What you lot seem to not be able to understand is, you set standards for men or women likewise that are so unrealistic, you will be left searching for that person. Because in life some things are important. The thing I've always told myself is when I can run my own kitchen is when I should be able to get married or even do as much as search for love. Sometimes in life you just have to genuinely see if you mesh with a person well. Looks to a certain standard can be important especially if it means that they aren't taking care of themselves, a.k.a too fat, horrible skin, smoker, excessive drinker. However, at the end of the day you have to end up living with someone looks won't define how the house runs. Things like a stable income, meshing personalities, communication, mutual understanding, love, aligned goals. These are things that help make a house into a home. This is also why a lot of people on vlr won't find someone important like this till they all wake the fuck up. Go out have a little fun. Explore yourselves and always strive to be better for yourself as well as your future.
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