it's nobody's business and breaking up so you can grow as people by yourselves is completely valid (especially when they've been going out since before they were even adults lol)
incels don't believe in personal growth outside of a relationship because they expect unconditional love and respect for who they are right now without giving any back, especially when they can't see themselves improving as people any time soon
anyone saying there was some sort of exploitation on any side of this whole thing is either too parasocial or mentally handicapped or both













