with it, which is hard sometimes. We should try to be kinder to each other, a little kindess goes a long way :).

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Thanks

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I'm gonna start my own business soon and I'm a little insecure ><

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gl mens

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Good luck buddy! Don't be over confident. Don't doubt.your decisions either.
Do any of these and you fall down.

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i plan my business for 3 months. already survey for place and all i need to do just looking for investor. already had testing market and it was good. but covid show up and frick up the whole plan. now that plan go to garbage sadge. hope good thing comes to u!

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GL bro all the best

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Scoliosis is a bitch

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Scollosis?

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Idk if that the name but I got back problems, my back is slightly more curved and it makes it difficult to stand up for a long time

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Yeah thats the name. Pretty sure u can recover from that. Get well soon bro

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Thx <3

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i'm brazilian

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Praying for your recovery 🙏 ❤ 💓

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ty man 🙏

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Got me good

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Liquid's on a 2L streak

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the streak about to grow even more dont worry!

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cant get out of diamond, too inconsitent. either 30 bomb or run around like a silver with no focus to the game

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hard reset hit hard

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I have a lack of self-confidence and this causes big problems in my social life. For example, I have a presentation, before the presentation day I am starting to get stressed and that causes sleeping problems. I started to think those who are around me causes that, my friends are bullying me sometimes but idk if I am figuring it in my mind, do I have mental problems or sth I really think I am losing my mind because of them. I really don't know how to overcome it and how to surpass them that's why I wrote that down here. Thanks for all your advice in advance.*

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U lack confidence my friend. Also u lack experience in socialize. Used to be u in highschool. My hand are shaking in presentation or doing school project. Talk to stranger and the only thing i can say is yes or no. Then i join a lot of organization in college. Did a lot of mistake to people and fuck up some of my relationship. But in the end i got experience and confident to talk. My advice, dont be scared if people "reject" u. Just move on and u will meet new people. Try small talk like how are u then improve slowly. Also with my friend i also thought that sometimes because they make fun of me a lot. This one group really starting get toxic and i get mad and out of that relationship. I believe u can do it

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thank you for your advice I will try it

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i broke up with my ex a few months ago, because of her mental illness (diagnosed with several and she had really tough life no one could expect). I had to let her go because I didnt want her to get stressed and she was the one who broke up with me. the problem is that we still talk daily and i cant get over her. Also she moved to a different country a few weeks after the breakup so i really dont know what to do might end up getting emiliatan body pillow to forget about her*

the story is literally 5 times more complicated but i couldnt put it in paragraph

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Going to sound very mean, but if u want to forget somebody then dont talk to her. I think its impossible to friend ur ex. Ur going to make hard choice and u not gonna like it but i believe ur going to get through this. Also dont buy body pillow, buy emilia fleshlight instead. Goodluck

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I wanna be a pro player, but i work to get all stuff to reach that goal (decent monitor, decent desk) i know that without the necessary time probably i can't reach that goal, but i know as well that without work i can't get all stuff to reach that goal, idk what i can do... (no fun pls) *

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Are ur goal to be "pro" or to play competitively? Cause if u want to play competitively i believe u can join small tourney with ur friend. But if u wanna become pro then realistically, u need to choose. U also have to make some sacrifice in ur life. My dad friend once told me, when ur young you gotta try everything because when ur old u cant try even if u want to. Goodluck i hope u make the good choice for u.

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thanks dude thats help me a lot :)

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Work ethic is really low. I know where I'm wrong at many things but failing miserably at fixing them rn :( .
My family really really needs me do better rn cuz of the tight circumstances and I'm just not doing it. But I ain't giving up, atleast thats good. But I gotta really really get my life back on track. Because of the covid situation and stuff I have lost will of literally doing anything. But that's no excuse, right? No ambition, no nothing at all. Also got worse in studies and shit. Gotta find that fire from within, man and I gotta do it now

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Its hard, but u got to make that little step bro. Like doing work for 5 minute first then play. Then do it again for longer time. Ur saying not giving up already better than most of people. It means u got that spirit. I believe in u my brother. About failing, no matter. Truth to be told, nobody really cares about ur failure. I fail a lot then i thought people gonna judge me but nope, people support me and people dont know me dont give a shit. Keep that in mind and if u fail just try again when u in better condition. Life is not competition, everybody got different time to finish something. Goodluck to u

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Thank you very much for the inspiring words

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RATIO

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Okay

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anyone has a cure for laziness. im not doing what im supposed to and im just wasting time in some way or another. ill appreciate any sort of advice

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Exactly this. This is my problem as well :(

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Honestly bro, you have to take it one day at a time. The biggest thing I can recommend is developing healthy habits and being consistent with them. For me, I got really into lifting and bodybuilding. It was a lot of commitment, but it was something I enjoyed and it helped to change my mindset and in turn, helped me to commit and work towards things I disliked doing as well.

Something else that helped me was having a good support system around me. My dad was one of those old heads who spent his youth as a logger working with big ass trees to support his whole family. Anytime I found myself lacking in motivation, I could turn to him and he would give me some advice or try to help me with the situation if he could. Building up a group of people who believe and support you was huge for me.

Outside of those things I'm not sure what else to recommend. Each person is gonna have different things that work for them so try to find yours :) GL to you friend

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I'm on this site

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well thats a big problem

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Found out my crush/good friend liked a guy that i thought was really annoying.

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MAN WE GOT THE SAME PROBLEMMM :(

but its 5 years ago. im like, out of all guy u pick that one? well no advice on that one, all i can say are nt

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all good

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Im at the age where i realised i cant play val my whole life and have to focus on a future*

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me too mate :(

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in life u gotta make sacrifice so u can have more fun in the future. life need balance after all. hope the best for ur future man.

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You're an amazing person

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u too buddy

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I have bowel problems I never really went to a doctors for it because its been normal for a long time now so I never thought anything about it about 4-9 constipations per month*
my defintion of constipation is bascially it harder to poop

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eat more veggiessssssss, dont skip the green my friend.