I finally made some friends in college(or so I thought)
I heard them bitching about me when I was going somewhere but they didn't notice(or maybe didn't give a fuck)
So what do I do now?
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Idk why my life is so fucked up.
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It's really hard for me.
Plus everyone in my batch knows I have schizophrenia so they stay away.
You shouldn't care to much. I suppose its easy for me to say but you just gotta talk to people. If it works it works if it doesn't it doesn't.
I tried.
Never had any real friends in school.
Now my college life is almost over and all the social interaction I have is with the people on vlr.gg
Try even more. Thats also fine? Though it doesn't have to be on VLR plenty of places to make friends online
If they’re afraid of your mental health, they aren’t the people you want around you (as long as you’re taking your meds)
I just called one of them when i was having a hallucination.
Rest I try to not bother anyone with my symptoms.
But when it gets really serious I make some stupid decisions which in this case was calling her ig?
There are other people to become friends with and if what they were saying is true, then maybe you have to work on yourself
It's just my symptoms of schizophrenia.
I can't control them.
I just called one of them when I was having a hallucination.
I was crying.
They were making fun of me for crying.
Well I mean if your symptoms are out of control, you have bigger fish to fry and maybe a support group is the way for social contact once you’re stable on your meds
It's not really out of control.
It just gets overwhelming at times.
I'm able to function as a normal human being 95% of the time.
"So what do I do now" lol good question I've been asking the same thing, if you're living an active life just try to be as normal as you can, hope to meet someone who is accepting of your qualities and flaws.
I'm someone with autistic traits, so a lot of people might be offput by that, and we're living in a time where people don't really talk to each other in public anymore. If I were to talk to people in a mall, park, cafe, etc they likely wouldn't want to have a conversation. Some might think you're a creep, might think you're weird or that it's strange that you're randomly approaching them, might think you're just looking for money. Who even asks out girls in public anymore?
Yeah.
I mean I expected people from my batch to be a little more accomodating since we are studying psychology.
And these people will become future therapists.
I pray for their patients.
Yeah but they'll pay money to someone like this.
That's why I'll pray for the patients.
Yeah that's just unlucky. Typically people make friends by attending the same college, studying at the same library, sharing professors, going to the same events, eating at the same cafeteria, etc but I didn't have much luck with that. Nicest people I've met who I've clicked with instantly have been online.
what #11 said
u need to find people who understand u, it's hard but finding people who actually care is never that easy
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