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#1
Kurkure

I want to talk about something really important, something which is the reason you feel miserable day to day.

life doesn’t change because you understand things
it changes because of what you do, consistently
your actions are the only thing shaping your future

Your work is the most important thing in your life
not your opinions, not your image, not what others think
work doesn’t just mean a job—it’s whatever you truly care about
it can be art, a goal, gaming, studying—doesn’t matter
what matters is being honest with yourself and committing to it
if it matters to you, stop treating it casually
people say “you only live once, enjoy it”
but even enjoyment feels empty without something you’re building
comfort is nice in the moment, but it doesn’t leave a mark
want respect? work
want peace? work
want to be free? do the work that takes you there
not once, not when you feel like it—every day
no shortcuts, no hacks—just what you do daily

whatever your work is—be true to it
"Balance is the key, yes—but your boat drifts in the direction you lean. If you want to shift to the other side, it won’t happen gently. You’ll need a deliberate leap of effort, and the courage to let go of the side you’ve been holding onto."

#2
FranceIsShite
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thanks man gonna kill myself now

#3
flashy_flash
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your work- posting on vlr! get a job lmao

#6
Kurkure
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Trust me I'm great and am way much more free while being fulfilled in life.
I have great health, great money and great social life
My posts won't affect me but maybe your posts may hold you back in life.

It's just advice, you can always ignore it

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flashy_flash
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i mean if you had great social life, would you even be here, internet is just a refuge for people who have not so good social life. youd be out exploring the world, doing something adventurous, learning something new or maybe.....

#9
Kurkure
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I play valorant and like vct

#4
TenzZek
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Hmmm

#5
Schneefeuer1
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allat

#7
Laundry
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I’m gonna respectfully disagree :3
Your value and importance shouldn’t be defined by your work, but by the good and happiness that you bring into yourself and others.
I love what I do at my job, but it isn’t what is most important about me. Unironically, I think having genuine conversations and treating people online and on vlr with kindness and love is more important than the work I do day to day.
You don’t have to work harder and harder every day, just being nice to people and doing good in the world and building meaningful relationships is so much more important for me :)

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Kurkure
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That correct 100%, maybe I can't articulate my words properly
I meant to say that work, whether studying, a job you love or anything you can do for hours and can say thet wasn't hardwork, shall be done truly with your heart. You have to dedicate yourself to it and define yourself by your actions.
Your actions should define your good heart, doing good is actions, being nice is actions, be true to you actions

I'm sorry I'm new to writing and fumbled here

#12
Kurkure
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Regarding my post I made, it actually sounds sick. I didn't mean to articulate that and just submitted it before even checking it once after typing

#13
Laundry
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bro you're fine 😭❤️no need to worry about it, please don't be sorry. you're absolutely right, dedicating yourself to something you love is never a bad thing, all I disagree with is that it is the only way to find peace and importance, and I think you disagree with that too. it's okay man, what you said genuinely is really helpful for many people, dedicating yourself to a craft you love is always a great thing. it was just a small disagreement I had with it, nothing you said is actually sick or anything to be sorry about :) dw gang you didn't fumble nothing <3

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botfragger432
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can smell the nihilism around here

#14
SnorlaxEnjoyer
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I can smell that very nihilism too

#15
1nshh
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so how do we find "work"? Many people just genuinely don't know what things make them happy, they just exist. I envy people who have things they genuinely care about or a goal they look upto.

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